Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC.

angelstar975 · May 2012

Morning ladies! I'm exhausted, I only got 4 hours of sleep. I'm working 5 days this week for the first time in awhile.. Good for my wallet but I'm not used to it, so it's kind of tiring. I was supposed to be off tomorrow, but one of the mom's is in the hospital so they need me. Midge, I hope your FI gets the job! Where are you guys going for your honeymoon?

mari0225 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Morning ladies! I'm exhausted, I only got 4 hours of sleep. I'm working 5 days this week for the first time in awhile.. Good for my wallet but I'm not used to it, so it's kind of tiring. I was supposed to be off tomorrow, but one of the mom's is in the hospital so they need me. Midge, I hope your FI gets the job! Where are you guys going for your honeymoon?
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

Love your sigpic! Your dog is gorgeous!

VeggieLove1022 · May 2012

Good morning. I'm about to head into work in a few.

So every once in awhile H gets a random fb message from an 'ex' saying he's the one that got away. He never really dated any of these girls, just maybe talked to them for a few weeks. They never had sex, kissed, or even went on dates. They were in high school and haven't talked since then and all of a sudden BAM- new fb message confessing their love.

We've always laughed about them and I've never gotten mad over any of it. Honestly, they never even knew him. He was always the funny guy in high school and I think people think he's like that all the time so they just saw kind of a carefree/ fun life with him, but it's not all rainbows all the time. H went through a depression before we got together that no one knew about and it really took a lot out of him.

Anyways, last night one came out of no where. She said that she had always wondered what it would be like if they had gotten married (and keep in mind that they talked for 1 week. 7 freaking days and you want to marry a married guy) She said she hated her life now and when he told her that it would have never worked and he hoped she found happiness in her life she comes back with, "I'm glad you're happy, but just know I'll always be dreaming of us." H didn't even respond, but come on, you talked to a guy for a week in high school which was 7 years ago and you're life is hung up on him?

And not to mention, but who the eff thinks it's okay to send these messages to a married man?

mari0225 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Good morning. I'm about to head into work in a few. So every once in awhile H gets a random fb message from an 'ex' saying he's the one that got away. He never really dated any of these girls, just maybe talked to them for a few weeks. They never had sex, kissed, or even went on dates. They were in high school and haven't talked since then and all of a sudden BAM- new fb message confessing their love. We've always laughed about them and I've never gotten mad over any of it. Honestly, they never even knew him. He was always the funny guy in high school and I think people think he's like that all the time so they just saw kind of a carefree/ fun life with him, but it's not all rainbows all the time. H went through a depression before we got together that no one knew about and it really took a lot out of him. Anyways, last night one came out of no where. She said that she had always wondered what it would be like if they had gotten married (and keep in mind that they talked for 1 week. 7 freaking days and you want to marry a married guy) She said she hated her life now and when he told her that it would have never worked and he hoped she found happiness in her life she comes back with, "I'm glad you're happy, but just know I'll always be dreaming of us." H didn't even respond, but come on, you talked to a guy for a week in high school which was 7 years ago and you're life is hung up on him? And not to mention, but who the eff thinks it's okay to send these messages to a married man?
Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]

Wow that's just crazy, I guess someone hasn't grown up since high school. I had crushes on guys but geez I haven't thought about them in years and certainly wouldn't message of them now.

baystateapple · May 2012

Veggie, that's absolutely inappropriate. And I hope your H tells her to get lost, deletes her, blocks her, and cuts her out of his life.

midgetthemighty · May 2012

Angel - DISNEYWORLD!

I've never been so I am really really excited about it.

Veggie, that's ridiculous. Glad you two are able to laugh about them.

aragx6 · May 2012

Fantasizing about "the one that got away" seems pretty normal to me, but damn, messaging him when you know he's married and saying that you think about being married to him is getting a little too Fatal Attraction-y!

VeggieLove1022 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC. : Wow that's just crazy, I guess someone hasn't grown up since high school. I had crushes on guys but geez I haven't thought about them in years and certainly wouldn't message of them now.
Posted by mari0225[/QUOTE]

She married a guy right out of HS who is "much older" and has 2 kids so I think she just feels like she grew up too fast, but that's no reason to try to be a little home wrecker. He lived in Michigan so apparently she moved there right after graduation and left her friends and family behind. I understand she's probably lonely, but ffs divorce your H and move on with your life.

eorea · May 2012

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[QUOTE]Good morning. I'm about to head into work in a few. So every once in awhile H gets a random fb message from an 'ex' saying he's the one that got away. He never really dated any of these girls, just maybe talked to them for a few weeks. They never had sex, kissed, or even went on dates. They were in high school and haven't talked since then and all of a sudden BAM- new fb message confessing their love. We've always laughed about them and I've never gotten mad over any of it. Honestly, they never even knew him. He was always the funny guy in high school and I think people think he's like that all the time so they just saw kind of a carefree/ fun life with him, but it's not all rainbows all the time. H went through a depression before we got together that no one knew about and it really took a lot out of him. Anyways, last night one came out of no where. She said that she had always wondered what it would be like if they had gotten married (and keep in mind that they talked for 1 week. 7 freaking days and you want to marry a married guy) She said she hated her life now and when he told her that it would have never worked and he hoped she found happiness in her life she comes back with, "I'm glad you're happy, but just know <strong>I'll always be dreaming of us</strong>." H didn't even respond, but come on, you talked to a guy for a week in high school which was 7 years ago and you're life is hung up on him? And not to mention, but who the eff thinks it's okay to send these messages to a married man?
Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]

<div>That's really creepy. </div><div>
</div><div>Angel, you look so pretty in your new sig and i love your dog! </div>

VeggieLove1022 · May 2012

It is extremely creepy. I think he's contemplating blocking her. He hates ruffling feathers, but she's been pretty straight forward how she wants a relationship or nothing at all. He was like, I haven't talked to you in 8 years, why would I even need your friendship? I've got friends.

angelstar975 · May 2012

Thanks ladies! I forgot I changed it. I'm on the mobile site so I can't see sigs. Midge, Disney is cool, I'm sure you'll have a great time! Will you be making a trip over to Hogwarts at all or are you guys not really HP fans? Veggie, that's ridiculous and kind of sad. I'd just laugh it off. FI really was the one who got away from me, but I definitely didnt message him when he was in serious relationships to tell him I'd be "dreaming of us." Luckily it ended up working out for me :

eorea · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC. : Agree completely. Also, the Katy Perry song "The One That Got Away" might be the worst song I've heard all year. Dear God it's awful.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

<div>Now every time I read/hear "the one that got away" I get that damn song in my head. It really is horrible. </div><div>
</div><div>Veggie, I think he should just block her and be done with it. Maybe she'll finally get it after she realizes she is blocked. </div>

midgetthemighty · May 2012

Cfas - Katy Perry, make a terrible song? Unheard of!

Angel - No Hogwarts this time but FI wants to take me back to Orlando next year for that and the new Beauty and the Beast additions in Fantasyland. They won't be complete until after we're there in June and Belle is my favorite.

seesawgirl · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC. : Agree completely. Also, the Katy Perry song "The One That Got Away" might be the worst song I've heard all year. Dear God it's awful.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

Omg yes. Its really sad, because KP has some major talent. Thinking of you was one of my favorite songs when it came out. Since then, it's all gotten shittier and shittier. Very sad.

LDYGTR13 · May 2012

You've never been to Disney, Midge!??! I find that so hard to believe.

baystateapple · May 2012

That Katy Perry song makes me want to stick a screwdriver through my temple. She sounds so incredibly whiny when she sings it. I like most of her other stuff, I would never say it's great music, but it's catchy and fun to sing along to in the car. Not that song. Ugh.

LDYGTR13 · May 2012

So now that I'm reading Harry Potter, I'm GIDDY about going to Hogwarts. I was always like "whatever, just another cheesy part of a theme park, NBD. But um...yes. I needs to be heading to Hogwarts ASAP.

LP11509 · May 2012

MK, I love the Bible according to your sig.

I'm sad about the vote in NC. I voted against it yesterday and so did H. And it makes me extra sad that it's possible that a similar thing will be on the ballot in other states in the near future

midgetthemighty · May 2012

LDY - Sad, but true. I almost had my parents convinced to go about 5 years ago but I failed. All of my friends were too poor to plan a trip like that at the time.

crnflkgirl75 · May 2012

Okay, I'm really late to the party, but two things: one: now that I am married, I am even more adamant that everyone should have the chance to be legally attached to the one they love. Shame on NC. And two: I admit to stalking exes online, but messaging them after eight years to say I want you back? Wtf?

midgetthemighty · May 2012

Cfas, they're building her house, the village and Beast's castle.

ceh789 · May 2012

So this week has been crazy busy but I'm kinda looking for advice that isn't really worth it's own thread so here I am! I'll try to be concise.

I've done almost 100% of the wedding planning - FI hasn't really cared to be involved which is fine, really. He's had like ... 3 or 4 things that I asked him to do and he did them, or so I thought.

Our plan for the wedding night (Saturday, btw) has been to go stay in a local hotel just for Saturday & Sunday then come back to real life since we can't really afford a honeymoon right now. FI had assured me that he had talked to his dad (who is staying with us) and he was happy to house and dog sit for those 2 nights. Last night I found out that's not true and his dad is leaving right after the wedding Saturday. I don't know if FI flaked or his dad did but I'm just so, so disappointed. Now we not only don't have a dogsitter but someone has to drive his sister to the airport Sunday morning. So our "mini-moon" is pretty much scrapped.

I know that if I tell my close friends or family about this that one of them will step up and offer to do both of these things but I really don't want to do that - it's not fair to them and they've already done a lot to help. I'd rather scrap the planned hotel stay than dip further into savings to hire a sitter.

WWYD?

angelstar975 · May 2012

In Response to Re:Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC.:[QUOTE]So now that I'm reading Harry Potter, I'm GIDDY about going to Hogwarts. I was always like quot;whatever, just another cheesy part of a theme park, NBD. But um...yes. I needs to be heading to Hogwarts ASAP. Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

I need to go ASAP too! I was at Universal in 2009, right before they opened it, and I was so mad to miss it. FI said recently we'd have to go when we have kids and I was like uhh are you crazy? I'm not waiting that long!

strlzfan11 · May 2012

Fantasyland is undergoing a major expansion to be officially completed sometime in 2014, but it's opening up in phases.

adamar15 · May 2012

They're also adding a Little Mermaid section. I'm a little embarrassed to admit how excited I am about that.

Natrasha · May 2012

I was in Disney in January and the construction was in full swing. They had part of the castle built and you could see it over the big wall. They had some drawings and models up showing what they were doing and it looks so exciting! I can't wait to go back and see it; Belle is my favorite too.

ETA: Here is a LINK to some info and some of the drawings.

adamar15 · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC. : OMG she will flip. I wonder where in FantastyLand it will go. I can't wait. We are going in October so we can go to Epcot's Food and Wine Festival too. That was pretty much the only way to convince H and my dad to come with us. :-)
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

It's behind the teacups and the Pooh ride I think.

dumdumfroggie · May 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Good Morning! Well, not so good for NC.: I need to go ASAP too! I was at Universal in 2009, right before they opened it, and I was so mad to miss it. FI said recently we'd have to go when we have kids and I was like uhh are you crazy? I'm not waiting that long!
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

<div>We just went in February and it was amazing. I'm a huge HP fan, however.</div><div>
</div><div>FI has been trying to recreate the perfect Butterbeer since then. He's getting close, but even in our souvineer Butterbeer mugs, it's not the same.</div>

strlzfan11 · May 2012

I'm excited about The Little Mermaid stuff, too, Adamar. Did you know that there's a LM section in the new Art of Animation hotel?

For more info on the FL expansion, check this out.

http://www.insidethemagic.net/2011/08/new-fantasyland-opening-timeline-more-details-for-disney-world-expansion-emerge-from-imagineer-interview/

mari0225 · May 2012

I want to go to Disney World, I haven't been since I was about 3 so I don't remember much.

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