What's the etiquette for +1s for a VERY small wedding

Re: What's the etiquette for +1s for a VERY small wedding

• banana468 member

  

  May 2012

  So glad that you took the advice!
  
  DH and I are going to his coworker's wedding this weekend.  I've met the groom 2 or 3 times and I've met the bride once or twice.  They invited us as a social unit.
  
  And there's no way I'd be OK with DH going without me either. 

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• brydesmaid member

  

  May 2012

  My husband and I had a very, very small wedding last year.  Our ceremony was at a public art space, we had invited our close friends/family to come to the ceremony (my uncle officiated the ceremony) and we spent time chatting, visiting & taking pictures with them after the ceremony--then we went with our parents and BM & MOH and my uncle & his wife to dinner.  After our honeymoon--we had everyone over for a cook-out, we shared pictures from wedding & honeymoon and it was very laid back and relaxed. 
  
  Perhaps rather than not inviting SOs--perhaps you could invite people to the ceremony & for coctails afterwards...then do a small dinner with parents and BM & MOH?  I think its okay to be creative--but not exclusionary?

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