I judge...

midgetthemighty · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I agree with you -- to a point. I get telemarketers who call at work all the time. I try to be polite as far as I can. But if a telemarketer keeps pushing me after I've repeatedly said we're not interested at this time, they're getting hung up on.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Agreed. This happens far too often for my tastes. No means no. I <em>still</em> get phone calls and mail from Sirius radio when I had a free trial for 6 months from my new car. I've told them I'm not interested in paying for a subscription more times than I can count.

Beachy730 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : You listen to me when I tell you how to post!
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

<div>You're such a whore! Haha no really though, I hate debates rehashed over and over so I'll listen. For now at least.</div>

angelstar975 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I judge people who have children yet post pics of themselves out boozing it up every.single.weekend. I seriously have a friend with thousands of pictures of her and her H out at clubs/bars Thur-Sun every week, and her album that is labeled family has 4 pictures in it. When you know the drink special at every bar within a 30 mile radius, but you can't remember your parent teacher conference, you might want to reevaluate your priorities.
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

I'm going to piggy back off this. I have a girl on my friend's list who has a son and she's out partying every night and goes to the beach all summer long. When she split from the father, she didn't want custody because she's "not responsible enough" to have a child full time. Biiitch, you're 30 years old, get responsible. I judge her hardcore.

NicoleSahara · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I always thought it was hypocritical too. Pretty sure it's even in the New Testament too, so the NT rules trump OT rules arguement doesn't work (If I'm correct, that is. I might not be. My religious schooling is getting a bit rusty)
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

I don't think the NT addresses tattoos, pretty sure it was just an OT thing. So while I don't think it's hypocritical, it's NMS.

mari0225 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : On the same line as this, I get horribly pissed and judgy of store workers (particuarily Kohls) that ask me if I want to sign up for a CC. The first time, I'm very nice when I decline because I know it's part of their job. However, the last time I was there, they guy asked 4 times, in 4 different ways. Yeah, the bitchiness came out a little after that.
Posted by dumdumfroggie[/QUOTE]

That has happened to me before, yeah I ended up getting bitchy and I think I said something like, "Well you pay off the 5K credit card we owe on and then i'll happy to get a new one." I know that was out of line, but sometimes they just won't stop.

acaponi87 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : We got rear-ended (ended up being no damage to our car but hers was a different story) last week by a 17 y/o girl. Baby Bee was in the car and I was a pissed off Mother Bear when I got out of the car.
Posted by Mrs.B6302007[/QUOTE]

I rear-ended someone once (really it was like a tap. 0 damage to either vehicle) and she got out of the car and started screaming at me "WTF I HAVE A CHILD IN HERE WHAT ARE YOU EFFING DRUNK", etc.

Yes lady, I am hammered on a Sunday afternoon and I saw that you had a small child in your car so I hit you on purpose. /sarcasm/

SugarFoote · June 2012

I judge patients who come in with fresh manicures, expensive everything on, and then gripe and complain because they have a $10 copay.

I also judge patients who bring in their babies with terrible rashes all over their bodies and then say that it has been going on for 6 months! Why the hell would you wait that long to see a doctor?

mari0225 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I've had a telemarketer here at work yell at me and accusing me of lying to him. He wanted to speak to the person in charge of making purchasing decisions. I said "I'm sorry, he's in a meeting right now, can I please take a message?" he said "Well...who else can I talk to?" "He is the only person who can make these decisions." "WHy won't you let me talk to him?" "Sir, he's in a meeting" "I get the feeling you're not letting me talk to him." "Sir. He's in a meeting, so no you cannot talk to him" rudeass hung up on me after that. Too bad he never said what company he was from.
Posted by Beaniebeach[/QUOTE]

Ugh that would drive me nuts! And then piss me off more that I didn't get to hang up first.

midgetthemighty · June 2012

I hated being required to ask people if they wanted to sign up for a store CC and only did so when a manager was standing close by or I thought the customer would actually benefit from it (which was rare).

LDYGTR13 · June 2012

I judge SAHMs that have Nannies.

mari0225 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I hated being required to ask people if they wanted to sign up for a store CC and only did so when a manager was standing close by or I thought the customer would actually benefit from it (which was rare).
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]

It can't be fun, and I get asking once so i'll politely decline but geez when they ask over and over it's just not cool and then try and make me feel bad for not getting one.

crash2729 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I agree with you -- to a point. I get telemarketers who call at work all the time. I try to be polite as far as I can. <strong> But if a telemarketer keeps pushing me after I've repeatedly said we're not interested at this time, they're getting hung up on.</strong>
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
This.
Or the lying ones. We have people call all the time to talk to the owner (who is 80+ and never here). He kept trying to convince me that he JUST spoke with him on his cell phone so I should give out that number.
When I told him...well, he doesn't have one. He went on about "EVERYONE has a cell phone" and hung up on me.

Mrs.B6302007 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I rear-ended someone once (really it was like a tap. 0 damage to either vehicle) and she got out of the car and started screaming at me "WTF I HAVE A CHILD IN HERE WHAT ARE YOU EFFING DRUNK", etc. Yes lady, I am hammered on a Sunday afternoon and I saw that you had a small child in your car so I hit you on purpose. /sarcasm/
Posted by acaponi87[/QUOTE]

Well, I was composed enough to not accuse her of being drunk. ;-)

On a serious note, I highly suspected texting was the cause. =-/

PetalPockets2012 · June 2012

I'm glad you guys were alright Mrs. B.

adamar15 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : Yes. Exactly. We had a security company guy come by the house Tuesday, I was like "Sorry, we're moving, we don't need a security system right now, but thanks" and tried to close the door. <strong>He stopped it with his hand</strong>and said "well, we work in North Carolina too! I can go ahead and sign you up for your new house!" Dude. BTFO.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

I would have flipped the fuuck out. Seriously.

aragx6 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I've had a telemarketer here at work yell at me and accusing me of lying to him. He wanted to speak to the person in charge of making purchasing decisions. I said "I'm sorry, he's in a meeting right now, can I please take a message?" he said "Well...who else can I talk to?" "He is the only person who can make these decisions." "WHy won't you let me talk to him?" "Sir, he's in a meeting" "I get the feeling you're not letting me talk to him." "Sir. He's in a meeting, so no you cannot talk to him" rudeass hung up on me after that. Too bad he never said what company he was from.
Posted by Beaniebeach[/QUOTE]

Oh hell yeah, if someone is rude to you, I'd be pissed as well. But the getting mad because they call you all the time thing? It's simplly not that person's fault -- their computer dials a number for them and that's who they call. The company might be run like shitt or engage in bad business practices, but it's still not that person's fault.

baystateapple · June 2012

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[QUOTE]Another one - <strong>I judge the hell out of people who think that if you don't have kids you must be rich.</strong> One of my friends is like this and it drives me absolutely batty. Just because I don't have a kid doesn't mean that my entire paycheck is fun money. I have these things that adults pay called bills. And if you and your 7 year old both have iPhone 4's and Kindle Fires you're actually doing a hell of a lot better than me with my $70 smart phone and old-school Kindle, thanks.
Posted by lovethebeach16[/QUOTE]
Or if you don't have kids, you have no stress.

Last summer when we lost power for a week I was bitching about how uncomfortable it was (it was damn hot and we lost all our food), and my aunt snapped "You don't even have kids!" FTR, her "kids" are 13 and 15. I could sympathize if she had little babies (I cannot imagine how rough it must be to have babies or toddlers and no power in the sweltering heat), but come on.

Ali092011 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I judge patients who come in with fresh manicures, expensive everything on, and then gripe and complain because they have a $10 copay. I also judge patients who bring in their babies with terrible rashes all over their bodies and then say that it has been going on for 6 months! Why the hell would you wait that long to see a doctor?
Posted by SugarFoote[/QUOTE]

I agree with this. I'll tell people they have a $40 copay and they'll be like, "WHAT? The insurance didn't cover ANY of it?" Yes, moron, they did. You're getting a $215.99 medication for $40. Some people aren't lucky enough to have insurance. Get over it.

ETA: to make sense.

LDYGTR13 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : Clearly I'm doing this as I go along so this could have been covered, but the Bible also had dudes with extra wives and you couldn't eat bacon.
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
It's a hypocritical little book too. I just think it's funny when people are super religious or religious enough to tattoo a bible verse or something, but ignore the verse about not marking your body or whatever it is. <div>
</div><div>Just hypocritical. </div>

dumdumfroggie · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : Or if you don't have kids, you have no stress. Last summer when we lost power for a week I was bitching about how uncomfortable it was (it was damn hot and we lost all our food), and my aunt snapped "You don't even have kids!" FTR, her "kids" are 13 and 15. I could sympathize if she had little babies (I cannot imagine how rough it must be to have babies or toddlers and no power in the sweltering heat), but come on.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

<div>Huh, I didn't know that kids made the hotness even more uncomfortable.</div><div>
</div><div>The more you know.</div>

PetalPockets2012 · June 2012

I judge people who make comments about how people in education get summers off like we have the easiest job and are so lucky for all that time off. Um, we don't get paid for that. I actually have money taken out of my salary so that I receive a check. I just judge the ones who seem to think we get paid for that or something. Might be UO.

midgetthemighty · June 2012

Mari, I completely agree. No still means no!

Beanie, XM never had any of my CC information so no worries. I never paid for it. It came with my car. That's really crappy for your mom though. Boo.

SugarFoote · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I agree with this. I'll tell people they have a $40 and they'll be like, "WHAT? The insurance didn't cover ANY of it?" Yes, moron, they did. You're getting a $215.99 medication for $40. Some people aren't lucky enough to have insurance. Get over it.
Posted by Ali092011[/QUOTE]

This is why I think 90% of our patients are morons because they don't understand that. And Lord help you if you try and explain it to them.

MattsPenguin · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I don't think the NT addresses tattoos, pretty sure it was just an OT thing. So while I don't think it's hypocritical, it's NMS.
Posted by NicoleSahara[/QUOTE]

The OT sounds right. I'm not Jewish, but I thought that if you had a tattoo, you couldn't be given a proper Jewish burial. I could be making stuff up though.

Carry on.

MattsPenguin · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : I'm going to piggy back off this. I have a girl on my friend's list who has a son and she's out partying every night and goes to the beach all summer long. When she split from the father, she didn't want custody because she's "not responsible enough" to have a child full time. Biiitch, you're 30 years old, get responsible. I judge her hardcore.
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

At least she admits her shortcomings. (Doesn't mean she shouldn't have thought of the responsibility before she had a child, though.)

SugarFoote · June 2012

I also judge patients who can't tell me what medications they are taking. I get that maybe you don't know what the name of it is, but when you can't tell me what the medication is for, then maybe you should rethink taking it.

NicoleSahara · June 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge... : It's a hypocritical little book too. I just think it's funny when people are super religious or religious enough to tattoo a bible verse or something, but ignore the verse about not marking your body or whatever it is. Just hypocritical.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

Women cut their hair and pierce their ears now too, because the OT law was done away with once Christ came. I don't see that as hypocritical.

Mrs.B6302007 · June 2012

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[QUOTE]I judge people who make comments about how people in education get summers off like we have the easiest job and are so lucky for all that time off. Um, we don't get paid for that. I actually have money taken out of my salary so that I receive a check. I just judge the ones who seem to think we get paid for that or something. Might be UO.
Posted by PetalPockets2012[/QUOTE]

Amen!

(says the girl taking 2 onine ESOL classes for the entire summer break so that I can keep my job)

MyUserName1 · June 2012

Some people/denominations/whatever interpret 1 Cor 6:19-20 as being anti-tattoo "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; ²⁰you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body..."

At least the church and school I grew up tossed that interpretation in there. They used that verse against tattoos, piercings that weren't in the ear (apparently Jesus was okay with holes in the ears, but nowhere else) drugs, getting drunk, fornication, etc.

RupertPenny · June 2012

To people who work in dr.s offices/pharmacies/whatever: insurance is confusing. I never know how much I'm going to have to pay for a visit or for meds and sometimes I get up to the register and am like "WTF, that was $70?" and it sucks. I know my insurance is still covering the majority of it, and that it is not the fault of the dr or pharmacist, but I am a smart lady and make an effort to try and understand my benefits and it still baffles me.

So anyway, I hope people aren't judging me when I am surprised my generic rx suddenly costs $30 more this month than it did last month.

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