Ok, so in my wedding I have a Matron of Honor (who lives 10 hours away in Florida) and I have a Maid of Honor (lives locally). The reason for having two is because one is local and can participate and help plan. The one who lives in Florida is truly my very best friend and the one I am so close to. Well.... let's just say they're both being lame.
The one who lives locally hasn't done a damn thing! My mom has planned the engagement party all by herself. I have tried to talk to this MOH multiple times about things that need to be planned only to get either no response or told that I am freaking out over nothing and that if I want to "stress myself out then go right ahead" but "she's not about to do that." She also stopped talking to me for a period of time because her boyfriend is not invited to the wedding. Her boyfriend is a known drug dealer and user and has passed out in public on more than one occasion due to the drugs he takes. I told her I'm sorry but I would not be inviting him because 1. the guest list has to be kept short and we had already cut like 75 or more friends and relatives, and 2. because she knows how I feel about him and there will be police there, so if he passes out at a table, I would be so embarrassed. So yesterday I had planned to ask her to step down as MOH and just let someone else take over because it's obvious that she has no time to participate and contribute to planning events.
Well, before I could approach her, the Matron of Honor that lives in Florida texted me to tell me that her husband has said they will not travel to Louisiana for any reason. So she won't come alone because she says she can't handle her three kids by herself. I could go on and on about that in itself, but I won't.
I am so pissed at both of them....
Ok, just had to vent.