I post mostly on our local TN now, but we've lost two of our daily threads in the past five days. It's getting extremely annoying and this problem has been going on for a while and they still can't seem to get it fixed.
Some of the Nest boards might never come back - they are very serious about the bullshittery and unwanted changes, and are completely happy on proboards.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:611ba015-6b96-4894-b1d1-ddc9d51d675b">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]Aw. Our old TN board. Dead for the last month. We seriously flamed out after our weddings. Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
I'd like to pinpoint that on Linds, personally. ;)
It is weird, though, because our TK board was super active. I think a big part of it, too, is that a lot of us still talk here.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:f20bbc69-ecb8-448a-b10a-59c1bdb1915c">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK : I'd like to pinpoint that on Linds, personally. ;) It is weird, though, because our TK board was super active. I think a big part of it, too, is that a lot of us still talk here. Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE] Uh yeah. LasagnaGate and Linds' LEAVE FAITH ALONE bullshit totally killed that board.
I didn't realize TK's parent company was publicly traded. That explains a lot. They're never going to leave these boards alone, they'll always be messing with something.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:3f5334f6-b531-4b76-9392-471da50ee6e3">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]<strong>LOL@ lasagnagate.</strong> What a mess our month board turned out to be. Pretty much everyone who rocked stayed here :) Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE] Hahaha that's what it was! I was so disappointed that I read Faith's OP, rolled my eyes, and left TN for the week. By the time I came back Linds had deleted the thread and publically chastized everyone, and all the fun was over.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:fa477170-de6b-446e-9499-10873bdc33a8">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]Linds is Captain No Fun. I generally enjoy most people I encounter on the boards but she annoyed the piss out of me. Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE] I didn't mind her on TK but she wasn't nearly as power-hungry as she was on TN. Honestly my motivation for leaving there was both Linds' power-crazy wrist-slapping and all the KU ladies turning the thread into an offshoot of TB. If I want to read 90 baby threads I'll go to TB.
Also, the Nest gods tried some additions no one wanted, like FB and Twitter buttons that would link your Nest post directly. Many users wanted their accounts deleted if the posts were going to link to FB.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:4fb44d47-d622-48e8-8496-eb6594a8e067">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]Also, the Nest gods tried some additions no one wanted, like FB and Twitter buttons that would link your Nest post directly. Many users wanted their accounts deleted if the posts were going to link to FB. Posted by LesPaul[/QUOTE]
This was a huge misconception, tbh. Yes, it could link it, but only if you were also logged into fb. It was no different than any other website that has the fb 'like' button.
If I 'liked' it on TB, no one else's personal information was being shared. It was no different than me copying the url and pasting it on fb.
MASSIVE overreaction ensued, though, and people just didn't 'get' it.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:0c679f6c-af16-48a6-848e-23e477758422">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]well now I feel nosy and want to know what lasagnagate is. Posted by jennamarie10[/QUOTE] It was incredibly stupid. This one girl (Faith) started a thread to bitch about how selfish her H was for not making her lasagna when she was craving it (she was about 8 months pregnant). I rolled my eyes and left at that point, because really? And I missed the rest of it. But apparently some other posters called her out on it, Faith flipped out and said something like "Would you tell a mother who had a miscarriage that she shouldn't bitch about it?" and people gave her hell for equating not getting lasgana with having a miscarriage. Linds took it upon herself to ask to become mod, deleted the thread, and chastised everyone for giving Faith a hard time and chasing her off the boards.
I've been lurking on the Married Life board on TN, and those ladies are WAY serious. They are on proboards now, and it works so much better. Plus, you can cuss. That's always a plus. I don't think most of them would go back to TN. I mean in six (?) days, they already have 22 PAGES of threads.
Yeah bay pretty much summed up lasagnagate. Faith was a twat.
ETA - except I don't think it was a miscarriage, she was trying to compare not getting lasagna to a mother delivering a stillborn baby, I think. So, yeah. MASSIVE twat.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:67f1c264-513a-4060-b504-435adfb0d486">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]Yeah bay pretty much summed up lasagnagate. Faith was a twat. ETA - except I don't think it was a miscarriage, she was trying to compare not getting lasagna to a mother delivering a stillborn baby, I think. So, yeah. MASSIVE twat. Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE] Yeah, that's even worse.
And just a little tidbit to add to the story, one of our fellow posters had just delivered a stillborn baby at 39 weeks. It was just awful. For Faith to equate the two, ESPECIALLY after that had happened, was vile.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:0c679f6c-af16-48a6-848e-23e477758422">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]well now I feel nosy and want to know what lasagnagate is. Posted by jennamarie10[/QUOTE]
LONG story short, this girl bitched because she made lasagna and her husband didn't want to eat it for dinner. (Or he made it and she wanted something else.) I told her to stop whining. She said something like "I'm pregnant, and it sucks. Would you tell someone who just had a stillborn child to just stop wining?!" um. what?! Also. One of the girls from our board had just had a stillborn baby about a week earlier.
Haha, Steph, I just went through the 11/10 board and founds Linds' lame "I'm making a FB board for those who don't like drama, give me your email addresses if you want to join." And you going "Oh, right here! Here's my email!" I'm guessing she never sent you that invite, did she?
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_woah-apparently-the-new-change-really-did-affect-tk?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:afba2b8d-1c1e-4405-9c73-58d014487851Post:ec7fc917-b46a-4adb-ac1c-f77d70fb3769">Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK</a>: [QUOTE]Haha, Steph, I just went through the 11/10 board and founds Linds' lame "I'm making a FB board for those who don't like drama, give me your email addresses if you want to join." And you going "Oh, right here! Here's my email!" I'm guessing she never sent you that invite, did she? Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
ha. of course not.
I should page her and ask about the fb group again.
Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK
People just need to leave well enough alone.
What I find interesting though is that many of TK users were saying "TK or Bust" for them. I wonder if we would have the same drop on this site.
Granted, I was never a really big TN person, but I don't think the changes are that bad. What am I missing?
http://www.thenest.com/forums/anniversary-boards_november-2010-weddings
It's this nasty hybrid. Plus a lot of the html stuff (and the bold/italic/link toolbar) never works.
Plus the disappearing threads, etc.
ETA: sadly, TK has been working better than TN lately. And THAT'S saying something.
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We seriously flamed out after our weddings.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]Aw. Our old TN board. Dead for the last month. We seriously flamed out after our weddings.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
I'd like to pinpoint that on Linds, personally. ;)
It is weird, though, because our TK board was super active. I think a big part of it, too, is that a lot of us still talk here.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Woah. Apparently the new change really did affect TK : I'd like to pinpoint that on Linds, personally. ;) It is weird, though, because our TK board was super active. I think a big part of it, too, is that a lot of us still talk here.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
Uh yeah. LasagnaGate and Linds' LEAVE FAITH ALONE bullshit totally killed that board.
And many of us stayed on TK.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]<strong>LOL@ lasagnagate.</strong> What a mess our month board turned out to be. Pretty much everyone who rocked stayed here :)
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
Hahaha that's what it was! I was so disappointed that I read Faith's OP, rolled my eyes, and left TN for the week. By the time I came back Linds had deleted the thread and publically chastized everyone, and all the fun was over.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]Linds is Captain No Fun. I generally enjoy most people I encounter on the boards but she annoyed the piss out of me.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
I didn't mind her on TK but she wasn't nearly as power-hungry as she was on TN. Honestly my motivation for leaving there was both Linds' power-crazy wrist-slapping and all the KU ladies turning the thread into an offshoot of TB. If I want to read 90 baby threads I'll go to TB.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]Also, the Nest gods tried some additions no one wanted, like FB and Twitter buttons that would link your Nest post directly. Many users wanted their accounts deleted if the posts were going to link to FB.
Posted by LesPaul[/QUOTE]
This was a huge misconception, tbh. Yes, it could link it, but only if you were also logged into fb. It was no different than any other website that has the fb 'like' button.
If I 'liked' it on TB, no one else's personal information was being shared. It was no different than me copying the url and pasting it on fb.
MASSIVE overreaction ensued, though, and people just didn't 'get' it.
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[QUOTE]well now I feel nosy and want to know what lasagnagate is.
Posted by jennamarie10[/QUOTE]
It was incredibly stupid. This one girl (Faith) started a thread to bitch about how selfish her H was for not making her lasagna when she was craving it (she was about 8 months pregnant). I rolled my eyes and left at that point, because really? And I missed the rest of it. But apparently some other posters called her out on it, Faith flipped out and said something like "Would you tell a mother who had a miscarriage that she shouldn't bitch about it?" and people gave her hell for equating not getting lasgana with having a miscarriage. Linds took it upon herself to ask to become mod, deleted the thread, and chastised everyone for giving Faith a hard time and chasing her off the boards.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
Malcolm
ETA - except I don't think it was a miscarriage, she was trying to compare not getting lasagna to a mother delivering a stillborn baby, I think. So, yeah. MASSIVE twat.
[QUOTE]Yeah bay pretty much summed up lasagnagate. Faith was a twat. ETA - except I don't think it was a miscarriage, she was trying to compare not getting lasagna to a mother delivering a stillborn baby, I think. So, yeah. MASSIVE twat.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]
Yeah, that's even worse.
And just a little tidbit to add to the story, one of our fellow posters had just delivered a stillborn baby at 39 weeks. It was just awful. For Faith to equate the two, ESPECIALLY after that had happened, was vile.
Books read in 2012: 21/50
[QUOTE]well now I feel nosy and want to know what lasagnagate is.
Posted by jennamarie10[/QUOTE]
LONG story short, this girl bitched because she made lasagna and her husband didn't want to eat it for dinner. (Or he made it and she wanted something else.) I told her to stop whining. She said something like "I'm pregnant, and it sucks. Would you tell someone who just had a stillborn child to just stop wining?!"
um. what?!
Also. One of the girls from our board had just had a stillborn baby about a week earlier.
Basically, she was a fucking biitch.
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[QUOTE]Haha, Steph, I just went through the 11/10 board and founds Linds' lame "I'm making a FB board for those who don't like drama, give me your email addresses if you want to join." And you going "Oh, right here! Here's my email!" I'm guessing she never sent you that invite, did she?
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]
ha. of course not.
I should page her and ask about the fb group again.
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