I'm new to these boards, but have been following them for a while. Over and over and over I read innocently posted questions, some just naive, and some of the responses are downright evil! Why do people feel the need to post such harsh and mean things to complete strangers? If you don't like the original question or you think something is rude/tacky/inappropriate, why respond at all? I thought these boards were to give and get real advice? I'm scared to post any more! What happened to manners! Please give me hope that there are kind and helpful brides on here!