I just found out last night that my future mother-in-law changed the dress that she is going to wear for the wedding. As she was showing me the picture she admitted that when she got home she realized it was the same style as my dress. Both have are gathered at the waste, have a side drape and strapless. She said she has a little jacket for hers and mine is a little more puffy, has beading on the bodice and through out the gown and has a train. Other then those difference they are the exact same style dress. I was taken so off guard by this that I didn't really say anything one way or another to her and she never ask me if it was okay. After leaving I told my fiance about how upset I was and that if it were my mother I would ask her what the h..l she was doing however I did not feel comfortable even telling his mother that I was upset. He did ask me if I thought she did it on purpose, I told him I would hope not, but that makes me feel like he thinks she may have. How should I handle this situation and am I making too much out of this. PLEASE HELP my wedding is in 3 months!