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Blueyed228
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DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
Ok ladies. WDYT. (ETA pics)
So im bored at work. Its slow due to Earl. Tell me what you think of this. Most of you know that I work at gay clubs. Predominantly men. So there is this dancer we shall call Hector. Well Hector is" straight" and in a serious committed relationship with a beautiful girl. Well Hector is dancing on a pole righ now in front of me with his boxers around his ankles and his Jimmy Choo in everyones face. He also lets guys shove dollars in his boxers and grab a feel.
I am a confident girl, but this would concern me. What say you? Would you be ok with your man doing this?
(also there a rumors about him hooking up with boys which is no big deal except the whole gf thing so if he us bi she definitely does not know)
ETA: This is what I am talking about.
I dont know if you can see, but in the pic above his bum bum is totally out.
I am a confident girl, but this would concern me. What say you? Would you be ok with your man doing this?
(also there a rumors about him hooking up with boys which is no big deal except the whole gf thing so if he us bi she definitely does not know)
ETA: This is what I am talking about.
I dont know if you can see, but in the pic above his bum bum is totally out.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
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Re: Ok ladies. WDYT. (ETA pics)
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So one part of me says, hey, it's just a job, and he's making money.
The other part of me imagines Ben having a job like this... and me flying into the club and clawing the eyes out of any other women OR MEN who are grabbing at him.
Yeah, I'd be concerned. Quite a bit!
I also don't buy gay for pay, but that's another issue.
I made a bio?!?
I want to call up this chick and tell her to get out.
Granted, I can see FI doing it with his friends. In fact, it may have happened at a couple parties. Lol..that's a matter on it's own though..and not at all at the level of seriousness you're talking about.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]Yaa..I say not good. <span style="font-weight:bold;">Granted, I can see FI doing it with his friends. In fact, it may have happened at a couple parties</span>. Lol..that's a matter on it's own though..and not at all at the level of seriousness you're talking about.
Posted by *tiffbot*1985*[/QUOTE]
Wait. What?
I made a bio?!?
[QUOTE]I would definitely not be comfortable with that. In most of the gay clubs I frequent, the customers are VERY touchy-feely and that would make me feel uncomfortable, whether it was a man or woman. <strong>I also don't buy gay for pay, but that's another issue. </strong>
Posted by npasquale16[/QUOTE]
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</div><div>I don't know. Some people are just narcissists/exhibitionists. </div><div>
</div><div>I kinda think you should know better than to date someone like that, though, if you want a committed relationship.</div>
him and his friends just get along really really well. And my guy friends fit right into their group. And boys will be boys..!
When I say gay for pay, I'm talking about allowing people to touch you, or hooking up with customers, or acting in gay porn. In my circle, I know of a lot of men who claim to be straight, but work at the clubs and hook up with customers to "make more money." I just don't buy it.
Either way, he shoud definitely be honest with the GF.
I made a bio?!?
Granted, alcohol was involved.
It was all in fun though.
I kind of feel like I'm taking away from the point of this convo..haha
ETA: I see you posted at the same time.
I made a bio?!?
Stuff like that?
I dunno. I didn't think any of them were really gay but I did find it weird that they behaved so... gayly.
They just really enjoy not having to wear all of their clothes if they don't have to. But I think they're finally getting out of that phase. Haven't seen that happen in awhile.
FI and I each had pretty solid friends before we met each other, and after we met and started dating, the two groups were instantly made into one. There's actually a couple of my girlfriends dating a couple of his friends now. Things worked out really well for everyone after we met..haha
But I'd say acting gayly is the right way to describe it!
Married in Vegas - June 2011
I swear..I am a normal human as is FI..and all our friends..
Just to clear that up!
I made a bio?!?
On a side note, a friend of mine used to date a stipper at a gay club (he was the only straight one) and she found out that he was hooking up with the girls that came there with their gay guy friends. Unfortunately, a little while after she found that out, she found out she was pregnant...with twins. He was a total d-bag about it too, so he has absolutely nothing to do with her or the boys. Not saying all straight-gay-stippers are like this, but they shadiness seems to be a trend...
I actually know a couple who does this - they are friends with my aunt and uncle. They don't approve of their choice but basically feel like what they do in private is none of their business.
How would that come up in a marriage? I mean can you imagine it? "Sweetie, do you think we should spice things up a little by, I dunno, adding a third person to the mix? Or switching with the Joneses?"
Off to bed! Good night all!!
When I was working at Express, one of the managers and I went out to lunch. We were talking about older people in bars and clubs and she said maybe they were swingers. Then she told me she and her daughter's father were swingers when they were together. Their main rule was to look at the other partners as a toy, rather than a separate person. It was like bringing a vibrator to bed.
I could definitely not do it and I don't get the point of making a vow to be faithful if you aren't planning on being monogamous, but what grown adults do is their own business. There are worse things going on in the world.
I made a bio?!?
And "Hector's" got some 'splainin to do....
[QUOTE]Yeah. Like i said, your sexual orientation is not something i judge. But if you have a gf and hook up with dudes, im gonna think you're a jerk.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
<div>If you have a gf and hook up with anyone, you're a jerk.</div><div>
</div><div>He might be bi, and his gf might know that. Of course, that doesn't mean he can hook up with men and women at the same time - at least not if you're "serious" with one person. </div><div>
</div><div>So yeah, all that stuff would bother me.</div>
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