So, I noticed that many of the engaged NEY ladies that hang around don't have their dresses yet. I thought this might be fun for all those thinking about THE dress. What are the things you love and those that you hate? I'll go first. Love: -a non-white dress (maybe even light gold if I can find it) - a non-strapless dress Hate: -poofy dresses -pickups -long trains Keep in mind that my wedding is going to be a casual, intimate affair of hopefully no more than 30 people.