My fiance has the same response- only slight variation is he says, "Whatever you want." He's not saying that to be difficult but he honestly is happy with what I decide. Obviously if your fiance is giving you that same answer you want to keep him in mind and do things to both of your tastes. If he has a strong opinion, he will voice it. Don't worry there. Tell him thanks for all of us for serving our country and I wish both of you luck.
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