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midgetthemighty · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:39ee6d16-785e-486b-8875-c62c6dea00d5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Oi. Still reading. I really dislike circular arguments.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

What page does that start on?

ErinG93 · December 2011

I just finished reading that interesting thread. My brain hurts.

louisvillebride21 · December 2011

Holy Shiit! Money and Salt? Are you guys texting each other and decide to invade our board? Huh? CAUSE THAT'S OK.

MyUserName1 · December 2011

late...11ish.

It started just as I left that night, so if you still see me in there, it hasn't gotten good yet.

ETA: No, wait. it was after page 11. i don't know. She left then came back all het up.

dumdumfroggie · December 2011

I'm trying to work on reading that thread, but it's ridiculous over reactions extreme.

I read what LDY wrote when she did, and I did not take it this way at all.

I'm guessing it doesn't have a happy ending?

Loopyseven · December 2011

It had a happy enough ending. I'm not seeing anything that would make me think Kalpi GBCK'd.

MyUserName1 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:78fc1c90-7c40-48b6-9e49-556955ecbf86">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]It had a happy enough ending. I'm not seeing anything that would make me think Kalpi GBCK'd.
Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]

The only reason I thought maybe she did is because I have not seen her since.

But it was also mentioned that she went OOT for the holidays, so she probably did not.

ErinG93 · December 2011

I like Kalpi, I hope she didn't GBCK.On an unrelated note, I seriously thought that Missy would have come back by now.

ILoveToRobot · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:78d1ddbd-6cf4-4bd5-b2b3-efe86cc06ade">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame ILoveRobots for not understanding the different between someone "being hot" and "having the hots for someone".
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

How did I know this would get flamed. I feel so honored!

barrelbabe004 · December 2011

I don't think she GBCK'd, I just think she's busy traveling.

midgetthemighty · December 2011

Thank you!

MyUserName1 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:c78e0ae1-a4f4-4451-9f4d-f3ceb6d0e293">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That's where it went off the rails for me. If Rachers here got hurt after I told her we all know she lurves strippers, and then called me out in a thread, but then my wide fan base said "Rach, Eagles is cool, I think you took it the wrong way, she's never been mean to anyone who wasn't Amethyst" and Rachers still insisted that they all couldn't see my bitchiness, <strong>I'd think Rachers was into the wine or something.</strong>
Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

To be fair, she probably was in this hypothetical. KUI FTW.

barrelbabe004 · December 2011

I thought Missy would be back by now too. I haven't seen her on any boards though.

salt78 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:cf698c1b-92ba-4727-8ced-35cb952ca7a5">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Holy Shiit! Money and Salt? Are you guys texting each other and decide to invade our board? Huh? CAUSE THAT'S OK.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

Pregly MIND MELD. Where the hell is Fezzles to complete the trifecta?

baystateapple · December 2011

I like Missy, but I was really disappointed things ended the way they did. Ciara had the same thing said to her a few months ago, and she handled it with a lot of grace and got the help she felt she needed. I

Ciara. But with Missy, I feel like she just thought we were all picking on her. And that made me sad.

I also really get annoyed when anyone starts in on the "you don't understand my situation" thing. Granted, no, we don't know your specific situation. But there are many ladies here who went through difficult times this year. I don't like playing the "my pain is worse than yours" game. It's just a losing game either way.

barrelbabe004 · December 2011

Missy got flamed a lot on our club board and still stuck around so I'm surprised that what happened here put her over the edge. But she's in a really bad spot. I hope she gets help.

Loopyseven · December 2011

I too was sure Missy would be back. I felt kinda like we ran her off. I never interacted with her much directly after she moved cause she stopped coming in the night threads and I've always struggled to post during the day at work, but I'd read later and just wanted to jump through the computer and tell her to stop already with the gloom and doom. I think we all just wanted her to be happy, and sitting on here bitching about her life sucking and decisions she (and her H made) not working out for them but not doing anything to actively change the situation was not going to make anything better.

Well there were a couple of run on sentences. I'm too lazy to fix them though.

ErinG93 · December 2011

Bay, I think you handle your situation with your H working insane crazy-sauce hours so well. I know her situation is way different from yours, but everyone has something going on in their life. And I'm doing FFF wrong, damniit.

LDYGTR13 · December 2011

I agree that the Kalpi thing was weird. I think she doesn't read sarcasm well...or constructive criticism. But hopefully we started over and she won't hate me anymore, because JFC, she was all looney tunes that night.

MyUserName1 · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:843e68cd-a931-4fa8-bfde-68079655ffb6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Bay, I think you handle your situation with your H working insane crazy-sauce hours so well. I know her situation is way different from yours, but everyone has something going on in their life. And I'm doing FFF wrong, damniit.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

I flame Erin for sucking at FFF :D

MyUserName1 · December 2011

LDY your new sig pic is SO pretty.

I also suck at FFF apparently.

Should i have said that I flamed you for having such a pretty sig pic?

baystateapple · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:843e68cd-a931-4fa8-bfde-68079655ffb6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Bay, I think you handle your situation with your H working insane crazy-sauce hours so well. I know her situation is way different from yours, but everyone has something going on in their life. And I'm doing FFF wrong, damniit.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

Oh, Erin, you didn't see me earlier this week when H told me he was working 16 hours Christmas Eve and 8 hours Christmas Day. I had had a terrible day at work and that was the icing on the cake. But it's hard to get upset about it when he's being SO adult about the whole situation. And he's the one who is losing out on Christmas, I still get to spend it with my family. So I feel likle I really don't have the right to get upset about it, you know?

Loopyseven · December 2011

Hi LDY. I

you

I'm doing FFF wrong

.

barrelbabe004 · December 2011

I agree Bay. We all have things that suck in our lives but, to me, it's how we handle them. I have mad respect for you and C who both handled your problems head on this year. Missy wasn't/isn't ready to hear that she needs help of some kind. She just wanted to complain and I don't think she realizes how much she was bringing the board's mood down.

ErinG93 · December 2011

I do know, Bay! For someone who isn't used to the horrible hours you are handling it so well. From what I've seen you seem to handle yourself with a lot of class no matter the situation.

Eff. I need a flame.

LDYGTR13 · December 2011

I

y'all too! SAAAAAAALT! MONEY!

barrelbabe004 · December 2011

Love the new sig LDY!

baystateapple · December 2011

Thanks, Erin and Barrell.

Loopyseven · December 2011

I sympathize with you Bay. I agree you're handling his working hours with lots of class.

My H is working the holiday too out of town. On the one hand he's going to be solo for Christmas which will suck while I at least am still in Cleveland with friends and his family. On the other, I'm having a pity party here that he won't be with me at all for the holiday.

. He also just told me he might be sent to training school for 4 weeks in March, which he needs to do in order to move to the next level and pay grade, but dammit we just booked plane tickets to go to Cabo in March for a week with my family. I'll still go, even if he can't but it kind of sucks that this new job might be ruining the next time I was sure we'd have a chunk of time to spend together.

dumdumfroggie · December 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-82?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4b67ae4b-5942-49f6-b5db-6ef0efb4e236Post:91d7ec5e-4687-4714-9411-8137e3056afc">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh, Erin, you didn't see me earlier this week when H told me he was working 16 hours Christmas Eve and 8 hours Christmas Day. I had had a terrible day at work and that was the icing on the cake. But it's hard to get upset about it when he's being SO adult about the whole situation. And he's the one who is losing out on Christmas, I still get to spend it with my family. So I feel likle I really don't have the right to get upset about it, you know?
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

<div>You do deserve the right to get mad about it. Holidays are hard when you're not with the person you love.</div><div>
</div><div>But, you don't seem to be dwelling on the issue, which makes it completely different. I think this makes the difference.</div>

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