New to this board... loving the air of mystery and the irony that this is the etiquette board... Thinking that the air has not been cleared at all, but just shaken enough to get things going again....
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:8003b524-be62-43f4-abb0-27f6584a4bf0">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]Also, has anyone ever seen The Skulls? All this cult talk totally reminds me of that movie. I must find it on Netflix immediately! Posted by Mrs_AF[/QUOTE] I used to love that movie. Speaking of movies I used to love and haven't seen in a while, my coworker brought me Labyrinth on DVD today. FI is gone for work this week, so it looks like it's me, the dawgs, and David Bowie's junk will have a relaxing evening in.
Ooh, The Skulls! Yes, I hope it's available to watch immediately on Netflix. H will be home late, and I think it would go perfectly with my pizza, beer, and loneliness.
Uhhh... yeah. I have to agree with what Lala said. It was more of a "don't let the door hit ya" when you left. You do enough damage to yourself without any of us getting involved.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:5ed62c16-a0d2-4fe9-a99c-59801058d7cf">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]NO. please, PLEASE don't let this thread off the hook yet. Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Oh, sorry.
Um... I guess this isn't a very interesting thread because it's just not surprising. I kind of figured there must be some off of this board stuff going on between heels and some other posters because there was too much bitterness. Also, I was surprised heels hadn't come on defending herself before this even.
The only unfortunate part is that she posted this after all the east coasters go home.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:a1570408-b955-4d21-ab79-abd4567178bf">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Oh, sorry. Um... I guess this isn't a very interesting thread because it's just not surprising. I kind of figured there must be some off of this board stuff going on between heels and some other posters because there was too much bitterness. Also, I was surprised heels hadn't come on defending herself before this even. The only unfortunate part is that she posted this after all the east coasters go home. Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE] Pfft. Unfortunate or practical for her? Sure is nice throwing down the shiit when everyone's gone!
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:32758efd-990e-47bf-a1f2-c0d1c5d5b59f">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : I used to love that movie. Speaking of movies I used to love and haven't seen in a while, my coworker brought me Labyrinth on DVD today. FI is gone for work this week, so it looks like it's me, the dawgs, and David Bowie's junk will have a relaxing evening in. Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
FI loves that movie. Hmm. Given David Bowie's costume choices I may have a few questions to ask him when he gets home...
I want to know specifically whom Heels thinks was mad enough at her (for not gracing them with her presence anymore?) to create an AE and blame it on her. Besides P2.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:50a7955c-ca2e-4c73-94d1-cf35b5586e44">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]I don't think Heels is coming back, Lala. I think she caught the wrong fish. Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:87614b67-0c22-424c-ad3e-a51626b61efd">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]I want to know specifically whom Heels thinks was mad enough at her (for not gracing them with her presence anymore?)<strong> to create an AE and blame it on her.</strong> Besides P2. Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Mery, I don't think this is what she was saying. That's not what I got from this thread at all. She's just saying that <em>she's </em>not BC.
And I think her naming names would just make this situation worse, entertaining or not, so why would she do it? I actually think it's kind of cool that she's respecting the membership of her old offboard even though she's getting more shitt for not naming names. You know I like you Mery and often agree with you, but I have to disagree with you on this one.
I agree that this whole situation is ridiculous and immature, from the very beginning.
ETA: Oops, jinx Mag!
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"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:15089897-1076-4f4d-b7a8-a9183b80be7c">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]The reason certain regs think that I am BC is because I left their OB a few months ago I am on the offboard you left. I can promise you, no one was sitting around trying to make an AE to pin on you, or anything. I think if people were being nasty to you from the OB, they had reasons, but it wasn't because you left. do you think there's such sour grapes over your leaving that we'd make something like this up? because I'm confused. Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
No, I'm not saying that you guys made BC to frame me, I'm saying that I think some of that crew genuinely thinks I'm BC and that the reason they think I would make a troll to harass them or whatever is because I left the board.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:6adc902a-20d9-44e2-a785-fc7a92d01632">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]I didn't get that at all. I don't think she thought that someone created the AE (if it is in fact an AE, I am feeling what Sarah is laying down) to blame it on her. I think she was saying that it has just turned into a finger pointing game, and she's the one being blamed. I think they are mutually exclusive. But, what do I know. Posted by mag920[/QUOTE]
I'm feeling that.
I've also always been about 68% sure that BC is real. Or at least not an E reg.
Edit: Just saw your response Beatles, and I get that. But I think she could have also approached it in a "xxx and xxx have a beef with me, which is why they're flaming the BC thing" and left the OB out of it period. Having an issue with specific people wouldn't compromise the identity of everyone on the OB, which is what she originally sort of implied.
Honestly, I'm not sure why we're talking about this. No one, AFAIK, has brought up BC since FFF.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:6adc902a-20d9-44e2-a785-fc7a92d01632">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]I didn't get that at all. I don't think she thought that someone created the AE (if it is in fact an AE, I am feeling what Sarah is laying down) to blame it on her. I think she was saying that it has just turned into a finger pointing game, and she's the one being blamed. I think they are mutually exclusive. But, what do I know. Posted by mag920[/QUOTE] so, someone else made up blamecanada and a person from the offboard made the KPS accusing her of it, with no basis? my question is, why even bring the offboard into it?
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:197333a9-6ab3-49c6-beea-7f573f976981">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : so, someone else made up blamecanada and a person from the offboard made the KPS accusing her of it, with no basis? <strong>my question is, why even bring the offboard into it?</strong> Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:9f3bd6dc-613e-46b8-90b3-0c766bbb75a8">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]Uhhh... yeah. I have to agree with what Lala said. It was more of a "don't let the door hit ya" when you left. You do enough damage to yourself without any of us getting involved. Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]
You're full of chit, Amoro. As soon as I quit, you sent me a gmail chat wanting to talk about it and saying you were sorry that I got slammed, which I didn't even know about until you told me. You are the fakest and most two-faced person here.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:b888feef-0955-486d-b1be-5b05e51526aa">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : No, I'm not saying that you guys made BC to frame me, I'm saying that I think some of that crew genuinely thinks I'm BC and that the reason they think I would make a troll to harass them or whatever is because I left the board. Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE] ah.
I don't have a dog in this fight, but I'll say that I don't blame Heels for wanting to clear her name. I'd be angry too if I was blamed for an AE whose goal was to offend people. Whether or not people believe it or the reasoning is up to them.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:7f20edd0-3c65-45a0-b913-2e138ae3034c">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]I don't have a dog in this fight, but I'll say that I don't blame Heels for wanting to clear her name. I'd be angry too if I was blamed for an AE whose goal was to offend people. Whether or not people believe it or the reasoning is up to them. Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]
Agreed. This isn't FFF; you don't have to just suck it up and take it. Not that anyone abides by that rule anyway. ;)
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:a34df51a-fba9-4763-b419-f1a77f74ee0d">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]gg, can it. amoro has made 2 posts, neither of which is overly hostile. go change your depends. penny, if I started my own offboard, you'd be one of the first invited. we all need ninjas around. :) Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Perfect--I'll be building an armory of nunchucks and throwing stars in the meantime :).
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:a34df51a-fba9-4763-b419-f1a77f74ee0d">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]gg, can it. amoro has made 2 posts, neither of which is overly hostile. go change your depends. penny, <strong>if I started my own offboard, you'd be one of the first invited</strong>. we all need ninjas around. :) Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE] Hmmpff.
Damnit knot. What I just posted ended up on some club board, and it may be irrelevant now, but just in case. Lala, what I am saying is that the two main ringleaders in the whole "BC is Heels!!11!!!!" brigade are from your board. I assume they think that because I left. If there is some other reason, I'd love to hear it. I don't mean that in a facetious way, I am genuinely curious.
Re: Let's clear the air.
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[QUOTE]Also, has anyone ever seen The Skulls? All this cult talk totally reminds me of that movie. I must find it on Netflix immediately!
Posted by Mrs_AF[/QUOTE]
I used to love that movie. Speaking of movies I used to love and haven't seen in a while, my coworker brought me Labyrinth on DVD today. FI is gone for work this week, so it looks like it's me, the dawgs, and David Bowie's junk will have a relaxing evening in.
Whatever you hatters be hattin. -Tay Prince
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[QUOTE]NO. please, PLEASE don't let this thread off the hook yet.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Oh, sorry.
Um... I guess this isn't a very interesting thread because it's just not surprising. I kind of figured there must be some off of this board stuff going on between heels and some other posters because there was too much bitterness. Also, I was surprised heels hadn't come on defending herself before this even.
The only unfortunate part is that she posted this after all the east coasters go home.
"You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Oh, sorry. Um... I guess this isn't a very interesting thread because it's just not surprising. I kind of figured there must be some off of this board stuff going on between heels and some other posters because there was too much bitterness. Also, I was surprised heels hadn't come on defending herself before this even. The only unfortunate part is that she posted this after all the east coasters go home.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]
Pfft. Unfortunate or practical for her? Sure is nice throwing down the shiit when everyone's gone!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : I used to love that movie. Speaking of movies I used to love and haven't seen in a while, my coworker brought me Labyrinth on DVD today. FI is gone for work this week, so it looks like it's me, the dawgs, and David Bowie's junk will have a relaxing evening in.
Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]
FI loves that movie. Hmm. Given David Bowie's costume choices I may have a few questions to ask him when he gets home...
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[QUOTE]I don't think Heels is coming back, Lala. I think she caught the wrong fish.
Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]
oh.
WHY AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH???
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[QUOTE]I want to know specifically whom Heels thinks was mad enough at her (for not gracing them with her presence anymore?)<strong> to create an AE and blame it on her.</strong> Besides P2.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Mery, I don't think this is what she was saying. That's not what I got from this thread at all. She's just saying that <em>she's </em>not BC.
And I think her naming names would just make this situation worse, entertaining or not, so why would she do it? I actually think it's kind of cool that she's respecting the membership of her old offboard even though she's getting more shitt for not naming names. You know I like you Mery and often agree with you, but I have to disagree with you on this one.
I agree that this whole situation is ridiculous and immature, from the very beginning.
ETA: Oops, jinx Mag!
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
[QUOTE]The reason certain regs think that I am BC is because I left their OB a few months ago I am on the offboard you left. I can promise you, no one was sitting around trying to make an AE to pin on you, or anything. I think if people were being nasty to you from the OB, they had reasons, but it wasn't because you left. do you think there's such sour grapes over your leaving that we'd make something like this up? because I'm confused.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
No, I'm not saying that you guys made BC to frame me, I'm saying that I think some of that crew genuinely thinks I'm BC and that the reason they think I would make a troll to harass them or whatever is because I left the board.
[QUOTE]I didn't get that at all. I don't think she thought that someone created the AE (if it is in fact an AE, I am feeling what Sarah is laying down) to blame it on her. I think she was saying that it has just turned into a finger pointing game, and she's the one being blamed. I think they are mutually exclusive. But, what do I know.
Posted by mag920[/QUOTE]
I'm feeling that.
I've also always been about 68% sure that BC is real. Or at least not an E reg.
Edit: Just saw your response Beatles, and I get that. But I think she could have also approached it in a "xxx and xxx have a beef with me, which is why they're flaming the BC thing" and left the OB out of it period. Having an issue with specific people wouldn't compromise the identity of everyone on the OB, which is what she originally sort of implied.
Honestly, I'm not sure why we're talking about this. No one, AFAIK, has brought up BC since FFF.
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[QUOTE]I didn't get that at all. I don't think she thought that someone created the AE (if it is in fact an AE, I am feeling what Sarah is laying down) to blame it on her. I think she was saying that it has just turned into a finger pointing game, and she's the one being blamed. I think they are mutually exclusive. But, what do I know.
Posted by mag920[/QUOTE]
so, someone else made up blamecanada and a person from the offboard made the KPS accusing her of it, with no basis?
my question is, why even bring the offboard into it?
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : so, someone else made up blamecanada and a person from the offboard made the KPS accusing her of it, with no basis? <strong>my question is, why even bring the offboard into it?</strong>
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Jinx, Lala. That is the question...
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[QUOTE]Uhhh... yeah. I have to agree with what Lala said. It was more of a "don't let the door hit ya" when you left. You do enough damage to yourself without any of us getting involved.
Posted by AmoroAgain[/QUOTE]
You're full of chit, Amoro. As soon as I quit, you sent me a gmail chat wanting to talk about it and saying you were sorry that I got slammed, which I didn't even know about until you told me. You are the fakest and most two-faced person here.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : No, I'm not saying that you guys made BC to frame me, I'm saying that I think some of that crew genuinely thinks I'm BC and that the reason they think I would make a troll to harass them or whatever is because I left the board.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]
ah.
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[QUOTE]I don't have a dog in this fight, but I'll say that I don't blame Heels for wanting to clear her name. I'd be angry too if I was blamed for an AE whose goal was to offend people. Whether or not people believe it or the reasoning is up to them.
Posted by Moneypenny424[/QUOTE]
Agreed. This isn't FFF; you don't have to just suck it up and take it. Not that anyone abides by that rule anyway. ;)
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
penny, if I started my own offboard, you'd be one of the first invited. we all need ninjas around.
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[QUOTE]gg, can it. amoro has made 2 posts, neither of which is overly hostile. go change your depends. penny, if I started my own offboard, you'd be one of the first invited. we all need ninjas around. :)
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Perfect--I'll be building an armory of nunchucks and throwing stars in the meantime :).
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[QUOTE]gg, can it. amoro has made 2 posts, neither of which is overly hostile. go change your depends. penny, <strong>if I started my own offboard, you'd be one of the first invited</strong>. we all need ninjas around. :)
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
Hmmpff.
And with that, I am off for a walk. Have a good night, ladies!