Good Morning OBX Brides.
I have been engaged for a few years now and really do think it's time to take the plunge and make up my mind about what I really want in a wedding. I have been so back in forth with a destination wedding to a wedding at home, etc. For someone who is very indecisive, all these wedding choices are KILLING me!!!
We live about 6 hours away from the OBX. We are close to Baltimore. My question is - do you think it's weird to send out a sort of questionaire (for lack of a better word) to see who would be interested in attending a wedding in the OBX, if that's where we decide to plan it.
I really have no clue where to even start looking/planning, because I have no idea what our group size would be if we did do a destination wedding.
Feedback on how to determine an estimate of people that would probably attend???
Thanks. I have loved stalking this board for quite awhile, praying now that I can either make a decision to commit or go home to my local - not so active - board.
Thanks again ladies! I'm truely in love with all your plannings for your big day!!!

Re: Intro and of course - a question
I highly agree with LaughLines. You probably do not want to start asking for people's opinions. You need to choose whatever makes you and your fiance the happiest. If you want to have a conversation with your closest friends/family, that's one thing, but to put it out there for everyone could just be a disaster. If you choose to go the destination route, then just make sure to send out save-the-dates early! You definitely cannot please everyone, so you need to be happy with your decision.
As someone who recently got married in the OBX and had lower numbers than anticipated - I wouldn't change a thing.
Your "words of wisdom" are great and much appreciated!!!
I'll keep you posted on our decision!!!
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