I am a younger bride and I need help! I really would like to go out for a least a little bit to the bars for my party, but 3 of my bm will not be 21 yet (i have 8 bm) What do you suggest I do? We will probably go out to dinner, then go to some bars, then maybe go back to the hotel. would it be rude if they couldn't go to the bars, and we just met them a little bit later at the hotel? What should I do!?