I am 5'5. Most of my bridesmaids are 5'2 or 5'6. However my oldest sister and one of my bridesmaids are 5'8. With 3 inch heels on they are like almost 6 feet tall. This is cool any other day but not on my wedding day. I don't want them towering over me on my day. Do I sound a little selfish? But can't I be selfish on my wedding day? I am planning to let them both know that they can't wear the same shoes as the other girls. I have located 5 different pairs of shoes with a much lower heel on them. I feel that if they are reasonable they will understand how I feel. Am I asking too much?