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Merry Christmas
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Re: Merry Christmas
Come on Nebb quit farting around
ETA: And I say that as someone who does not celebrate Christmas.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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I mean yes.
We'll just not tell H about this little fact, m'kay?
[QUOTE]Ok no it doesnt, but neither does Happy or Merry any other holiday that I may not celebrate at this time of year that someone might wish me<strong>. I see it as kind wishes, regardless of race or religion and I appreciate it.</strong>
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
This is exactly how I feel about it.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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[QUOTE]Ok no it doesnt, but neither does Happy or Merry any other holiday that I may not celebrate at this time of year that someone might wish me. I see it as kind wishes, regardless of race or religion and I appreciate it.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
This.
I can see why people who don't celebrate might get annoyed at the assumption that they celebrate Christmas, but I think they need to lighten up and realize it's meant to be a greeting, not a judgement or annoyance.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Merry Christmas : Just to play devils' advocate here, sometimes it is meant to be a judgement. I've been in the situation before where I was clearly being judged when someone said it to me. Also, it's easier to not be offended by "Happy Hiolidays" (because it's more inclusive) than "Merry Christmas" (because it's more exclusive). I don't get all the clamor that everyone should be okay with "Merry Christmas" in stores, government offices, etc.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]
Clearly, if it's meant to be a judgement, and not sinmply the expression of warm wishes, then it is offensive. I guess I didn't say it clearly, but intent matters. If someone greets you and it's meant to denigrate your beliefs, it's offensive.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Merry Christmas : Clearly, if it's meant to be a judgement, and not sinmply the expression of warm wishes, then it is offensive. I guess I didn't say it clearly, but intent matters. If someone greets you and it's meant to denigrate your beliefs, it's offensive.
Posted by NatesGirl16[/QUOTE]
On that point we can definitely agree.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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I also think that people in general are too easy to offend and tend to blow the littlest things out of proportion (In a woe is me sort of way). I can't stand that shiit.
If someone needs attention that bad they should do something good to earn it and stop whining about stupid shiit.
[QUOTE]When someone says "Merry Christmas" to me, it makes me smile. If they were to say "Merry Christmas, asshole", I might be a little offended.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]
Merry Christmas, Asshole! :P
(guess that movie)
And no I'm not offended by it at all. I'm just glad it's not "Fuckyou."
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Merry Christmas : Merry Christmas, Asshole! :P
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
<div>::shakes fist::</div>
[QUOTE]I actually get annoyed with "Happy Holidays".<span style="font-weight:bold;"> It's just a P.C. way of saying "Merry Christmas".</span>
Posted by ReneeJacob[/QUOTE]
No it's not. It's a more inclusive way of wishing someone well during the holiday season. It's incredibly closed-minded of you to think yours is the only holiday that matters.
Just call me "Brothel"
And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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[QUOTE]I actually get annoyed with "Happy Holidays". It's just a P.C. way of saying "Merry Christmas".
Posted by ReneeJacob[/QUOTE]
Renee - I don't think it is. It covers the bases and I genuinely mean for them to have a happy holiday.
I do get very annoyed when people ask if I've "accepted Jesus as my Lord and savior." The intent there is obviously judgmental.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Merry Christmas : No it's not. It's a more inclusive way of wishing someone well during the holiday season. It's incredibly closed-minded of you to think yours is the only holiday that matters.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]
Yeah, if I were Jewish, I wouldn't be bothered by someone saying "Merry Christmas." But it would be pretty crappy if it constantly thrown in my face. It's like saying "Hey Christmas is super important, but Hanukkah is not." You can't lump this time of year into just Christmastime. Because it's not.
On the other hand, I think that the whole "War on Christmas" thing that is propulgated by some elements of the right wing is a load of crap. Who cares whether the people at Walmart say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays? I'm not Christian anymore, but I was once, and I still have great respect for the religion, and I kind of think that the glut of capitalism that takes place every December has nothing to do with a boy who was born in poverty in a stable. I like the idea of keeping Walmart away from Christmas.
Give to Caesar what is Caesar's, and all that.
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[QUOTE]A guy at the store the other day corrected the woman behind the counter b/c she said happy holidays. He said" Down here we say "Merry Christmas." He then looked at me for approval. I guess he assumed I was Christian. Anyway I thought that was rude of him b/c the lady was just trying to be nice. When he left she told me she only says Merry Christmas closer to actual Christmas.
Posted by ricksang[/QUOTE]
That would really rub me the wrong way.