My fiance wanted to have his old pastor, who he grew up with, to do the wedding ceremony. We agreed so he asked him last year. The problem, now, is that we go to a new church and are more involved and really love the pastor there. He's helped us through some difficult times and is going to do our pre-marital counseling and everything. We really wish we would've waited to ask. We also decided it would be rude and disrespectful to un-ask the first pastor. How can we incorporate our pastor into the ceremony? Any ideas?