grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend

crash2729 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:76906c9e-a3ac-4619-ad41-ad23e35267b7">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]I do not know how to remove the names or I would. and Yes iI DID GO to the wedding..with my best friend and cousin. <strong>We made it a split second after the vowels were said. </strong> My son later scolded me for being LATE to his wedding. I would think that the fact I had to be a detective to FIND his wedding and the effort I took to get there was enough to show him that this is a MOTHER who loves her son enough to risk the comments and dagger eyes that recieved us.upon arrival. That i was willing to get "beat up" by the designated bouncer(my other son) The fact that i was able to get ONE picture kissing my son while telling him I love him on his wedding day made it all worth doing. the love of a MOM is indestructible if she is really a Mother.and my son whom I believe was coached by the ex to orchestrate the whole ordeal and it was that , will turn around when he has a child himself....and than he wil appreciate just what I did to be at his wedding.
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

DId they have to buy those vowels?

RamonaFlowers · April 2011

I just hope that somebody makes them aware that you're doling out their personal info on a public internet forum. It shouldn't be too hard, since you pretty much handed people their email addresses and phone numbers on a silver platter.

NcsuPsych · April 2011

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[QUOTE]I do not know how to remove the names or I would. and Yes iI DID GO to the wedding..with my best friend and cousin. We made it a split second after the vowels were said. My son later scolded me for being LATE to his wedding. <strong>I would think that the fact I had to be a detective to FIND his wedding and the effort I took to get there was enough to show him that this is a MOTHER who loves her son enough to risk the comments and dagger eyes that recieved us.upon arrival</strong>. That i was willing to get "beat up" by the designated bouncer(my other son) The fact that i was able to get ONE picture kissing my son while telling him I love him on his wedding day made it all worth doing. the love of a MOM is indestructible if she is really a Mother.and my son whom I believe was coached by the ex to orchestrate the whole ordeal and it was that , will turn around when he has a child himself....and than he wil appreciate just what I did to be at his wedding.
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

Or that you're a stalker. Seriously though. Im thinking you really should look into WHY you weren't told and stop blaming his wife. Esp if you got 'beat up' by your other son. That makes me think that is a whole family affair.

Please get help.

funnygirl2no · April 2011

What you did to DISRESPECT your MOTHER is against the ten commandments ..Honer Thy MOTHER and FATHER ! by replacing her that day of your wedding ., you KILLEd HER. You did not deserve to have a MOTHER...that step MOM is just as cruel as you. UNLESS your Mother was an alcoholic or drug user....she is still to be respected. She gave you the right to life....and that was no easy task. And most likely YOU FORGET about all the GOOD she did in your earlier years. WHO changed your diapers ? who fed you and stayed up endless hours after she spent 9 lousy months carrying you inside her womb. You are one child she should have aborted !

funnygirl2no · April 2011

You tell me ? I just cannot win now , can I ??

MairePoppy · April 2011

What, exactly, do you expect to accomplish with this post? Publicly humiliating your son and his new wife won't help to mend the broken relationship. You're only showing yourself to be vindictive.

Do some soul searching mom. There must be a reason that your mom, sons, friends and family members tried to keep you away from the wedding. I hope for your sake and your family's sake that you get the help that you need.

NcsuPsych · April 2011

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[QUOTE]<strong>Your username indicates PSYCHIATRIC issues</strong>. My reason to stay clear of my son for the past few years was his emotional outbursts and physical attacks. The dean of his High School expelled him 2 weeks before graduation. He told me he would NEVER amount to anything. I ignored that and chose to accept my son, to place all blame on a horrible divorce that took his MOM away from him . My son has old hurts to deal with that should have had NOTHING to do with that one day in his life. I tried all proper avenues, having counselors and psychologists contact him . I just could NOT miss this sacred ceremony of the child that I brought into this world. I must say that the Dean was right. A child who does NOT invite the MOTHER to their wedding has some PSYCHOLOGICAL issues that have to be dealt with well before the wedding. Perhaps some Pre-Marital counseling for the FAMILY is in order.
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

Soo now you're taking stabs at strangers. Good job. Keep it up.

NcsuPsych · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:6b40d83c-7366-4b54-9e01-86d29523a2d2">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]What you did to DISRESPECT your MOTHER is against the ten commandments ..Honer Thy MOTHER and FATHER ! by replacing her that day of your wedding ., you KILLEd HER. You did not deserve to have a MOTHER...that step MOM is just as cruel as you. UNLESS your Mother was an alcoholic or drug user....she is still to be respected. She gave you the right to life....and that was no easy task. And most likely YOU FORGET about all the GOOD she did in your earlier years. WHO changed your diapers ? who fed you and stayed up endless hours after she spent 9 lousy months carrying you inside her womb. <strong>You are one child she should have aborted !</strong>
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

Seriously? Who are you to judge my relationship with my mother. This isn't about me. This is about you and your kids.

ootmother2 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:df9be874-8ccf-41ab-9deb-b5677c325856">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]Wait until YOUR a MOM !!!
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

I AM a mom and you're bat sh!t crazy!

funnygirl2no · April 2011

I never heard their vowels but they were 5 minutes in length and a violin played in the background and it was sweet and simple and they took off in a boat to the reception....very romantic . The wedding was done tastefully with rose petals on the lawn by the bay and no chairs and just close family.

KentuckyKate · April 2011

I just sent "your son" a FB message telling him of this invasion of privacy. As I posted on E, I googled their names and found their wedding website, their registries, their facebook pages, their address, and the price they paid for their house.

If you aren't really this man's mother and this is MUD, I would edit to delete all of your posts, before you cause major drama for an unsuspecting family.

Denise91980 · April 2011

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[QUOTE]What you did to DISRESPECT your MOTHER is against the ten commandments ..Honer Thy MOTHER and FATHER ! by replacing her that day of your wedding ., you KILLEd HER. You did not deserve to have a MOTHER...that step MOM is just as cruel as you. UNLESS your Mother was an alcoholic or drug user....she is still to be respected. She gave you the right to life....and that was no easy task. And most likely YOU FORGET about all the GOOD she did in your earlier years. WHO changed your diapers ? who fed you and stayed up endless hours after she spent 9 lousy months carrying you inside her womb. <strong>You are one child she should have aborted !</strong>
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

<div>Holycrap! I take back the bipolar disorder and am going to say borderline personality disorder instead. WTF is the matter with you?</div>

Blueyed228 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:6b40d83c-7366-4b54-9e01-86d29523a2d2">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]What you did to DISRESPECT your MOTHER is against the ten commandments ..Honer Thy MOTHER and FATHER ! by replacing her that day of your wedding ., you KILLEd HER. You did not deserve to have a MOTHER...that step MOM is just as cruel as you. UNLESS your Mother was an alcoholic or drug user....she is still to be respected. She gave you the right to life....and that was no easy task. And most likely YOU FORGET about all the GOOD she did in your earlier years. WHO changed your diapers ? who fed you and stayed up endless hours after she spent 9 lousy months carrying you inside her womb. <strong><u>You are one child she should have aborted !
</u></strong>Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

Jesus Christ. Who are you talking to?

I feel like Im watching a full blown psychiatric meltdown.

crash2729 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:6b40d83c-7366-4b54-9e01-86d29523a2d2">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]What you did to DISRESPECT your MOTHER is against the ten commandments ..Honer Thy MOTHER and FATHER ! by replacing her that day of your wedding ., you KILLEd HER. You did not deserve to have a MOTHER...that step MOM is just as cruel as you. UNLESS your Mother was an alcoholic or drug user....she is still to be respected. She gave you the right to life....and that was no easy task. And most likely YOU FORGET about all the GOOD she did in your earlier years. WHO changed your diapers ? who fed you and stayed up endless hours after she spent 9 lousy months carrying you inside her womb. <strong>You are one child she should have aborted !
</strong>Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

I don't know if you're talking about your son or about NSCUpsyc...but either way. Just because someone gave birth to you does not automatically earn them respect.

ETA: I really think you might need to go check into a mental ward. Seriously, If you're freaking out IRL like you are online...you need help.

deepcovejackie · April 2011

I really think you need some help. Please see your doctor, and get a referral for some counselling and psychiatric assessment.

funnygirl2no · April 2011

i am not a seasoned "BOARDER" like you all here but I will leave you with one thought.....remember who it was who brought you into this world and gave of her self keeping her own desires as low priority putting you first.
When you decide to exclude her from your special day...know that you have pretty much written her off and most likely any future relationship . KNOW that when you have children...You will have to PAY for a babysitter instead of dropping the kids off at MOM's . Those holiday's will be empty without MOM to cook and no replacements , step moms can have that unconditional caring and nurturing . Just know that you pretty much blew it and you will have to expain to the kids just what happened to GRAMMA and it wont make them see you in a favorable light.
GOOD WISHES TO YOU ALL and I hope I have given you some INSIGHT
ONE HURT MOM

mynameskatie · April 2011

I feel like she ran up the aisle yelling "HONER ME" while they were saying their "vowels". Her poor son.

KentuckyKate · April 2011

Her son responded to me on FB, so at least now he knows the crazy sauce his mother is spewing here.

Blueyed228 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:f4d139fe-f806-4069-b366-7dbd508517a3">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE] i am not a seasoned "BOARDER" like you all here but I will leave you with one thought.....remember who it was who brought you into this world and gave of her self keeping her own desires as low priority putting you first. When you decide to exclude her from your special day...know that you have pretty much written her off and most likely any future relationship . KNOW that when you have children...You will have to PAY for a babysitter instead of dropping the kids off at MOM's . Those holiday's will be empty without MOM to cook and no replacements , step moms can have that unconditional caring and nurturing . Just know that you pretty much blew it and you will have to expain to the kids just what happened to GRAMMA and it wont make them see you in a favorable light. GOOD WISHES TO YOU ALL and I hope I have given you some INSIGHT ONE HURT MOM
Posted by funnygirl2no[/QUOTE]

I really hope you seek out some help. You sound like you are having some kind of pyschological episode here. Is there someone you can call?

Blueyed228 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:9c621064-b852-45ef-b330-80bd2948d4a0">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]Her son responded to me on FB, so at least now he knows the crazy sauce his mother is spewing here.
Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]

I hope you advise him to get her some help. She has gone off the deep end I think.

KentuckyKate · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:645d0be5-fad6-4278-919a-deb0a4d33814">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend : I hope you advise him to get her some help. She has gone off the deep end I think.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
I linked this thread, so he'll see the suggestions.

Denise91980 · April 2011

I'm gonna go call my mom and tell her I love her...this thread was so inspiring.

Seriously, OP...you need help. Maybe if you get some help your kids will have a relationship with you.

Blueyed228 · April 2011

Yeah. This is all sorts of sad. I feel bad for her son.

Denise91980 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:f0fffe37-0d07-4105-a2e6-7505de13436e">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah. This is all sorts of sad. I feel bad for her son.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
She seriously sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder.

NcsuPsych · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:8105599b-1775-4dd1-b36d-f184d470a0f0">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend : She seriously sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder.
Posted by Denise91980[/QUOTE]

That's exactly what it sounds like. Coming from personal experience. . .

and OP, while you're not having an affect on me, I do take your statement as a personal attack and do not appreciate it. Not that it would matter to you.

Denise91980 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:fc325be4-041b-4eec-a1db-3e862d956151">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend : That's exactly what it sounds like. Coming from personal experience. . . and OP, while you're not having an affect on me, I do take your statement as a personal attack and do not appreciate it. Not that it would matter to you.
Posted by NcsuPsych[/QUOTE]

<div>What is even more scary is that I am getting this and haven't met her in person. </div>

jasmineh7777 · April 2011

Wow. This is profoundly sad.

OP, I think you really do need to see a counselor. You don't have to agree with anyone here, and that is fine. However, you are obviously VERY upset. I sincerely hope you get some help.

em01092 · April 2011

This is some crazy stuff. Sigh.

ootmother2 · April 2011

Can't a mod delete this?

I feel for the young couple having their life spread out on the internet by a psycho mother

NcsuPsych · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_grooms-mother-replaced-xs-girlfriend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:c5902153-972c-4168-8c55-755b0fc1744dPost:1ce3aeee-2c4c-4afd-ab80-16c8ac948cc0">Re: grooms mother replaced by x's girlfriend</a>:
[QUOTE]Can't a mod delete this? I feel for the young couple having their life spread out on the internet by a psycho mother
Posted by ootmother2[/QUOTE]

unfortunately no. We can only delete threads that are on our boards. At least that's how its working for me.

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