Just had a cousin that I barely talk to email me and ask if she could bring her boyfriend to my wedding. Um....was his name on the invite? Um...no? Well, then what do you think???
Luckily I kept cool and told her that I could not accomodate her boyfriend. And she seemed to understand.
I sure hope there aren't many more of these!
Re: I stood my ground!
RSVP Deadline: 4/6/13
4/26/13 March Siggy Challenge: Bridesmaid Dresses
How old is the cousin? And were they in a relationship when the invites went out?
We invited all our first cousins and gave a +1 to all the older ones, no matter their relationship status. But for the teenagers, we did not do the +1 thing. You may think you're in love at age 14 after two weeks of hand holding, but she's not coming to my wedding. I know that these relationships do sometimes last forever (both my parents and my grandparents started dating as teenagers!), but you gotta draw the line somewhere.
RSVP Deadline: March 9th
How long have they been together. If they've only been together a few weeks and you've never met the SO, then I wouldn't have invited him either. She's family. It's not like she wouldn't have anyone to talk to at the wedding. I totally understand the "if they have a SO, you MUST invite the SO as well" thing, but when you have to cut guests due to budget or space, then yes - the SO that has only been around a few weeks that I've never met would be one of the first ones to get cut.
Now, if they've been together for a while and he's like part of the family, he definitely should have been invited.
58 invited
20 can't make it
RSVP Deadline: March 8th