In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:e5a8e3f0-9767-492b-adab-d0ae64568175">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer. Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE] There are some things that it's easy to catch up on. Not so much on others. If you really have NO CLUE what is going on, just readd, no need to get involved.
"In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:e5a8e3f0-9767-492b-adab-d0ae64568175">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer. Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
Well the "situation" (if you can call it that) with Blame Canada is an ongoing thing, as is the board dynamic between Heels and some other people, like P2. So you really have to observe it. Or it would just take too long to explain.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer. Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
If you are completely lost in a conversation, why bother posting at all? Why not just read other threads?
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:e5a8e3f0-9767-492b-adab-d0ae64568175">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer. Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
By all means then, continue being completely clueless.
I just don't care. I mean, I don't care about any of it; BC, is BC and AE/Troll, who is BC, is it Heels, is someone framing Heels. OMG I just don't even care. Can we talk about something else for a change?
For the record, Heels, I don't blame you for wanting to clear the air if you are being falsely accused of something, I would probably do the same thing. I don't envy your position but I don't see how bringing it up in a new thread is going to do anything other than start another argument.
Yah, I wouldn't really care if people thought it was or wasn't me. I wouldn't be going to the efford you're going to if it wasn't, that's for sure. But I think everyone knows that I don't give a rat's ass what people think of me.
As for the original situation, the whole thing got shady when people's posts were being reported and thus, deleted. I'm not saying it was you, Heels, since you were apparently under the knife, but it just had a "Shiit!! We've been found out!!" kind of vibe, which made it seem like some people had something to hide. I don't know who all would even be involved, so I'm not naming names, but had you been here, it would have been just as shady to you, IMO.
If there was nothing to hide, the posts naming you would have remained untouched.
I missed the KPS before it was taken down that stirred the pot. It sounds like it turned into a witch hunt, trying to find out who BC is... and everyone is a suspect, which really isn't fun.
I hardly think posting a thread to explain ones self ONCE can really be classified as a lot of effort. Its not like she created a documentary to prove her innocence. Its one thread.
I love how all the sheep who are saying this is so "high school" or "third grade" didn't say that during FFF or any other time I was being accused of something petty and ridiculous. So it's childish for me to bring it up once but it's ok when more popular regs bring it up every week for months. Got it.
I think we're saying the entire thing is childish. And people have been saying it's stupid from the begining. As in when BC first showed up, all the way until now. As TJ said, it's hard to believe these are grown women acting this way.
"In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:8b0f84ca-6a57-4c3a-b726-0942c220db9b">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]Where'd my post go? I love how all the sheep who are saying this is so "high school" or "third grade" didn't say that during FFF or any other time I was being accused of something petty and ridiculous. So it's childish for me to bring it up once but it's ok when more popular regs bring it up every week for months. Got it. Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:8ef721b7-4eea-44f5-9a77-61548bb33295">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : You are a hypocrite. Period. Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]
God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:236a6efb-2e54-4910-87a2-0962d6e7c54b">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : By all means then, continue being completely clueless. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:489b9706-58e4-423f-901d-c85be69cae8d">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me. Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]
Why are you back all of a sudden away (EDIT: or anyway)? You were miserable when you were here when I started posting, and nothing's changed.
And no Heels, I'm not arguing to argue. You know goddamned well that you've done your fair shaire of bullying, which is always immature.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:489b9706-58e4-423f-901d-c85be69cae8d">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me. Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_lets-clear-air?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:279c2c78-ac46-4647-b3ab-5778032bc481Post:09cd695e-0b4e-4568-ad95-0852eb1ae08d">Re: Let's clear the air.</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Why are you back all of a sudden away? Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]
Because I chopped my last husband up to bits and I'm getting ready to marry again.
The reason certain regs think that I am BC is because I left their OB a few months ago
I am on the offboard you left. I can promise you, no one was sitting around trying to make an AE to pin on you, or anything. I think if people were being nasty to you from the OB, they had reasons, but it wasn't because you left. do you think there's such sour grapes over your leaving that we'd make something like this up?because I'm confused.
What if BC isn't an AE? It was over on SB a few weeks ago, and gave a relatively plausible reason for why it picked its name in the first place and then why it put up the stupid bio. If it was made by a reg, it would have to be somebody with a lot of time on their hands, because its post history goes back to March on a whole bunch of different boards, and most of its posts are just normal wedding stuff. I'm kinda skeptical that anyone would go to that much effort just to use an AE to make a few digs at certain posters a couple of months down the line, and if someone did that, I feel sorry for that person.
Re: Let's clear the air.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer.
Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
There are some things that it's easy to catch up on. Not so much on others. If you really have NO CLUE what is going on, just readd, no need to get involved.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer.
Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
Well the "situation" (if you can call it that) with Blame Canada is an ongoing thing, as is the board dynamic between Heels and some other people, like P2. So you really have to observe it. Or it would just take too long to explain.
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Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
If you are completely lost in a conversation, why bother posting at all? Why not just read other threads?
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Dude. Seriously. Maybe I don't have time to lurk 10 hours a day. If it bothers you, don't answer.
Posted by arthomas82[/QUOTE]
By all means then, continue being completely clueless.
For the record, Heels, I don't blame you for wanting to clear the air if you are being falsely accused of something, I would probably do the same thing. I don't envy your position but I don't see how bringing it up in a new thread is going to do anything other than start another argument.
But I think everyone knows that I don't give a rat's ass what people think of me.
If there was nothing to hide, the posts naming you would have remained untouched.
It sounds like it turned into a witch hunt, trying to find out who BC is... and everyone is a suspect, which really isn't fun.
I love how all the sheep who are saying this is so "high school" or "third grade" didn't say that during FFF or any other time I was being accused of something petty and ridiculous. So it's childish for me to bring it up once but it's ok when more popular regs bring it up every week for months. Got it.
[QUOTE]Where'd my post go? I love how all the sheep who are saying this is so "high school" or "third grade" didn't say that during FFF or any other time I was being accused of something petty and ridiculous. So it's childish for me to bring it up once but it's ok when more popular regs bring it up every week for months. Got it.
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]
You are a hypocrite. Period.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : You are a hypocrite. Period.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]
God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : By all means then, continue being completely clueless.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
heh.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me.
Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]
Why are you back all of a sudden away (EDIT: or anyway)?
You were miserable when you were here when I started posting, and nothing's changed.
And no Heels, I'm not arguing to argue. You know goddamned well that you've done your fair shaire of bullying, which is always immature.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : God, I'd really forgotten how much I dislike you. The fact that others around here can stand you amazes me.
Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]
::points to the door::
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Let's clear the air. : Why are you back all of a sudden away? Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]
Because I chopped my last husband up to bits and I'm getting ready to marry again.
I am on the offboard you left. I can promise you, no one was sitting around trying to make an AE to pin on you, or anything. I think if people were being nasty to you from the OB, they had reasons, but it wasn't because you left.
do you think there's such sour grapes over your leaving that we'd make something like this up? because I'm confused.
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