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musicalsunlight · August 2012

haha i don't know how DNB does it. A lot of my ish today is built up from almost 2 weeks of J being gone and like barely once a day brief conversation. I'd be a raging b!tch all the time if he was gone for months.

*roars*

Anyway. Yeah. knotting while driving is pathetic. IDGAF if you are "stopped" in traffic. To need to knot while you are doing something as important as driving is just too much.

Stackeye210 · August 2012

I like when people talk about things that give TK a long memory. I'm ok with bringing up dead topics, letting posts never die if they're good, or beating the dead horse repeatedly. But, as I've confirmed I like the entertainment value that it brings.

I know better than to talk about anything that could be used against me later, you learn that early on. If someone can't figure that ish out - sorry for ya. Fair game. ALL OF IT.

Beachy730 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:060c24e9-8084-497b-827a-4529c395ffc1">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]haha i don't know how DNB does it. A lot of my ish today is built up from almost 2 weeks of J being gone and like barely once a day brief conversation. I'd be a raging b!tch all the time if he was gone for months. *roars* Anyway. Yeah. knotting while driving is pathetic. IDGAF if you are "stopped" in traffic. To need to knot while you are doing something as important as driving is just too much.
Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Haha well I have been called a raging b!tch on more than one occasion, so there's that!

</div>

JessAndTrav · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:2227e3fa-0c82-4906-bfa1-4b70f7be1184">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : But you know the TOS. Why would you ban someone who hadn't broken them just because Lucy told you to? I just don't think that makes sense. Also, in the dog marriage thread, OOT was acting crazier than usual. Then she started backpedaling and saying she didn't say what she said.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]

And then she wouldn't answer anyone's questions about it.

Very strange.

abbalish · August 2012

crfb87/Chrissy has always rubbed me the wrong way. I feel like she has never expressed an original thought in any etiquette-related thread, she just spouts the party line that's been spouted ad nauseum. And I find her judgmental and a bit holier-than-thou.

Megbo2012 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:e5d522dc-3487-465a-9014-10b0848cfbad">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No I didn't need her permission but I didn't want to just run around banning people if it wasn't called for. Like I said, I thought Lucy said to go ahead and do it, but I completely misunderstood her. My fault.
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

<div>But shouldn't you have read the thread, saw there were no attacks and no issues against TOS so no reason to ban? If she was reading it herself while driving (idiot) then why couldn't she do the ban herself? She was only in a traffic jam, after all.</div><div>
</div><div>I'm just not getting the logic. </div>

J&K10910 · August 2012

I flame anyone who tries to pretend that oot isn't the craziest most AWing person here.

Stackeye210 · August 2012

Power.Head.Big.Must.Ban.Now.

That's all I'm getting, but I didn't read it, so there's that.

musicalsunlight · August 2012

I still would love to know what the original thread entailed. It was deleted before I got around to what was happening.

J&K10910 · August 2012

Meg, seriously, have you never pulled out your phone when you're parked on the highway? I don't know where Lucy lives, and I don't care, but I've gone an hour without moving during rush hour before.

midgetthemighty · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:e5d522dc-3487-465a-9014-10b0848cfbad">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No I didn't need her permission but I didn't want to just run around banning people if it wasn't called for. Like I said, I thought Lucy said to go ahead and do it, but I completely misunderstood her. My fault.
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

I didn't see any of this on CC but I have to say, why wouldn't you check the thread yourself if Lucy said something was going on. Even if she did just say "Ban soandso", I'd think logic would dictate checking yourself first.

OliveOilsMom · August 2012

I flame Amvonholtz who didn't want to invite her FI's bio mom to their wedding, even though FI wanted her there.

And this is an easy one, but Kristen#s for her "poor mom" diatribe.

Stackeye210 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:1ad88656-99b5-43d7-bbf1-5865f02d967c">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I still would love to know what the original thread entailed. It was deleted before I got around to what was happening.
Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

Yea, if anything I'd flame the ban for the fact that we can't read the original thread now!!! Odds are the person would have gotten banned eventually, but let us read the drama!

musicalsunlight · August 2012

Yeah I don't think you can ban on TK mobile yet. Not that I ban much on my board anyway because people are pretty sedated. But still. I get checking your phone momentarily in traffic but not logging on and perusing the internet. WTF. I just think that takes way too much concentration. Maybe its because I've had 3 idiots hit me when they weren't doing anything with phones that makes me nervous that people actually do that shiiit.

angelstar975 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:83649b7c-ad76-49bd-8555-ae1dc4ab098b">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm with you here, Rach. I know she says she done some horrible things, but all the comments of "We don't want you here!" kind of hurt my heart. It felt very 'mean girls' to me.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

I completely agree.

JessAndTrav · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:83649b7c-ad76-49bd-8555-ae1dc4ab098b">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm with you here, Rach. I know she says she done some horrible things, but all the comments of "We don't want you here!" kind of hurt my heart. It felt very 'mean girls' to me.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

I'm trying not to be rude or nice to her, I'm just ignoring her. Although in the beginning I did say some mean things.

angelstar975 · August 2012

Edie, I needed to vent more than I needed to avoid being flamed again, so I vented.

And re: complaining about working. I want to work, but I want to work a normal work day. 12 or 13 hours straight with an infant and a toddler who aren't yours is a lot. Sure, I signed up for it this week, but it was still difficult and not something I'd want to do on a regular basis.

I don't think I have any flames at the moment.

annieoldfield · August 2012

Why are you a mod if you cant decide for yourself whats ban worthy?

StephBeanWed61502 · August 2012

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]I still would love to know what the original thread entailed. It was deleted before I got around to what was happening. Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

OP was having wedding related arguments with her dad. She got advice on how to disengage and not turn into a 9 year old whenever she talks to him, she then got pissed and started insisting that she was so mature and everyone was totally wrong about her need to be right all the time, and was probably inches from losing her sh!t, but then Edie banned her prematurely.

Nothing banworthy happened in the thread, for the record.

musicalsunlight · August 2012

Thanks Steph! So just run of the mill huffy newb.

midgetthemighty · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:35862934-b5ce-4e9a-a8e5-7696e7f4ef98">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Agreed. Those were both rifuckingdiculous, but I've come to expect it from Kristen. <strong>I also flame christi.mayo for going off the deep end in her first thread here and breaking out "cvnt" for basically no reason other than being told she had a bad idea.
</strong>Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

That's the name I was trying to remember! She was ridiculous.

I also flame diabride for being ridiculous in the HM registry thread then asking a "legitimate etiquette question", saying she wasn't going to stir the pot, then freaking out when everyone told her what she was doing was wrong.

gurrlballa10 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:309fa7d6-9226-4fb6-a249-a845f8a38d65">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Edie, I needed to vent more than I needed to avoid being flamed again, so I vented. And re: complaining about working. I want to work, but I want to work a normal work day. 12 or 13 hours straight with an infant and a toddler who aren't yours is a lot. Sure, I signed up for it this week, but it was still difficult and not something I'd want to do on a regular basis. I don't think I have any flames at the moment.
Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

But that's what I don't get. One week you were complaining about not having enough money (hence not working enough hours), and then when you do get the hours, you complain that it's not a "normal" work day. In this situation, I would say beggars can't be choosers.

Megbo2012 · August 2012

If I did do something illegal like text and drive, I wouldn't post about it on the place where no one ever forgets. And I wouldn't use it as an excuse for doing something dumb.

But I have to go to work so if I don't respond that's why.

Rosie109 · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:3d62e40e-97a8-49dc-aa68-553199ddfaad">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Why are you a mod if you cant decide for yourself whats ban worthy?
Posted by annieoldfield[/QUOTE]

Boom roasted

I have no actual flames if you can't tell. Edie just annoys me.

baystateapple · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:3d62e40e-97a8-49dc-aa68-553199ddfaad">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Why are you a mod if you cant decide for yourself whats ban worthy?
Posted by annieoldfield[/QUOTE]
This is pretty freakin' rude. I was a moderator for about two and a half months, and in that time I only banned two people. There is a lot more to being a mod than just banning people.

Andplusalso, when there are two mods and both are available, it's pretty standard to "clear" it with the other mod, because you have to go up the TK ladder and report any bannings, and it's better to know that the other moderator will verify that your choice to ban was a good one.

Beachy730 · August 2012

I feel like Angel is the new Chels when it comes to flames.

J&K10910 · August 2012

Dude, working a 13 hour day sucks no matter how you slice it. It's not like she's refusing to do it. She's venting about it being long hours. We can't vent here now? That's idiotic.

musicalsunlight · August 2012

You don't have to report banninations. I never do. oops bad mod.

maratea · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:6a608ec6-410f-4056-8248-91c4f9691872">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh right I forgot the mod's only job is to ban people.
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]
No, but it is your job to use logic and common sense and not run to big sister when someone gets their hackles up. I still can't believe that you pre-emptively banned someone, for something they didn't even fucking do! Misunderstanding or not, that doesn't lend to your credibility as a logical poster.

annieoldfield · August 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-99?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2430a78d-fe38-4d6b-8928-a3e5c498a161Post:6a608ec6-410f-4056-8248-91c4f9691872">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Oh right I forgot the mod's only job is to ban people.
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

<div>No, but please do elaborate on why exactly you are a mod. </div>

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