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  • nda_roxybabenda_roxybabe member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I was clearly asking if other people had a problem similar to mine. I was NOT asking for advice.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    Hahahahaahahaha
    Ok then.

    So you just wanted people to say "yes" or "no"? that sounds like a lame, unhelpful post.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Hahahahaahahaha Ok then. So you just wanted people to say "yes" or "no"? that sounds like a lame, unhelpful post.
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]


    Nope. I wanted to commiserate with somebody about the woe of in-laws.
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    See. there goes that selective hearing (reading) thing again...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Nope. I wanted to commiserate with somebody about the woe of in-laws.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    Unfortunately, you don't get to pick what people choose to respond with.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I just giggle/snorted. It wasn't comfortable.
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    I'm a big fan of finding the humor in all situations.  Sometimes you have to inject your own humor :)
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Unfortunately, you don't get to pick what people choose to respond with.
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

    I don't remember asserting that I did.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I don't remember asserting that I did.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I don't remember asserting that I did.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    Only you did when you got all huffy about someone answering a question you didn't ask.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : You either have selective hearing (reading) or a complete lack of reading comprehension skills.  I did say the he needed to talk to her.  I also said that if that didn't work, then he needs to let her know in no uncertain terms that her childish behavior will not be tolerated.  Even if that means hanging up the phone or walking out.  T<strong>here are some people that are apt to commisserate with you.  There are others that would rather not see you wallow in self pity, and actually DO something to solve the problem, instead of just bitching about it.</strong>
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    Since you obviously didn't read it before.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I was clearly asking if other people had a problem similar to mine. I was NOT asking for advice.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    Right here you did.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Right here you did.
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]


    I didn't know anybody would be stupid enough to answer an unasked question.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't know anybody would be stupid enough to answer an unasked question.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    You're fighting the stupidest, losing battle right now. You're backpeddling and hardly making sense.

    People are going to give their input, it doesn't make them stupid.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I didn't know anybody would be stupid enough to answer an unasked question.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]
    Do you have me on ignore?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : You're fighting the stupidest, losing battle right now. You're backpeddling and hardly making sense. People are going to give their input, it doesn't make them stupid.
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]


    I'm not fighting. I'm responding to people. Maybe it doesn't make them stupid, but assuming I want to here their advice when I didn't ask for it is pretty egotistical.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Do you have me on ignore?
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]


    No, I just didn't read anything worth answering so far.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I'm not fighting. I'm responding to people. Maybe it doesn't make them stupid, but assuming I want to here their advice when I didn't ask for it is pretty egotistical.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    Anytime you post on a PUBLIC forum you are asking for people advice/ input whether you mean to or not.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Do you have me on ignore?
    Posted by tidetravel[/QUOTE]

    I'm convinced this one is illiterate.  She's just banging on a keyboard somewhere and hoping ti makes intelligible words.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : No, I just didn't read anything worth answering so far.
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    Oh snap.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Anytime you post on a PUBLIC forum you are asking for people advice/ input whether you mean to or not.
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

    I disagree. Again, I was asking for commiseration, not advice.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I disagree. Again, I was asking for commiseration, not advice.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    and again, you don't get to pick how people respond. You're not a big reader are ya?

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : and again, you don't get to pick how people respond. You're not a big reader are ya?
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]

    I never said I got to pick. I simply stated what I was asking for.
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    ok so I'm a newbie (according to my badge) and No I dont have similar FMIL  problems ( to answer your only question in OP) But after reading ALL 5 pages of this..............

    tide made a good point to you, if you take it or leave it, its up to you!  All she said was that your FI needed to stick up for you ,his FI, and make sure it was know to your FMIL that her acting "snarky" (ha hahah)/snippy to you or him  was unacceptable.  And that if you want a full "lilfetime" of happiness that you should make it aware to HIM how you feel. ( she's going to blame it all on you).

    Your actions of calling someone that was trying to help a bitch, on an "ill natured women" thread  was over reacting and uncalled for . Also it just lead more to the title of the thread, you are the girl that doesnt get her way and/or hear what she wants. So you act like a baby and TRY  to make others look like they are to blame

    I agree with tide~~~~~ your FI should grow a pair

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    [QUOTE]ok so I'm a newbie (according to my badge) and No I dont have similar FMIL  problems ( to answer your only question in OP) But after reading ALL 5 pages of this.............. tide made a good point to you, if you take it or leave it, its up to you!  All she said was that your FI needed to stick up for you ,his FI, and make sure it was know to your FMIL that her acting "snarky" (ha hahah)/snippy to you or him  was unacceptable.  And that if you want a full "lilfetime" of happiness that you should make it aware to HIM how you feel. ( she's going to blame it all on you). Your actions of calling someone that was trying to help a bitch, on an "ill natured women" thread  was over reacting and uncalled for . Also it just lead more to the title of the thread, you are the girl that doesnt get her way and/or hear what she wants. So you act like a baby and TRY  to make others look like they are to blame I agree with tide~~~~~ your FI should grow a pair
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    Well, you are certainly welcome to your opinion.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : I never said I got to pick. I simply stated what I was asking for.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]


    Do you not see you contradicting yourself?

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : No, I just didn't read anything worth answering so far.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]
    Ok, since what you are seeking is validation, I'll give you what you want:

    Oh, woe is me!  My FMIL is a donkeyface, poopoo head!  We can't live more than 20 minutes away  from her or else she'll get jealous of my relationship with her son.  And he has to go over there at least once every weekend so that he can help her wipe her ass.  Whatever am I to do?

    Wait.  Scratch that part.  You didn't ask for advice.  
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Do you not see you contradicting yourself?
    Posted by nda_roxybabe[/QUOTE]



    1. I posted a problem and asked if anybody had the same.

    2. I was given unsolicited, and in my opinion, rude advice.

    3. I expressed my opinion that it was bitchy.


    When did I say I get to choose, and when did I try to choose? I never told her not to post.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : Well, you are certainly welcome to your opinion.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    If you really don't want to hear what other people have to say about your situation, maybe you should try a blog with moderated comments.  Then you can control everything!!!  The nature of a forum is that you post your situation and people comment on it, whether with the answers you were hoping for, with opposing answers, or with things that have nothing to do with your situation.  That's just how it works.
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    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    Opal, please, please just quit.

    You don't even understand what a fool you are making of yourself right now.  Tide, Roxy, Cew, Bethrothed, et all are posters who have been around TK for a long time.  Look at their post counts.  They've read just about every kind of thread you can imagine.  Tide responded to your original OP with tongue-in-cheek humor, which you took poorly.  If you had lurked long enough to get a feel for the type of poster she and the others are, you would know this and you would have handled it better.

    You are not coming out of this one looking too good.  Just quit arguing and move on.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:dfa68d5e-c712-445d-8471-3e7c8edcfc48">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : 1. I posted a problem and asked if anybody had the same. 2. I was given unsolicited, and in my opinion, rude advice. 3. I expressed my opinion that it was bitchy. When did I say I get to choose, and when did I try to choose? I never told her not to post.
    Posted by OpalineTowers[/QUOTE]

    You are running yourself in circles. You're making no sense.

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  • OpalineTowersOpalineTowers
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_ill-natured-women?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:3ae2b189-e9bc-4647-bbea-d3ead1891af9Post:3417e8be-b10c-4d5f-b47a-dba24a7d8782">Re: ill natured women...</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: ill natured women... : If you really don't want to hear what other people have to say about your situation, maybe you should try a blog with moderated comments.  Then you can control everything!!!  The nature of a forum is that you post your situation and people comment on it, whether with the answers you were hoping for, with opposing answers, or with things that have nothing to do with your situation.  That's just how it works.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]


    I'm aware of that. And just as she is allowed to post her opinion, I'm allowed to post my opinion that she was being bitchy.
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