So, I am the oldest of my parents 3 daughters and the first to be getting married, and I have no clue how all this planning is supposed to work. I have heard that traditionally the Mother of the Bride planned the bridal shower, but I don't expect my mom to do all of that work. She has more than enough on her plate. The problem is, no one - not my bridesmaids (sisters), future mother in law, future sisters in law, friends, etc - has mentioned planning any type of bridal shower for my fiance and I. I am not a super traditional bride, but I also don't want to miss out on the entire experience most of us brides dreamed about when we were little girls! I didn't even get to go to a bridal show because no one wanted to go. Is the shower something I delegate to someone? I don't know what the etiquette is for this...Should I even have one at all? What are your experiences? I could really use some advice...