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Your message was neither rude nor offensive. Thank you for your advice. Not sure what Im going to do, but I have a better idea on a few things, thanks to this board. Heather- I appreciate your support, and for seeing the same rudeness I did- maybe we learned how to read wrong- lol And I cant reason with my 2 1/2 yr old at all! Best of luck to the woman who has a 2 yr old that isnt a 2 yr old.. maybe its a puppy.Its a shame that this board is followed by some just looking to fight, pick, and ... I dunno. Definitely not what I expected. It will be a VR around our 5 yr anniversary. So its a VR, and a great anniversary party! We are considering walking down the ailse together. I really like that tip. We will say our own vows, recommitting to eachother. Then we will open the bar, have some food, and dance! Dont know what Im wearing, but Im getting a lot of support about wearing whatever I choose (not all from this board, obviously). It just seems my close friends and family doesnt have the same stigma against wearing white, or poofy- So I have a question... My husbands step sister had a quincera for her 15th birthday. But it wasnt on her birthday. It was months after- she still wore the big poofy (blue) gown, had mariachis, the works. Should she not have had it cuz technically she was already 15? Im not trying to stir the pot.... Just bringing up my MIL's perspective. And his aunt had a VR several years ago, huge dress! So, my family and his seem more focused on the emotion, and meaning behind it, and less on the fashion. I dunno... I did learn a few things on here, and I got some helpful tips about dresses at Dillards and JCrew- Found a beautiful dress at Dillards, that is not big, not poofy, but I have time to decide what direction I want to go in.We arent doing a wedding ceremony. A VR and a dinner party after- its a celebration that is exciting to plan, and not so fun to talk about on here. Im biting my tongue on the rest of the comments.