Unpopular Opinions

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : So mom can decide not to raise a child, without dad's consent... but dad can't do the same?
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]

Yes. Because in the first scenario, there is no child born that will be affected by the mom's decision. In the second, there is a child that will be affected by it.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · February 2012

You guys, if you are genuinely offended when someone comments on your size, whether you're a 2 or a 22, speak thefuck up. Tell them it is none of their business what size you are and to worry about their own lives.

Seriously try it. It's awesome.

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : Yes.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
That's what I have a problem with. Honestly, if I were a man, I'd do everything in my power to fight and make abortion illegal until men are given the same option to abort their responsibility of raising the child.

Nebb · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I hate it when people say I'd kill to be a size#. Size numbers are so irrelevant to defning what is healthy or not healthy. A size 10 on one person could look like a size 16 on another and a size 6 on another.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

I don't see how my opinion that I'd like to be a size 10 affects you? I know what a size 10 would look like on me cause I once was one. Quite frankly, what I said has nothing to do with wanting to be healthy, its entirely vanity.

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : D- I tell you this is the only argument my H and I have. We have learned to agree to disagree. His take on it is they both decided to have sex, you know what the consequences may be (protected or not), but men should have a decision process, whether it be abortion, adoption, or raising it. I have a problem with this in a few levels. <strong>One I'm forced to have a kid,</strong> and my not want to, I take all the risk. And he can just walk away, and there are plenty of men out there that owe back child support. And when a child is concieved, it may not be on the best of terms (married, TTC), but a one night stand, then what...I really dont know where you go from there.
Posted by kd.joseph[/QUOTE]
<div>That's my arguement though, my original comment was if we are going to be pro choice, then it needs to be pro-choice all the way around. </div><div>
</div><div>I'm sure by this conversation it's easy to tell that I don't support abortion unless it's medically necessary to protect the life of the mother, and I'm sure that's why I like to argue this point some times <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></div>

chelseamb11 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I don't see how my opinion that I'd like to be a size 10 affects you? I know what a size 10 would look like on me cause I once was one. Quite frankly, what I said has nothing to do with wanting to be healthy, its entirely vanity.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Okay.. but to say a size 10 isn't fat as a blanket statement is insensitive IMO. Based on your response, I'm guessing you mean a size 10 is not fat on your body frame, which is totally cool. But to say you'd kill to be a size 10 tells any girl who's a size 10 and unhappy with her body that she shouldn't be unhappy about it.

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : That's what I have a problem with. Honestly, if I were a man, I'd do everything in my power to fight and make abortion illegal until men are given the same option to abort their responsibility of raising the child.
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

But men don't have to carry the child, which is why I don't think they should have a say in whether a woman can get an abortion or not. And again, abortion leaves neither person with a child. Once there's a child born, both people should be responsible until they come to an agreement. I DO think if the man tells the woman that he wants her to have an abortion, and she has the baby and thinks he's going to be supportive in any way then she's an idiot. But you are never going to make me think that a man should be able to force a woman to have an abortion or not have one.

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]You guys, if you are genuinely offended when someone comments on your size, whether you're a 2 or a 22, speak thefuck up. Tell them it is none of their business what size you are and to worry about their own lives. Seriously try it. It's awesome.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
I agree with this 100%

kd.joseph · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : That's my arguement though, my original comment was if we are going to be pro choice, then it needs to be pro-choice all the way around. I'm sure by this conversation it's easy to tell that I don't support abortion unless it's medically necessary to protect the life of the mother, and I'm sure that's why I like to argue this point some times
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

Oh I can see both sides of this argument so well. And it's a real hard nut to crack.

And I see your choice and agree to disagree, as I do with my H, and I still love him and you as well <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />

chelseamb11 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : But men don't have to carry the child, which is why I don't think they should have a say in whether a woman can get an abortion or not. And again, abortion leaves neither person with a child. Once there's a child born, both people should be responsible until they come to an agreement. I DO think if the man tells the woman that he wants her to have an abortion, and she has the baby and thinks he's going to be supportive in any way then she's an idiot. But you are never going to make me think that a man should be able to force a woman to have an abortion or not have one.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

Just clarifying then.. so you're okay with him signing off his rights as soon as he finds out she's pregnant then? Since that still leaves room/time for her to decide whether or not she wants to do it w/o his support?

mica178 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : That's what I have a problem with. Honestly, if I were a man, I'd do everything in my power to fight and make abortion illegal until men are given the same option to abort their responsibility of raising the child.
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

Are you saying that abortion should be illegal so that everyone has to have all conceived babies and be responsible for their upbringing?

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : Just clarifying then.. so you're okay with him signing off his rights as soon as he finds out she's pregnant then? Since that still leaves room/time for her to decide whether or not she wants to do it w/o his support?
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

If she's ok with that, sure.

Nebb · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : Okay.. but to say a size 10 isn't fat as a blanket statement is insensitive IMO. Based on your response, I'm guessing you mean a size 10 is not fat on your body frame, which is totally cool. But to say you'd kill to be a size 10 tells any girl who's a size 10 and unhappy with her body that she shouldn't be unhappy about it.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

At the same time though, a size 10 girl saying she feels fat could be offensive to a larger girl. It goes both ways. If you aren't overly sensitive it shouldn't bother you either way. I'd like to be a size 10 but someone who is already that way is more than entitled to feel however she wants, I just personally don't think its fat.

mica178 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]I think pro choice all the way around would be giving the man the same option to abort the fetus as the woman has. I don't consider a man signing his rights away because he didn't want a child to be equivalent to the right to choose abortion.
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]

How's that pro-choice all the way around? If the woman wants to keep the baby, the man declaring that she must have an abortion is hardly giving her a choice.

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : But men don't have to carry the child, which is why I don't think they should have a say in whether a woman can get an abortion or not. And again, abortion leaves neither person with a child. Once there's a child born, both people should be responsible until they come to an agreement. I DO think if the man tells the woman that he wants her to have an abortion, and she has the baby and thinks he's going to be supportive in any way then she's an idiot. But you are never going to make me think that a man should be able to force a woman to have an abortion or not have one.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
I don't think a man should be able to force a woman to get an abortion, at all. I get what you are saying, but I still have a hard time with it. Maybe the solution I'm looking for is that a woman has to notify the father before she passes the point of being able to have an abortion, the man at that point has to decide if he would or would not like to be a parent, then the woman can make her choice. But I do think that if we as a society are going to give women the choice, then men should get the same choice...regardless of who has to carry the child. <div>
</div><div>I have no data to back this up, but my suspicion would be that most women that have abortions don't do it solely based on their lack of desire to carry the child for 9 months.</div>

chelseamb11 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : <strong>At the same time though, a size 10 girl saying she feels fat could be offensive to a larger girl.</strong> It goes both ways. If you aren't overly sensitive it shouldn't bother you either way. I'd like to be a size 10 but someone who is already that way is more than entitled to feel however she wants, I just personally don't think its fat.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I don't disagree. I'm not sensitive to it, I just think a lot of others are, so to say a certain size or weight isn't fat or isn't skinny or anything in between is just too blanketed of a statement. It's fine if you're just saying on yourself, that's all well and good.

cheeseandrice · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : If she's ok with that, sure.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

I don't get this. What if he's not ok with her aborting the baby? Doesn't matter, she still can.

Look, I totally get the logistics of why a man can't force a woman to have an abortion, obviously. But like you said- she's an idiot if she thinks he's going to help support the child if he makes it clear right away he doesn't want a child. But that doesn't stop her from legally being able to sue the guy for child support, even though he was honest at the beginning he didn't want a child. That's my issue. Whether or not the guy is legally bound to support the child is FULLY in the mom's control.

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I don't think a man should be able to force a woman to get an abortion, at all. I get what you are saying, but I still have a hard time with it. Maybe the solution I'm looking for is that a woman has to notify the father before she passes the point of being able to have an abortion, the man at that point has to decide if he would or would not like to be a parent, then the woman can make her choice. But I do think that if we as a society are going to give women the choice, then men should get the same choice...regardless of who has to carry the child. <strong> I have no data to back this up, but my suspicion would be that most women that have abortions don't do it solely based on their lack of desire to carry the child for 9 months.
</strong>Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

I don't think that at all, I'm just saying that men and women won't ever have equal rights here simply because women are the ones carrying the child. To have equal rights, they would need to be capable of doing the same thing (I'm only talking about child-bearing here, so no one take this and twist it into something else).

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : Are you saying that abortion should be illegal so that everyone has to have all conceived babies and be responsible for their upbringing?
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]<div>I mostly just being an asshole ;)</div><div>
I would like for all people to live in my fantasy world and not conceive babies without having the means to support them. </div>

cheeseandrice · February 2012

GUYS. It's ok. Any unwanted babies can be dropped off on DMill's doorstep. remember?

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I mostly just being an asshole ;)<strong> I would like for all people to live in my fantasy world and not conceive babies without having the means to support them.
</strong>Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

Yes please. Although then my mom might be out of a job.

Nebb · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I don't disagree. I'm not sensitive to it, I just think a lot of others are, so to say a certain size or weight isn't fat or isn't skinny or anything in between is just too blanketed of a statement. It's fine if you're just saying on yourself, that's all well and good.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

No, I'm saying any people who are a size ten in my opinion aren't fat. I'm basically saying I think size 10 looks good though, take is a fucking complement and get over it. Whether size 10 hates her body or not, its not like I'm sying size 10ers look like shiit. I said they look good. To twist it to mean I'm somehow saying something negative is a stretch. Again, it works both ways.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I don't think that at all, I'm just saying that men and women won't ever have equal rights here simply because women are the ones carrying the child. <strong>To have equal rights, they would need to be capable of doing the same thing (I'm only talking about child-bearing here, so no one take this and twist it into something else).</strong>
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

In this argument, this statement makes the most sense to me.

Other than that the whole subject kinda makes my brain implode.

dmiller9274 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]GUYS. It's ok. Any unwanted babies can be dropped off on DMill's doorstep. remember?
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
I'll put those babies to work!

adamar15 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I don't get this. What if he's not ok with her aborting the baby? Doesn't matter, she still can. Look, I totally get the logistics of why a man can't force a woman to have an abortion, obviously. But like you said- she's an idiot if she thinks he's going to help support the child if he makes it clear right away he doesn't want a child. But that doesn't stop her from legally being able to sue the guy for child support, even though he was honest at the beginning he didn't want a child. That's my issue. <strong>Whether or not the guy is legally bound to support the child is FULLY in the mom's control.
</strong>Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]

I agree that that sucks. But I think it would suck just as much if one person had the right to completely walk out on the other with no consequences when there is a child involved.

chelseamb11 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : If she's ok with that, sure.
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

I just can't understand that then I guess. I don't get why the father's fate as a father (both emotionally and/or financially) rests in the choice of the mother.

AllAboutTheBenjamin · February 2012

To be fair, a size 10 would look a hell of a lot different on a 5'1 frame than a 5'11 frame.

But again, it's just a number and I couldn't give less a shiit about the numbers. I have clothes in my closets ranging from a 4 to a 12, so yeah, none of it means jackshit to me.

Amt2109 · February 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : At the same time though, a size 10 girl saying she feels fat could be offensive to a larger girl. It goes both ways. If you aren't overly sensitive it shouldn't bother you either way. I'd like to be a size 10 but someone who is already that way is more than entitled to feel however she wants, I just personally don't think its fat.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

This. I hate when people pinch that imaginary inch of fat on their waist on go "UGH I just feel so fat and disgusting today" and then they look at me. It just feels like they're being bitchy towards me when they do it that way.

And I agree that the "go eat cake" people need to sod off. I'm sick of people telling me that I should eat less or go eat a salad or whatever. If I ate less than I do now, I'd be anorexic. The reason I'm stuck at this weight is because I physically can't eat enough to get over that 'starvation mode' limit. And if I exercise ("go take a run, go to the gym, exercise makes it all better) it gets worse. I just feel so weak I can't move.

I'm a big advocate that people should try to be happy in their own skin, whatever their size. Its what I've always taught the kids I've worked with. I can't manage to get that mentality for myself because so many people think they know my body better than me and its tiring.

Pookieson · February 2012

I know I haven't been on in awhile but I thought I'd rant too!
I hate people that don't spay/neuter/vaccinate pets.
I really hate people that don't vaccinate kids.
People that expect me to be docile and demur because I have a vagina.
Men who call me "sweetie" or "dear" who are NOT my fiance because I have female genetalia.
People who post how awesome their life is on facebook that I fully expect they poop out rainbows, unicorns, and skittles.
People who bit*h nonstop on facebook.
When people call me 400 times just to say, "what are you doing?"
People in nursing school who bitch about feces and vomit...you are a nurse...enough said.
People who take their sick kids to school...hey thanks for bring bronchitis my way a-hole.
People who let their kids do whatever the eff they want and say, "kids....they do the darndest things, eh?" Yeah when they are jerks, yes...yes they do.
I know this isn't "controversial" so to speak, but irritating.

mica178 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_unpopular-opinions-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:97522f99-1158-410c-a561-f6899b2fdb4bPost:256dcd18-9a5e-4117-a747-5760368ace3c">Re: Unpopular Opinions</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpopular Opinions : I mostly just being an asshole ;<strong>) I would like for all people to live in my fantasy world and not conceive babies without having the means to support them. </strong>
Posted by dmiller9274[/QUOTE]

I like that fantasy world. I would like to live there too.

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