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Re: Confessions

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:6acfa516-5e77-4fe4-a1fa-3558fa2d1ec9Post:89f865ec-4c7f-4945-96b2-047723119369">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I confess that you don't sound like a very good friend. Maybe I don't know the whole back story but you went for drinks with your friend's BF, are keeping it a secret from her, you got involved in their relationship, AND you're glad she got fired from her job?  I hope none of my "friends" think doing shiit like that is ok. 
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]
    She isn't divorced yet, I know I need to tell her and I talked with B about this and he said he supports me in wanting to tell her. He wanted to make sure she was really getting divorced and had his doubts about dating her. Her life is a mess and she had me talking to him before this drinks meeting to relay things while her soon to be ex husband was harassing her boyfriend. I know its their life to mess up and this all going down is what got her fired.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Ditto! And that is such a weird time for a wedding.<strong> I confess that BF and I have gone A LOT further sexually than I usually make it sound like on the boards.</strong>
    Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]
    Ya... me too.  lol
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Ditto! And that is such a weird time for a wedding.<strong> I confess that BF and I have gone A LOT further sexually than I usually make it sound like on the boards.</strong>
    Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

    <div>Pictures or it didn't happen.</div><div>
    </div><div>Just kidding, but I totally just cracked myself up.</div>
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  • I confess that I am sad that no one picked up on my Pussycat Dolls reference way back on page 4 or 5 or 6.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I would much rather have a Sunday wedding than a Friday wedding. Is yours on a Sunday?
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]
    Ya it is.  But it's memorial day weekend so people have that Monday off.  So I feel justified.  Lol
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    [QUOTE]I did Tiger.  I'm 99% sure the correct lyric is "When I grow up, I wanna have groupies".  Not boobies?  But I've always said boobies, people just corrected me.
    Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]
    I thought it was I wanted to make movies?  I also said boobies.
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    [QUOTE]I did Tiger.  I'm 99% sure the correct lyric is "When I grow up, I wanna have groupies".  Not boobies?  But I've always said boobies, people just corrected me.
    Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]

    <div>That is correct. But I don't want groupies, I want boobies... so I put that :)</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Beth, you may have posted it before but I don't remember.<strong> What is your reason for not having sex? Is it religious or moral or what else?</strong> I'm not judging at all, I'm just curious.
    Posted by swhite2012[/QUOTE]

    It's religious reasons.

    Haha, yes Yaga I know I have to share now. We do oral a lot, seen each other naked and all that jazz. I know oral is still sex (thus why it's called oral sex) so technically it's still against the rules or whatever. But since I always thought the point of the no sex until your married rule was so that you would only have sex with one person and BF and I plan on getting married anyway I feel like we are still following the spirit of the rule haha. Not a very good rationalization but it's all I've got. It's actually more important to BF that we wait than to me so I guess this is the compromise.


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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : That is correct. But I don't want groupies, I want boobies... so I put that :)
    Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

    That's how my BFF sings that song and it cracks me up.


  • Polo - I pick #2. I don't really have a reason other than it sounds right to me.


  • 2.  It's more formal and you wouldn't really use our unless you were speaking with someone.
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  • Beth- I love you! <3  I didn't know it was more imporant to him then you.  I find that really interesting :)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Pictures or it didn't happen. Just kidding, but I totally just cracked myself up.
    Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

    <div>This is hilarious.  You kill me, Tiger.</div><div>
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  • Polo - #2 because otherwise you're mixing subjects or something. Elle could probably explain it better. Imagine that someone else was writing it, not you... they wouldn't use 'our'
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  • Yowza Beth! Bow chicka wow wow!  Hahahaha

    Tiger: The pics or didn't happen thing totally made me LOL

    Polo: I agree with PP, #2.



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    [QUOTE]I don't want to make a new thread for this, and we all still seem to be here. Opinions on the following language for our invitation 1.  Together with our families Polo and FI joyfully request the pleasure of your company as we exchange our marriage vows OR 2. Together with their families Polo and FI joyfully request the pleasure of your company as they exchange their marriage vows Anyone?
    Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>The general rule is that invitations should always be in 3rd person.  So go with #2.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : This is hilarious.  You kill me, Tiger.
    Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

    I agree, and that picture made me LOL.
  • This one confession I'm wary of....

    I am an advocate of not having a baby at least a year or two after I'm married, but damn it lately I wouldn't mind having a baby with Danish Man soon.  Which leads me to last night, god sex was awesome, so awesome I had tears coming out of my eyes.  Yeah..... so I wonder sometimes what would I feel like if my BC didn't work completely. 
  • I confess I had sex with FI on Tuesday even though I haven't had my follow-up appointment with the gyno yet.  It's on Monday.  I was drunk & attacked, I couldn't help myself. 



  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_confessions-7?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:6acfa516-5e77-4fe4-a1fa-3558fa2d1ec9Post:21d6631e-0812-487b-8c7b-619de29cb033">Re: Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : <a href="http://www.wrongnumbertexts.com" rel="nofollow">www.wrongnumbertexts.com</a>
    Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]

    <div>I have a wrong # story, but it's bizarre. It was coming through on my phone as being from my friend's husband (FH):</div><div>
    </div><div>FH: This is the view from my room right now <picture></div><div>Me: Nice... what city are you in?</div><div>FH: I can't wait to see you. Are you going to send me that pic?</div><div>Me: Um, what? (I was seriously contemplating calling my friend to see if her husband was out of town and was horrified to think he was cheating on her)</div><div>FH: I'm going to send you that pic right now.</div><div>Me: NO! Do not send me any pictures.</div><div>FH: What? You sent me one text that said yes and one that said no.</div><div>Me: NO!! NO PICTURES! You are texting the wrong person</div><div>FH: What are you talking about baby.</div><div>Me: Please for the love of god don't send any pictures.</div><div>
    </div><div>Luckily he didn't. Turns out this whole exchange went to about 5 people in my friend's husband's contact list, including his 16 year old niece. The phone company said the wires just got crossed. It was the most bizarre 10 minutes... Thank God he was home in bed sleeping when all this happened.</div>
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  • I confess that there is a whole lotta shiit I could use advice and maybe some gentle flaming on, but I don't. Not out of fear of the flame, so much, but more out of fear that family/IRL friends will see and flip the fudge out.

    I confess that I also worry that you all see my posts and think "God! Why won't she go away?? She is super freaking annoying!"

    I confess that I'm about to be 32 and I have just recently figured out what I'm supposed to do with my life. I don't know if I figured it out years ago, but ignored it because I didn't want it to be true, or if it really just did reveal itself to me.

    I confess that I have been allowing myself to 'cheat' on my eating plan quite a bit lately and have gained about 10 lbs. I am disgusted and yet I keep allowing myself small cheats. I guess this falls under the self sabatoge. I also haven't been able to work out the last two weeks because of my back hurting. I also know that for those of you who are FB friends, my back status updates are getting to be a 'we get it' and so I'm gonna really try to stop.

    I confess that I haven't done ANY work today. I'm afraid that my boss will lurk all over the net and read this and get mad at me.

    I confess that just about every person that I graduated with either just had a baby or just found out that they are pregnant and I am feeling really super jealous about that. Yes, it would be better to wait, but I can't deny that the ticking of the clock all of a sudden seems VERY LOUD.

    I also confess that I am afraid you will judge me if we do get pregnant before getting married.
    "Stuart was scared, but he loved Margalo, Mommy. And there is nothing bigger than love." -The Bean
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions :<strong> I have yet to unpack my suitcase from my trip to NY in January.</strong> I put it in our spare bedroom and whenever I can't finda  shirt or pair of jeans that I want, I go 'oh!' and go grab them out of the suitcase, leaving the rest of the stuff in there. PS Yes, I am way behind, but I went to lunch, and this thread grew three more pages!
    Posted by cu97tiger[/QUOTE]

    I win.  I have yet to put away my clothes from my HM.  My HONEYMOON GUYS!  That was more than THREE MONTHS ago.  Ugh, I'm such a slacker with laundry.  I can wash it and dry it just fine, even lay it all out flat just ready to hang.  But then what to I do?  Let it sit there for months in a flat pile on a shelf in my closet for months.  To be fair though...it's summer dresses because it was warm on our HM, and I can't wear them now anyways.  Although I'll probably hang them this weekend, just in time to take them down again to pack for Hawaii.

    I suck.
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    [QUOTE]Beth, it sounds like you and BF are comfortable with your choices, that is what matters.  I have actually always felt that oral sex was more personal than sex.  I don't really know anyone else who agrees, but it just seems like...you want me to put THAT?  IN MY MOUTH?  I better love you on some really, really deep level for that to happen. And now I've overshared.
    Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]

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    [QUOTE]Beth, it sounds like you and BF are comfortable with your choices, that is what matters.  I have actually always felt that oral sex was more personal than sex.  I don't really know anyone else who agrees, but it just seems like...you want me to put THAT?  IN MY MOUTH?  I better love you on some really, really deep level for that to happen. And now I've overshared.
    Posted by polo1425[/QUOTE]

    <div>I totally agree!  </div><div>
    </div><div>FI & I had sex-sex before we did oral for that reason.  I definitely agree it's more personal. </div>



  • Tiger: OMG that's hysterical/scary at the same time! I would have been terrified of him sending over a pic of his manhood LOL



  • 1. Agreed that oral can be way more personal than actual sex.

    2. Bri, I'm so sorry things aren't going well with your BF. You definitely deserve someone who would fight to keep you.

    3. Beanbot, I really enjoy your posts and think you're really funny.

    4. Can someone please tell me what BloodandChocolate's sig pic was? I remember noticing it as well, and it's driving me crazy that I can't remember what it was.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : I totally agree!   FI & I had sex-sex before we did oral for that reason.  I definitely agree it's more personal. 
    Posted by rdr716[/QUOTE]

    <div>Agree again! Polo, I think oral sex is way more intimate than..um...regular sex. Which sounds hilarious. Sometimes I'm still uncomfortable when BF goes down (eek!) But he seems to like it and if I relax it's all good. Oh lord, I'm blushing! I have no problem going down on him. He loves it. keeps him happy. He'll usually do the dishes or watch what I want on TV after that (Downton Abbey? Sure! A PBS special on Will & Kate? Why not! A marathon of Say Yes to the Dress. Right there with you babe!) Honestly, I go down on him just to see what he'll watch with me afterward. Haha!</div><div>
    </div><div>There so much sexy-awesomeness in this thread. And some tough stuff. And a lot of support! Win! </div>
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    [QUOTE]1. Agreed that oral can be way more personal than actual sex. 2. Bri, I'm so sorry things aren't going well with your BF. You definitely deserve someone who would fight to keep you. 3. Beanbot, I really enjoy your posts and think you're really funny. <strong>4. Can someone please tell me what BloodandChocolate's sig pic was? I remember noticing it as well, and it's driving me crazy that I can't remember what it was.</strong>
    Posted by jorja86[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I asked two pages ago and nobody will tell me!  I hate being ignored!  Waahhhhh!

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  • I am not a good friend, I told her and thats the end of it.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions : Centipede?  I think that's the correct name for it.   I don't want to google it for obvious reasons. 
    Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

    <div>Oohhh.  I promise not to poop in your mouth.  I remember now!</div>
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