Brad's at it again!

jtheiss · October 2009

As a teacher, I guess by Brad's logic if my students miss even one class or get one question wrong on a test, I should give them a C or D for the whole class. Yeah, that makes sense. I'm sure my students would go for that.

yusi196 · October 2009

Brad, I'm not missing the point. I simply understand that all humans are not alike. I was putting myself in her shoes, something that humans do to try to understand others. Her grading system is not the same as yours. Actually no one's grading system will ever be the same as yours. YOU keep missing the point that the reviews you'll see here week after week will never live up to your expectations so instead of trying to make a blind man see the light, just take his hand and help him walk.....

kle0113 · October 2009

If you read her review you would have seen that she did not even notice that they did not play the song. They told her that they did not play it. For the photographer - she obviously knew that he did not have this inurance and she still hired him so obviously she was ok with it. I don't get why you have to comment on it when you add nothing. She had a nice wedding and was very happy. Take the stick out of your a$$.

cher1980 · October 2009

i love how he avoids certain questions!i dont feel sorry for his FI - if your FI is on theknot and you arent, something is wrong w/ you toothey are prob perfect for each other LOL

Lola Minnie · October 2009

And the funny thing is, we always help him and offer advice... yet he is the first to react negatively to anything.

brad1431 · October 2009

Yusi, that is part of the point, but I am saying you are posting a review for other people to benefit, not to make yourself feel good. It needs to be objective. I suspect that most reviews the person just wants to validate their perfect princess dream wedding was the most perfect princess deam day and everything was princess perfect so how can I give anything less than an A+++++ That is what a review is NOT supposed to be, it is to help others to make an informed, fair, decision. How would you feel if every movie review was 5 stars, how would you know which one to see???

caketime · October 2009

Geez I thought that was what explanations were for....Maybe you should add more fiber to your so you aren't such a constipated miserable person. Just a suggestion.

cher1980 · October 2009

BRAD EVERY GIRLS WEDDING IS A PERFECT PRINCESS WEDDING! YOU ARE ON A GIRLS BOARD! GO AWAY! PLEASE! YOU ARE MAKING ALL THESE BRIDES TO BE AND NEWLYWEDS VERY ANGRY! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO ADD! GO FIND A GUYS WEDDING BOARD! OH WAIT! THERE ISNT ONE SO GO AWAY! WHY POST A REVIEW FOR ALL NEGATIVE VENDORS! IF WE ARE VERY PLEASED WITH A VENDOR WE WANT ALL THE BRIDES TO WORK WITH THEM BECAUSE WE WANT THEM TO BE AS HAPPY AS WE WERE! ahhh ok! i feel better

jtheiss · October 2009

So Brad, in order for my students to get an A in the class, they should have to do all of the work listed in the syllabus and then do even more than that? By your logic, just completing the work listed in the syllabus, a student should get a C. But then, you still haven't responded to me or Spunky regarding this comparison, so I assume you realize you're full of _sh1t.

cher1980 · October 2009

Brad i took the liberty of finding a site for you - here you go! Maybe they will welcome you with open arms! http://www.groomsonline.com/

yusi196 · October 2009

Brad, you have a point. Who doesnt want reviews that will help make a decision on a vendor? I dont know if you have your photographer booked or not, but in this review post, tell me you can't benefit from her photographer's review and information? Forget about the grade for a minute, she was honest about his style of work, credentials (insurance) and pricing. You were looking for a cheap photographer that included albums so by reading this review, you have possible found a winner in your book.....in the end, this review was helpful. You can't be truly objective with a review because your feelings play into it. I think men can be objective because they put feelings aside. Remember, you are in a message board whose 98% of members are women......That's it, I'm done beating the dead horse today, lol.....

colleenm77 · October 2009

You're a rational a$$

caketime · October 2009

Oh right because you know all about women and unhealthy images. Wasn't it you who wanted to blame your niece for hypothetically wearing something that would have put her name in the smut book? Why yes, I do believe it was you.

Lola Minnie · October 2009

Dude, if no one likes you based on how you treat others - why don't you do us all a favor and stop coming on here. Otherwise I suggest we all do a mass "block"

brad1431 · October 2009

cake not that crap again, I posted seven, yes SEVEN times in that post I didnt blame anybody, I said there was a reason, and literelly posted SEVEN times, I wasnt blaming anyone

colleenm77 · October 2009

I second that motion Lola

caketime · October 2009

I can bring up any crap I want. Why won't you answer the question if you are going to do reviews? See I can bring that up again and you won't answer it. Perhaps you are too chicken to actually put your money where your mouth is.Now fly fly away and be gone forever.

brad1431 · October 2009

you can bring up anything you want, but dont lie and say I said something that I emphatically now 9 times have had to remind people that I didnt say. Dont put words in my mouth and lie and say I said something.

caketime · October 2009

Ahhh but you see that's my perception of what you said...that you blamed her. Just like your perception of reviews is not what we think.

brad1431 · October 2009

it is not perception, it is fact, I never said I blamed her, FACT!!!! and it is not perception of reviews, a review is intended for the reader and should give the reader an unbiased or impartial review. What if every single movie review was 5 stars??? It would make the reviews useless, which is my point. I read a review to gain information that is impartial and unbiased to use for my planning. If you want to rant and rave about how you loved your pretty princess dream platnum wedding, great, but do it outside the review.

caketime · October 2009

Go get some fiber - you sound constipated again.

yusi196 · October 2009

exactly yusi, that is part of it, you all think emotionally, and I think rationally and that causes conflict cause how strong you attact emotion to your wedding.Remember your mother is a woman and you are marrying a woman. The nieces that you love and care so much will grow up to be women. You wouldn't want a jerk telling them " dont make such a big deal about the day you always dreamed of", would you?

brad1431 · October 2009

no yusi, what I am saying is to me a review is just a review, it should do what it is intended and convey useful information that is unbiased. I think lots of girls use their review to try to validate or convince others or themselves that they had there pretty perfect princess dream platinum wedding, which has nothing to do with a review. They should have two posts one to be a unbiased vendor review and then another rant post to rant and rave about their day.

mrs.spunky1508 · October 2009

But to have used them you have to be biased right? I mean, you did pick that person/venue/group over scads of others. You formed an opinion, in their favor, and are then biased against others in that field. If you weren't, you wouldn't have chosen the one you did choose. I don't know how you chose certain vendors but for me, for venues at least, I went by price. Over a certain amount pp, I wouldn't pick them. Too high a minimum, they're out too. Been there before and didn't like food? Out! I made a decision based on certain qualities that vendor had that met MY NEEDS and WANTS, no one else's.

mrs.spunky1508 · October 2009

Brad, would you like to see 2 F reviews? Seriously.

brad1431 · October 2009

yeah, it is hard to be unbiased as people want to think that they made a good decision, but you can make an attempt at it. Like assume everyone gets a B, and then say what did they do more than I expected and what did they do worse than I expected. Everyone just assumes, they did what they were supposed to A+++++, which is wrong, cause it isnt helpful.The point is that you are doing a review for others, not to make yourself feel good about your wedding. You are doing it to help other make decisions, so if you arent being as objective and unbiased as possible, there is no point to your review. Look at that last review, gave TOC a C, we were on the fence about seeing them for DJ, I told FI someone gave them a C and they are high priced, she said good, now we know not to go there. GREAT, that review really helped.

cher1980 · October 2009

omg...we had our perfect princess weddings because our vendors made it possible for us! If they all screwed up- obviously no perfect wedding!Go look your lil neice in the eye and tell her no perfect princess wedding for her! im sure you will feel great!

ddelo23 · October 2009

Brad, what you have just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this "room" is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and my God have mercy on your soul.

mrs.spunky1508 · October 2009

But once the decision is made to use a certain vendor, that means you put a decent amount of faith in them executing a job correctly and well. I have faith that I will come home tonight and not find my H in bed with another woman. I am biased as I know his character, his history. Another woman's husband, I would not have such faith as I may not know him as well. As for a vendor, if they do not execute correctly and well, then they get a bad grade. But different people have different expectations. Some people are ok with giving an "ok" job an A. Some people (like you, you know you are!) are picky and want the freakin' moon and getting a B is like pulling teeth. You say it's wrong, but it is not so absolute.

eMiLee920 · October 2009

Brad, there is a reason movie directors don't review their own films. Because even if they wanted to, they can't be completely impartial. It's the same here. No bride, no matter how hard she tries, is going to be able to be completely unbiased about the wedding she spent months (or years) planning.

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