Sorry so long, but I am definitely a bride in need of advice and help. Very sad situation...
My coMOH practically pouted until I made her coMOH. She was originally going to be a bridesmaid and my sister was going to be MOH. Well, I felt bad and it looked like she really wanted it so I went ahead and asked her to be a coMOH.
Ever since then, anything that my family asks her to help with she doesn't do. She arrives late to events and doesn't help set up or offer. She leaves early or on time and doesn't offer to help clean up. She is completely inappropriate at my showers and parties... she talks about partying and how she is dating 5 guys at once. She never comments on how good anything looks or gives compliments to those who set up...
Her mom had to BEG me in a private FB message to help her be on time with getting her passport because she wouldn't listen to her... She got it set up at the LAST minute because I had to get mad at her.
The kicker? She didn't have a card, present, or ANYTHING for me at my bridal shower... Know this: I do not NEED presents. But for my BEST FRIEND and coMOH to not even think of me REALLY hurt. That she night she had the nerve to call me and ask if I had extra alcohol to give her because she was out and needed a drink... She will post on FB about other friends, their birthday, their parites, etc. but NEVER about me or my wedding.
She has NEVER been like this and I always thought she was a good friend. I have NO idea what to do or what is going on. Needless to say, my family, friends, fiance, and his family are upset and see how inappropriate she is. WHAT DO I DO?
I want to blow up at her and I certainly don't have it in me to be "nice" at this point. All she cares about is planning the bachelorette party, which she won't even ask for my input on and keeps telling me "You have no say!" I want to "demote" her so that my sister can get the credit she deserves, but I don't want to cause a major fuss before Mexico and have it be awkward... EITHER WAY IT SUCKS! HELP! )': I've cried and lost too much sleep over this mess...