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Re: FFF?

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-23?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:1a51671a-7162-40c9-a69a-285e4aaaf05bPost:196f299a-b441-4e0e-9ac8-a942193a9112">Re: FFF?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Its ok because its FFF and were allowed to flame whatever we want. Its not like weve been talking about it constantly for a month, its been ONE week, and I dont think it has been brought up that much.
    Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

    Exactly.  It's FFF!  This is what happens.  Bitching about it coming up today is ridonkadonk
  • I flame the woman who thought it was a good idea to plan a wedding when her divorce wasn't finalized. Uhh hello?!
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    [QUOTE]cew: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws</a> Zoe, if we've learned anything from bbycakes, it's that maybe sometimes you should just quit trying to defend yourself after saying something dumb, and apologize.
    Posted by opalsky007[/QUOTE]

    Thanks, Opalsky. And yes, now I wholeheartedly agree with LC's flame.
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    I kind of have to flame ohwhynot for trying to say that the creepy underwear kid in the apartment ad was OK and its societies fault we thought it was hinky. I know she changed her tune later but I dont know how anyone could look at that and think it was an adorable or cute picture and NOT see the negative possibilities of that being on the net.
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    [QUOTE]cew: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws</a> Zoe, if we've learned anything from bbycakes, it's that maybe sometimes you should just quit trying to defend yourself after saying something dumb, and apologize.
    Posted by opalsky007[/QUOTE]

    LC, I apologize.  I'm sorry.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-embarassed.gif" border="0" alt="Embarassed" title="Embarassed" />
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    I flame the word ridonkadonk. And karialex. It's a wedding party, not A fucking Chorus Line.
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    [QUOTE]I flame Karialex for trying to kick out a BM for "even sides" and not getting it, not even a little bit as to why it was a horrible thing to do.  I'm glad I called her a b*tch. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    Yes!  The symmetry thing pissed me the fuuck off.  Really? Cause that's a reason to ask someone to step down!?! I love how someone pointed out that when they did the girls side pics, it'd be three bridesmaids and the one bride and that's completely uneven.
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    [QUOTE]I flame the word ridonkadonk. And karialex. It's a wedding party, not <strong>A fucking Chorus Line.</strong>
    Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

    DED.
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  • There's a blog going around knottie-land.  It's somewhat annonymous, but I am pretty sure I know who it belongs to.  Anyway, I flame this knottie because she rewarded herself with a disgusting shamrock shake because she ran a mile.  This person also posted a photo of a burger she ate on a dyed green bun. (VOM)  I am pretty sure the burger was SWIMMING in mayo.  If I weighed 90 pounds I would not put nearly that amount of mayo on my burger. 

    This person claims to be becoming a runner... ::eyeroll::   Not saying I eat my healthiest, but if you think for one second I am going to have a milkshake after 1 measly mile, you're mistaken!  That's ridiculous AND counterproductive. 

    A marathon?  SURE!  Have 5 milkshakes. 

    Anyway, here's the link: http://callmepretty.wordpress.com/

    And I think it's anna.oskar.  Just from some things that were said in the blog.

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    [QUOTE]cew: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_passive-aggressive-laws</a> Zoe, if we've learned anything from bbycakes, it's that maybe sometimes you should just quit trying to defend yourself after saying something dumb, and apologize.
    Posted by opalsky007[/QUOTE]
    I think we learned that back in the days of yore with Scooby.
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  • The only flame that I can think of right now is about the baby thread hate. There are plenty of threads that I just ignore because I have no interest. I hate the dress me threads with a passion, the house threads don't hold my interest, and the vibes threads are kind of lame to me. Hell, I'm not even really a big fan of the baby threads, but I don't complain about it,  I just don't open them. Mainly because I'm sure that a good deal of the lame bullshit that I post about has no interest to a good number of people either.
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    [QUOTE]I flame Karialex for trying to kick out a BM for "even sides" and not getting it, not even a little bit as to why it was a horrible thing to do.  I'm glad I called her a b*tch. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    me too! that was rediculous.
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    [QUOTE]There's a blog going around knottie-land.  It's somewhat annonymous, but I am pretty sure I know who it belongs to.  Anyway, I flame this knottie because she rewarded herself with a disgusting shamrock shake because she ran a mile.  This person also posted a photo of a burger she ate on a dyed green bun. (VOM)  I am pretty sure the burger was SWIMMING in mayo.  If I weighed 90 pounds I would not put nearly that amount of mayo on my burger.  This person claims to be becoming a runner... ::eyeroll::   Not saying I eat my healthiest, but if you think for one second I am going to have a milkshake after 1 measly mile, you're mistaken!  That's ridiculous AND counterproductive.  A marathon?  SURE!  Have 5 milkshakes.  Anyway, here's the link: <a href="http://callmepretty.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">http://callmepretty.wordpress.com/</a> <strong>And I think it's anna.oskar.  Just from some things that were said in the blog.</strong>
    Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>It is. But I did not read the part about the shamrock shake---which is probably a good thing, because now I want one.

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  • I flame kate51485 for being a b*tch to the bride who came on asking about inviting fraternity guys.  The bride mentioned that she had been a sweetheart / lil sis for a fraternity, and kate#'s comment out of nowhere was that at her college, the job of a sweetheart was to put out to every guy in the fraternity. 
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    [QUOTE]I flame kate51485 for being a b*tch to the bride who came on asking about inviting fraternity guys.  The bride mentioned that she had been a sweetheart / lil sis for a fraternity, and kate#'s comment out of nowhere was that at her college, the job of a sweetheart was to put out to every guy in the fraternity. 
    Posted by SaraAndrew2010[/QUOTE]

    Really?  I thought that was funny, and meant to be mostly funny.  The OP's question was kind of ridiculous, too, imo, which doesn't necessarily entitle someone to be a biitch, but it can warrant goofier responses.  That's how I read kate#'s response. 

    Nebb:  yes.  I didn't articulate what I meant very well, either, which didn't help my cause. 
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    [QUOTE]The only flame that I can think of right now is about the baby thread hate. There are plenty of threads that I just ignore because I have no interest. I hate the dress me threads with a passion, the house threads don't hold my interest, and the vibes threads are kind of lame to me. Hell, I'm not even really a big fan of the baby threads, but I don't complain about it,  I just don't open them. Mainly because I'm sure that a good deal of the lame bullshit that I post about has no interest to a good number of people either.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    At this point I think the people supporting the baby posts are making a bigger deal out of it than the original baby post hating people did.  Some people hate baby posts, some people think they're fine, we get it!  Bbyckes was wrong and should come back and apologize, we get it!
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    [QUOTE]I flame kate51485 for being a b*tch to the bride who came on asking about inviting fraternity guys.  The bride mentioned that she had been a sweetheart / lil sis for a fraternity, and kate#'s comment out of nowhere was that at her college, the job of a sweetheart was to put out to every guy in the fraternity. 
    Posted by SaraAndrew2010[/QUOTE]

    DED
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    [QUOTE]I flame kate51485 for being a b*tch to the bride who came on asking about inviting fraternity guys.  The bride mentioned that she had been a sweetheart / lil sis for a fraternity, and kate#'s comment out of nowhere was that at her college, the job of a sweetheart was to put out to every guy in the fraternity. 
    Posted by SaraAndrew2010[/QUOTE]

    I thought her comment was in response to the chick saying she was saving herself for marriage. Which reminds me of another flame. I don't walk around saying "Hey! I just gave my DH a fantastic blowjob right before posting this!", so why do you think anyone gives afuck one way or the other if you are saving your virginity for marriage? It had nothing to do with the post or the question in either thread, but abbygrace mentioned it twice in an hour.
  • I think that hate for the baby hate is far more annoying than the baby hate.

    A lot of us said, baby threads are fine!  I love the updates about Laine and Tide (when she was pregnant and had Taryn), same with AC.  It's all good.  It's the god damn breastmilk, and husbands who's diicks get hurt on diaphrams, and TMI stuff I can't stand.  One thing to come in and say, "my BC method is not working out, i do not want anything with hormones... any suggestions?" 

    I didn't even mind when tide came back after having Taryn and posted a thread called something like  "Gross delivery details".

    At least we knew. 

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : me too! that was rediculous.
    Posted by kkchisholm[/QUOTE]

    Or ridiculous, even.
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    [QUOTE]I flame kate51485 for being a b*tch to the bride who came on asking about inviting fraternity guys.  The bride mentioned that she had been a sweetheart / lil sis for a fraternity, and <strong>kate#'s comment out of nowhere was that at her college, the job of a sweetheart was to put out to every guy in the fraternity</strong>. 
    Posted by SaraAndrew2010[/QUOTE]

    Maybe that's true.  And relevant in the fact that if that WERE the OP's job, would her FI be comfortable with her inviting these guys?
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  • And Sara, for your information, I made that comment (which was not bitchy) because I sincerely was hoping for OP's fiance's sake, that the definition was different than what I (and many other people) knew it to be, thus making it logical for OP to invite frat boys.  Simma down now...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : Or ridiculous, even.
    Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

    I love you bec.........oh wait, doing it wrong.  I flame the love I have for you Bec. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : Or ridiculous, even.
    Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ha!</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I love you bec.........oh wait, doing it wrong.  I flame the love I have for you Bec. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    Jees Stack, you're still doing it wrong.  You're not supposed to flame yourself.

    I'll do it for you.

    I flame Stack's love for Bec.
  • I flame all you baby haters for telling us to take baby stuff to thebump.  Because I did.  And then I spent a week in an alternate reality where TMI doesn't exist, and then when I posted here, I forgot myself.  Sorry for grossing you all out - but really, you did it to yourself Tongue out  But, I won't do it again.  I promise.
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    [QUOTE]I flame bbyckes for not coming back this week after last week's FFF.
    Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

    I haven't noticed her on other boards either. I have noticed that a lot of people are putting their cliff notes at the top now though. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : It is pretty obvious that Rach meant that everyone is still talking about it.  I can't speak for P2, but she isn't bringing it up everyday... perhaps she is over it?  I can't imagine her still being "upset" about it (maybe I'm off base). I don't think you are a douche, Rach. Yes I realize I'm a newbie but I've lurked long enough
    Posted by Lou2127[/QUOTE]

    I was never overly upset about it. So yes, I'm over it. I still think she's a coward though.

    anna.oskar - that green burger with 8 cups of mayo on it was NASTY. I would never pump that much food coloring in to my system as an adult.
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  • On the TMI - I flame anybody who has posted it in an otherwise innocuous thread.  Make a new one for that shiit.  Don't just throw it out there without a title that lets people avoid it.  That's the only problem I've ever had with the baby threads, BC threads, etc., is when it was slipped in with other stuff. 
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    [QUOTE]And Sara, for your information, I made that comment (which was not bitchy) because <strong>I sincerely was hoping for OP's fiance's sake, that the definition was different than what I (and many other people) knew it to be</strong>, thus making it logical for OP to invite frat boys.  Simma down now...
    Posted by kate51485[/QUOTE]

    I wouldn't say that I'm particularly worked up over this, it's just a comment that struck me as needlessy out of line. 

    And I still think that asking the OP if she was a slut, to clarify "for her fiance's sake," is kind of bitchy.
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