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temerityjane · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:4274cd37-0d62-426c-87f9-c74cf86f4931">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]TJ, what did you get in the secret santa thing?<div>Posted by lpstl[/QUOTE]</div><div>
</div><div>Nothing. Which, whatever. The eye rolling part is that whoever had me told tide they had a "tracking number" and was "looking into it," yet has never revealed themselves to me to say "Oh, sorry for the mix up!" It would have been way less lame to just say "Yeah, I didn't send anything, sorry."</div><div>
</div><div>This, of course, makes it sound like I obsess over it. I just couldn't think of anything else for FFF and I'm procrastinating doing something less pleasant.</div><div>
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salt78 · February 2010

Right now K-chiz's photo is her climbing a rock wall or something.
She's really a moron. Not because of the rock wall.

beatlesgirl25 · February 2010

Lpstl, her last sig had her rock climbing or something, and now it's just one of her and her FI.

pinkpinot · February 2010

lpst - I think her sig pic is her rock climbing on one of those indoor things.

Stackeye210 · February 2010

I agree about crying babies. I had a crying baby through the ENTIRE ceremony. I was still married at the end of the day, and my day sure wasn't ruined.

MissLeahM · February 2010

I flame whoever invented sig challenges, isn't that what a freakin' bio is for? Cripes.

Stackeye210 · February 2010

I was SO VERY happy to not see the Julia Dreyfus wanna be with a bloody toe jumping rope picture this week..........

beatlesgirl25 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:07a6553c-48ae-4a2f-b9ad-c322840d90eb">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I haven't noticed a lot going on, but I want to echo something dani said a day or so ago, about people automatically jumping on new posters in a biitchy way, before they're given a chance to prove themselves to be an idiot. Being biitchy for the sake of being biitchy isn't funny. Being hilariously biitchy to someone who is lacking the mental prowess to get your brilliant witticisms IS funny. Jumping on someone simply because you don't recognize their name and they ask a question that's been asked before isn't funny. Jumping on someone because they're new and have a super special unique reason why they need to ask for cash on their invites and refuse to listen to polite advice about how rude that will be IS funny.
Posted by temerityjane[/QUOTE]

TJ, I agree with this in principle, but I wish there were some examples (this is FFF, after all). I noticed Dani mentioned this right after the CA2MTslkdfj thing, and I have an uneasy feeling you guys are talking about me, except I wasn't trying to be bitchy. I know, "I'm doing it wrong."

alixzafiris · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:16fdff6d-6f41-435a-8c2f-5c11b3438693">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame whoever invented sig challenges, isn't that what a freakin' bio is for? Cripes.
Posted by MissLeahM[/QUOTE]

Maybe I'm going crazy here... but are you not, in fact, currently partaking in one?

Morfudd · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:c405c43b-3d02-49d6-a09b-a5df7929249a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Maybe I'm going crazy here... but are you not, in fact, currently partaking in one?
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

I have a feeling that's an act of protest.

shellydiane820 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:c405c43b-3d02-49d6-a09b-a5df7929249a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Maybe I'm going crazy here... but are you not, in fact, currently partaking in one?
Posted by alixzafiris[/QUOTE]

I think hers is a joke. At least I hope it is.

mwhitson14 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:16fdff6d-6f41-435a-8c2f-5c11b3438693">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame whoever invented sig challenges, isn't that what a freakin' bio is for? Cripes.
Posted by MissLeahM[/QUOTE]

I can't see pictures at work, but you've got the line Sig Challenge, so I'm assuming you're doing it?

I like siggy challenges, it helps countdown the time. I don't do them anymore though, I got off my month board.

Brie2010 · February 2010

Also, Pooh's sig picture is huge. Maybe it's just my screen, but it always looks massive to me.

MissLeahM · February 2010

What?! You don't like my inspiration.. I heard you guys were bitches but geez!

danieliza1127 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:0929fb23-04ee-42df-8e8f-b71545e41285">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : TJ, I agree with this in principle, but I wish there were some examples (this is FFF, after all). I noticed Dani mentioned this right after the CA2MTslkdfj thing, and I have an uneasy feeling you guys are talking about me, except I wasn't trying to be bitchy. I know, "I'm doing it wrong."
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

This is the one I was specifically referring to the other day. It was completely rude and unnecessary and now that chick is going to have a negative view of us as a whole.

<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_americanew-zealand-wedding" target="_blank">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_americanew-zealand-wedding</a>

shellydiane820 · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:0929fb23-04ee-42df-8e8f-b71545e41285">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : TJ, I agree with this in principle, but I wish there were some examples (this is FFF, after all). I noticed Dani mentioned this right after the CA2MTslkdfj thing, and I have an uneasy feeling you guys are talking about me, except I wasn't trying to be bitchy. I know, "I'm doing it wrong."
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

I felt like with her post, you were helpful and she was rude about it. I have yet to see you be mean to someone, unless they truly are being an ass.

ohwhynot · February 2010

For folks who can't see the siggy challenge pic, here it is:

alixzafiris · February 2010

I'm seeing no picture. I just see "June 2010 Sig Challenge"... what am I missing here?

temerityjane · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:0929fb23-04ee-42df-8e8f-b71545e41285">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : TJ, I agree with this in principle, but I wish there were some examples (this is FFF, after all). I noticed Dani mentioned this right after the CA2MTslkdfj thing, and I have an uneasy feeling you guys are talking about me, except I wasn't trying to be bitchy. I know, "I'm doing it wrong."
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I'm not talking about anyone specific. I honestly haven't even registered any specific names, of regulars or new posters. It's just an annoying trend in general. </div><div>
</div><div>Like when someone posts for the very first time and says something like "How do I ask my bridesmaids?" and someone immediately replies "UM, why don't you use your WORDS? Like a GROWN UP?" (totally made up example, seriously) That's just unnecessary. Give the person a chance to prove herself to be a moron before she's treated like one, that's all I'm saying.

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alixzafiris · February 2010

Ah, now I see it.

stina93446 · February 2010

Alixa, the picture looks like a reindeer! Only with hair....lol

mwhitson14 · February 2010

Oh ok.

beatlesgirl25 · February 2010

Ah, thanks TJ and Dani (and Shelly). I didn't see the New Zealand post before.

alixzafiris · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:cafb9d5a-bf0f-4d1a-b252-8ff96ccab774">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : This is the one I was specifically referring to the other day. It was completely rude and unnecessary and now that chick is going to have a negative view of us as a whole. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_americanew-zealand-wedding" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_americanew-zealand-wedding</a>
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

This whole thing was ridiculous, I steered clear. People channled their inner super-bitches for no apparent reason and it didn't look good on the people doing the flaming as she did, in fact, have a legitimate concern.

Stackeye210 · February 2010

Dani that post annoyed me too because I was really trying to give her some ideas.

salt78 · February 2010

Oh god we've got a live one in the thread above this.

danieliza1127 · February 2010

Exactly, and that's why it pissed me off. Like TJ was saying, sure be a bitch to someone who posts about their pretty princess day that Daddy won't pay for, fine. But this was a legitimate dilemma and even though she didn't ask a specific question, it was pretty clear and she wasn't saying anything stupid. It has just been happening a lot lately and I get sick of it. People complain when there are no newbs around for new things to talk about but then they are mean to the legitimate newbs who do come around. It doesn't make sense.

BecW2be · February 2010

Salt, little brimclueless had an entire post on DIY about how much fun she had designing her own (barf) monogram, and she decided she's a great graphic designer, and she'll start building her business by doing monograms for people for free, and then she'll be a full-on graphic designer with her magical PaintPro. I can't find it now, and I think she may have deleted it after people called her a dumbass, but here's a post referencing it:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_diy_easy-ways-design-logo

There are so many things wrong with her it's hard to keep them all straight.

alixzafiris · February 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-19?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:d75623f0-0599-47b0-a8a3-7ac0c9a36840Post:6c13fea3-67d7-461d-83bc-5482983a3c7d">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Salt, little brimclueless had an entire post on DIY about how much fun she had designing her own (barf) monogram, and she decided she's a great graphic designer, and she'll start building her business by doing monograms for people for free, and then she'll be a full-on graphic designer with her magical PaintPro. I can't find it now, and I think she may have deleted it after people called her a dumbass, but here's a post referencing it: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_diy_easy-ways-design-logo" rel="nofollow">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_diy_easy-ways-design-logo</a> There are so many things wrong with her it's hard to keep them all straight.
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

:DED:

jasmineh7777 · February 2010

I thought the response of the OP in the New Zealand post was spot on.

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