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  • That FI can't seem to remember what I eat.  Ever.  The radio station ordered dinner from a place downtown while I was in class and he ordered the one thing off the menu I can't/won't eat.  Urgh.

    It's little, but highly annoying and a bit distressing.  But I still love him.

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  • *sigh* Right now, it's worrying about actually finding a job in Sweden.  I'm making contingency plans which include going back to school for my masters degree, but none of the local universities have a program that I'm really interested in at this point.  When I graduated from college, sure my balls were blue for politics, but it's definitely o-be gone away now.  Sadly, this is all that is available in my soon-to-be area for me. POOH
  • This post, and poster.  Please - feel free to go join in.  Try to remember it's not the Etiquette board, so be a smidge nicer, but no need to coddle her.

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  • Annoy:  Right now, my cat.  I got him when I was 6 and I am way attached, but does he have to get his gay-love on with my other cat in the middle of the night on my bed?  I don't need to wake up to MEEOWOOREEOOW 5 times a night.

    Distress:  FI going to Uganda soon.  Freaking me right out.

    Confuse:  The logic behind complaining about bad things that happen to you that you brought onto yourself.  Really?  You were doing 50 in a school zone and you got a ticket?  No way!

    Frustrate:  I'm in the library right now, and none of these books have indexes.  Driving me nuts.
  • The latest one is I gave my Dad power of atty since I'm no longer in the county.  He agreed to take care of any bills that came in, and be a state side contact for my rental unit.

    Then he decides to move to FL for the winter.  I get a call from the storage people "we haven't received a payment in a few months..."  so I call Dad.  "Uhm Dad, have they been sending statements for the storage?"  I hear Oh I don't know we haven't been there and had all the mail held.  So much for having someone state side to take care of this.

    Oh, and they will be in FL until late April.  Taxes are due April 15th.  I'm sure all my tax stuff is sitting in his held mail.
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  • The headache I have right now is really fucking annoying.
  • At work I'm in a position where I have to report inappropriate behavior.  If I don't, I'LL get in trouble for not reporting it.  Well I have several coworkers who are also friends who KNOW that I'm in this position.  Well one of them was having a highly inappropriate conversation at work a couple weeks ago.  I tried to put a stop to it before it got to the point where I'd have to say something and he kept going.  So I did my job and reported the conversation, and he and the other person were spoken to about it.  Well now he's mad at me for "getting him in trouble."  HOWEVER, he's not mad at my supervisor!  I reported to her, she reported to the head of the department, who he "got in trouble with".  So he's not mad at her for doing her job and he's still all chummy with her, but he's mad at me for doing my job and won't talk to me.  THAT annoys and frustrates me...and pisses me off more than a little.

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    [QUOTE]The headache I have right now is really fucking annoying.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    This too.
  • The grad student who is helping me with my thesis data.  I'm an undergrad; I don't know how to run complicated models.  So when you print the chart, give me a two minute overview of what each number means, and then say "Have fun.  Let me know what you find," I really really really don't like you.
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    Distress.  Definitely distress.  :-(

    I just got a letter from a construction attorney who is representing my Homeowners' Assocation in a settlement with the developer's insurer. 
     
    Apparently, a geotechnical engineer contracted by the HOA identified a "very high level of sulfates" in the soil that are causing permanent and irreversible damage to the foundation of our homes.  The lawyer says that building codes require a special type of cement be used in high sulfate soils.  Naturally, my builder didn't use it.  I guess that's why my patio has been slowly disintegrating...
     
    If I join the settlement, I can expect to receive $5K - $7K from the insurer in two years to put towards the $30K in treatments that the engineer swears are necessary to protect the structural integrity of my home (which is worth a little more than twice what it would cost to "repair" and about one-third of what I owe). 
     
    Just wonderful.
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    [QUOTE]Annoy:  Right now, my cat.  I got him when I was 6 and I am way attached, but does he have to get his gay-love on with my other cat in the middle of the night on my bed?  I don't need to wake up to MEEOWOOREEOOW 5 times a night. Distress:  FI going to Uganda soon.  Freaking me right out. Confuse:  <strong>The logic behind complaining about bad things that happen to you that you brought onto yourself.  Really?  You were doing 50 in a school zone and you got a ticket?  No way!</strong> Frustrate:  I'm in the library right now, and none of these books have indexes.  Driving me nuts.
    Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]

    That pisses me off. Some of my old coworkers would complain about tickets. One guy got a ticket for littering and something else because he flicked a cigarette butt out his car window. Yes, it is litering, and yes, it is <em>wild fire</em> season. You deserve the ticket. Another got a ticket for rolling through a stop sign and went to court to fight it, knowing he was guilty, just to see if he could get out of it. Thanks for wasting my tax dollars.
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  • The fact that I just dropped all of my all-natural fruit snacks on the kitchen floor after the bottom of the bag ripped. Damnit. 
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    How moody and bitchy my husband gets, hes worse than a woman suffering from severe pms. The littlest things set him off, not getting the reply he wants on an email or not being replied to fast enough, being told what to do by his editors, having to make food for himself, it being busy at work, etc etc etc. It is annoying as hell to deal with when he gets like that, he just huffs around the house and wont talk and wont DO anything. He also doesnt pay attention when he is talking and sometimes leaves entire words out or says things and I ask because it made no sense, and he insists I misheard him because he knows he said what he meant to say. I am not hard of hearing, I dont miss entire words that come out of your mouth. It confuses me, because it happens on a semi regular basis.
  • Sorry if this double-posts, my BB is being cranky! Squirrly, I definitely read "this post, and this poster" as my post here and me! I was ready to cry before I figured it out. I'm a dork.
  • Annoyed - After being so good about eating well for the past three months this week has just blown that away. I've become and eating monster and if this is a 9 month sickness I think I might go mad (but for a good course)

    Distress - We find out tomorrow if we go to "Reduction Option 1" with our school budget. Eliminating my position is part of Option 1. I won't know for another 6-8 weeks if I get eliminated though so I can't start looking for other jobs.

    Frustrate - I got this really pretty blue/green baby yarn at the store 3 months ago. I found a baby blanket pattern I want to make that requires 2-3 balls of this yarn. I cannot find this yarn anywhere now, argh!
  • Aaand here's my list: Creepy long nails Babies with pierced ears Plumber's butt-yielding jeans Little girls in tube tops/makeup (a la Libby Lu) Hummers Greasy hair Groups of people who take up the entire sidewalk and don't allow me to pass them Mountain Dew BO on public transit Any kind of bodily fluid on public transit
  • Annoy/confuse: my officemates who would rather open the window than touch the thermostat. For some reason the thermostat was on 85, the window was open, and my desk was getting blasted by the heater, which was for some reason trying to keep the room at 85 degrees. WTF.
  • I'm a little annoyed my aunt keeps asking me, What gift do you want that isn't on your registry?  Auntie, if I knew, I'd ADD it to the registry.  I love her, but she's been buying me gifts that aren't me for YEARS (she generally gets my sisters and I jewelry every Christmas that we never, ever wear).
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  • The fact that my H has been sick for weeks and we're still no closer to figuring it out (mostly distressing but also slightly frustrating- not him obviously, but the situation itself). 
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    [QUOTE]This post, and poster.  Please - feel free to go join in.  Try to remember it's not the Etiquette board, so be a smidge nicer, but no need to coddle her. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_engagement-party-invites_.0" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_engagement-party-invites_.0</a>
    Posted by squirrly[/QUOTE]

    Gotta love how mommy jumped to her defense and commenced the finger-waving at all us bad, bad brides....
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    Another annoying/frustrating one. A friend of mine is running a half marathon in may or something (sometime around then) and she REFUSES to train for it, just complain that she isnt training properly and really needs to. She knows what she has to do, but she just doesnt feel like it. She claims to be too busy to put in the time. Just shiit or get off the pot, seriously. Do it or dont, I dont care, but quit complaining about needing to do it and then continuing to not do it. I think she just likes talking about herself though, because if I ever bring myself up she changes the subject back to herself, has to go or just disappears (online).
  • DH just mentioned something about moving after our lease is up.

    However, I don't want to move unless we're buying a home. We've got this apartment decorated the way we want, it's a decent size, it's a great location, and where he wants to move costs the same as where we live now. The location is good but not as good as where we are now, and there aren't many extra perks.

    It's a townhouse, not an apartment. It has a small backyard, and it has a 2car garage.

    Those are the only perks. We have a 1-car garage now and no yard, but we have no animals, and this way, the complex mows the grass, not us.

    It's 2-story, which is only going to increase our electric bill.

    Hopefully I can talk him out of this by the time our lease is up (in a few months)
  • Lately, H's picky eating habits. He can only eat peanut butter if it's in a peanut butter cup, but he can't be around other people eating them or PB in general. Yesterday I made a tasty Asian noodle thing with peanut sauce*, which he loved, but when I told him later it had PB in the sauce he looked like he was going to barf and said he probably won't be able to eat the leftovers. ARGH.

    *Poli, this was actually your recipe for tofu w/peanut sauce and fettuccine. My friend loved it, it was delicious! Thanks again!



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    [QUOTE]Lately, H's picky eating habits. He can only eat peanut butter if it's in a peanut butter cup, but he can't be around other people eating them or PB in general. Yesterday I made a tasty Asian noodle thing with peanut sauce*, which he loved, but when I told him later it had PB in the sauce he looked like he was going to barf and said he probably won't be able to eat the leftovers. ARGH. *Poli, this was actually your recipe for tofu w/peanut sauce and fettuccine. My friend loved it, it was delicious! Thanks again!
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

    This sounds like my H.  He won't eat vegetables but says he loves to eat the eggplant parmesan in the cantine at work. WTF.
  • Distress: I work and am a student at the same university. A friend of mine told me something that I absolutely HAD to report and I feel bad, but, I'm worried I might lose her friendship over it.

    Frustrate: I gained 3 lbs after losing 15. I feel like I took 3 steps forward and 1 step back, which id driving me nuts.

    In general though, what annoys me are my friends talking about my wedding and how awesome it is that I get to dress up like a PRINCESS. Dude. Stop calling me a princess. I don't have a royal bloodline. It's so annoying to be called a "princess".
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Things that annoy/distress/confuse/frustrate you : This sounds like my H.  He won't eat vegetables but says he loves to eat the eggplant parmesan in the cantine at work. WTF.
    Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]

    Seriously, what is up with that? We need like a big neon blinking arrow to point out to them the logical error here.



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    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
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    [QUOTE]This post, and poster.  Please - feel free to go join in.  Try to remember it's not the Etiquette board, so be a smidge nicer, but no need to coddle her. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_engagement-party-invites_.0" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_invites-paper_engagement-party-invites_.0</a>
    Posted by squirrly[/QUOTE]

    Oh my god, that just made my day.  We're having a good time reading the posts aloud to each other.
  • Beatles, I'm glad you liked it! Silly H... More leftovers for you though, right? :)

    I'm thinking about making that tonight, actually!
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    [QUOTE]This profile pic from suggested friend on Facebook annoys, distresses, confuses, and frustrates me (and also grosses me out).  I think it's the skinless head of a cow or something.  I'm traumatized, s<strong>o now I have to traumatize all of you</strong>.
    Posted by cocoreo3[/QUOTE]

    <div>Did you really? That's fuucking disgusting.</div>
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  • Coco, that wasn't cool at all. Please post a warning or something next time. I feel like I'm going to cry and vomit all at the same time.



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    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
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