My FH and I have 2 friends who got married last summer and the groom had steak while everyone else had either chicken or pork. FH would like to do the same thing at our wedding this fall, but I'm a little hesistant because I don't want it to look like the food we serve our guests isn't "good enough" for us. Is it okay for the bride and groom to have different meals than the guests, or is this downright rude?