so my brother is getting married next summer and i am a groomswoman/groomsmaid/female-attendant-title-to-be-determined. i am the only female member of the groom's side, and there are no men on the bride's side.
the bride wants me to wear a dress that matches with the groomsmen's suits, which are going to be gray - problem is, i hate the way i look in gray. really, really hate it; i think it makes me look washed out and sickly, and i feel sort of singled out by this demand. i'd be so much happier in a shade of navy (the color of the guys' ties and the bridesmaids' dresses), but i don't know how to approach the bride about this. would i be groomswomanzilla to do so?
thanks in advance