Next year I'm having an outdoor ceremony. My mom and I had an argument today over how the bridesmaids should walk up the aisle. She says every wedding she's been to, the groomsmen were standing at the altar beforehand, and the bridesmaid came up one by one, alone. Every wedding my fiance has been to(and the only one I've been to) has had the bridemaids escorted up the aisle by a groomsmen. She refuses to go on planning the wedding if I want the bridesmaids to be escorted, because "that's not how it's done". However, this is the way I want them to come up the aisle, and it's the way I think it should be done.
I admit I've not been easy. I've already exchanged my dress for a different one, and I've changed my mind on my weddng colors many times, and this last time means driving an hour away to change the color of the bridesmaid dresses. I know I've been difficult, but I think this is a ridiculous thing for her to halt the planning. What do you think?