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Nebb · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:cbbc7804-db42-4048-b955-3d2e3bbe14b1">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]You're right, I forgot somebody commented on your miscarriage, and I don't remember how you reacted (or didn't react) to that. But sending in 47 callouts yourself because someone said your ring was probably fake, or coming into a thread guns ablazin' because people commented your shoes looked ill fitted? That's pretty damn ridiculous. All you're achieving is feeding the flames. It just made you look like a drama llama. ETA: And I still maintain that I am not the only person to think that, or to have commented on it.
Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]
Ill just pipe up and say that responding to the call outs probably encouraged the nastier ones towards the end. It was like an invitation for more back and forth. I got called out a few times and I ignored them, and Im pretty highly disliked around some parts by some people who I know were contributing and by not feeding into it I didnt get flamed nearly as bad as I expected.

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:cbbc7804-db42-4048-b955-3d2e3bbe14b1">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]You're right, I forgot somebody commented on your miscarriage, and I don't remember how you reacted (or didn't react) to that. But sending in 47 callouts yourself because someone said your ring was probably fake, or coming into a thread guns ablazin' because people commented your shoes looked ill fitted? That's pretty damn ridiculous. All you're achieving is feeding the flames. It just made you look like a drama llama. ETA: And I still maintain that I am not the only person to think that, or to have commented on it.
Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]

Once again.....until someone insults your ering....your wedding shoes or things you really care about how the hell would you know how you'd respond? Were you even involved in the call out mess? Cause I certainly don't remember you. Was I upset....of course. Things said were hurtful and I defended myself.

I'm a drama lama? This thread wasn't about the callout crap. You brought that up. The only people I know who had a big issue are on E. And yeah I think there was a whole double standard about who gets to defend themselves. Plenty of other people posted things calling out people on the call out site....but apparently it was only me who wasn't supposed to. Hippo get a crate.

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:e05385f6-ba18-42b7-955b-c9b3415f7e13">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Ill just pipe up and say that responding to the call outs probably encouraged the nastier ones towards the end. It was like an invitation for more back and forth. I got called out a few times and I ignored them, and Im pretty highly disliked around some parts by some people who I know were contributing and by not feeding into it I didnt get flamed nearly as bad as I expected.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I know that happened to you. I'm just not made that way. I did start ignoring it towards the end up for the most part I think I was too shocked and kinda befuddled that people would say those things about people they don't even know.

Y I Oughta · November 2010

What thread was this in. I missed all of it.

I also can't believe someone would say something about another woman's miscarriage

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:3e574f2a-3479-452f-98e8-e41e8d17e1b1">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : I don't think anyone made themselves look like jackasses by responding to the callouts. The callouts were hurtful and deliberately cruel, and I, for one, saw nothing wrong with someone defending themselves--especially with the things said about aprove, heels, P2, and a couple others.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

Exactly. I didn't blame P2 for lashing out about the one about her husband....or the ones about heels or SS. People react to hurtful things......that doesn't make them look like a jackass.

Nebb · November 2010

Achnowledging it just gives it power over you, you have to just let it slide. Who cares what strangers with too much time on their hands have to say. Once upon a time it DID bother me, I had my wedding pics/dress ripped apart one evening for many lengthy pages and I just took a knot break rather than retaliate.

dmiller9274 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:5d48b161-8500-4f87-bcd8-d222589cdb50">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]What thread was this in. I missed all of it. I also can't believe someone would say something about another woman's miscarriage
Posted by Y I Oughta[/QUOTE]
It wasn't in a thread...a few months ago someone created a website so that people who were too pussy to say things directly to posters could say it anonymously through the website. It was ridiculous and some asshole/assholes actually sent in call outs, they were very hurtful things about a lot of the regs on SB and E.

Y I Oughta · November 2010

Wow, that's spineless. Why not just say it in FFF or AYG or something.

kimheartsscott · November 2010

Other people in this thread were talking about your reaction to the twat situation, comparing it to the callout situation. I'm honestly surprised how people viewed the whole thing, and I commented on it. I was not the first person to bring it up, I was just the first person to disagree.

P2 did react, but she reacted to someone saying horrible things about her relationship with her husband. I don't think she was wrong in that and I would have done the same thing. Heels did too. I just think there is a major difference between saying "her ering looks fake" and "her husband would be better off dead" or "I hope her dog gets hit by a car" If you don't think there is a major difference between those things, we obviously have very different priorities and will never agree here.

Again, I don't remember how you reacted to the miscarriage call out, but I would not judge you at all for reacting because it's much worse than "her shoes look stupid."

kimheartsscott · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:321ae210-73c4-4075-8ceb-b3c4241323ed">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Exactly. I didn't blame P2 for lashing out about the one about her husband....or the ones about heels or SS. People react to hurtful things......that doesn't make them look like a jackass.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I don't think being upset is bad. But the fact that you kept it going for days (sending in reply callouts) was unnecessary.

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Y I Oughta · November 2010

Well it looks like that site is gone. I looked up call outs and it took me to a thread, which had a link, that went nowhere.

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:50023268-fa4e-4cdf-8983-4bc6446c2865">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Achnowledging it just gives it power over you, you have to just let it slide. Who cares what strangers with too much time on their hands have to say. Once upon a time it DID bother me, I had my wedding pics/dress ripped apart one evening for many lengthy pages and I just took a knot break rather than retaliate.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I get how you handled it but for me it wasn't happening on SB at the time so I wasn't going to leave over that since it was on that awful site.

I didn't think it was that big a deal to respond and the fact that people (not you Nebb) still found it surprising that I responded is humorous.

cupcakesfrosting · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:4962c203-74d4-433d-a6ee-4060e6673a5d">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Well it looks like that site is gone. I looked up call outs and it took me to a thread, which had a link, that went nowhere.
Posted by Y I Oughta[/QUOTE]

It's been gone for a while. The whole thing was obnoxiously immature, and it's over and done with now.

Y I Oughta · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:41789f2b-2333-4bc5-8f90-2f308ef29af9">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : It's been gone for a while. The whole thing was obnoxiously immature, and it's over and done with now.
Posted by cupcakesfrosting[/QUOTE]

That's good to know. It sounds utterly ridiculous and hurtful

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:df6eb87f-b88e-4fb0-a4f3-57e927747c65">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]Other people in this thread were talking about your reaction to the twat situation, comparing it to the callout situation. I'm honestly surprised how people viewed the whole thing, and I commented on it. I was not the first person to bring it up, I was just the first person to disagree. P2 did react, but she reacted to someone saying horrible things about her relationship with her husband. I don't think she was wrong in that and I would have done the same thing. Heels did too. I just think there is a major difference between saying "her ering looks fake" and "her husband would be better off dead" or "I hope her dog gets hit by a car" If you don't think there is a major difference between those things, we obviously have very different priorities and will never agree here. Again, I don't remember how you reacted to the miscarriage call out, but I would not judge you at all for reacting because it's much worse than "her shoes look stupid."
Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]

Um. Thanks for telling me how my priorities should lie. Who in the world are you to tell people what should hurt their feelings or not? I never said my callouts were as bad as heels or P2. There wasn't some major competition there just how I felt.

Oh and get your facts right. The shoes look stupid comment was in an FFF. Where people proceeded to call my feet fat, that they looked like sausages, and that I ruined a beautiful pair of shoes. Once again, I thought that crap was out of line but it was on E.

aprovencher21 · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:77cde8fc-6f2b-4288-b1c0-94f5d0481f83">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : I don't think being upset is bad. But the fact that you kept it going for days (sending in reply callouts) was unnecessary.
Posted by kimheartsscott[/QUOTE]

I think in total I sent in 3 or 4. I wouldn't call that going for days. But thank you Knot police for monitoring my responses. Do you need a gold star or something?

jasmineh7777 · November 2010

I don't like this fighting. If I were in middle school, I'd be turning my stereo up really loud to block it out.

aprovencher21 · November 2010

Err would it be a boombox? Cause that's what I had in middle school.....

cupcakesfrosting · November 2010

I'm just waiting for "twat" to be thrown out there....

kimheartsscott · November 2010

Are you saying Jon Hamm DIDN'T give you sexy vibes?! If I recall correctly you liked bearded Hamm at least.

Nebb · November 2010

eehh I have to say ive gotten tired of don draper sigs. Its time for something new.

kimheartsscott · November 2010

So you wait until I have actual engagement pics to post?! I was looking forward to inheriting those sigs.

You are making me wish I had HBO though.

Nebb · November 2010

Having HBO and AMC is awesome. I hope you can see it soon because its soo good. I have to say some of the violent scenes are almost a little sexy (in the hotel when they met with that other boss and one of the ladies from their cat house was there with their coats and guns and they turned around and shot them all... oh man!)

aprovencher21 · November 2010

Ah sorry I missed this. Kaylee had another mini seizure. She's going to give me a heart attack.

Jas- You pinned my personality perfectly.

Kim- Id love to agree to disagree

Nebb- Are you as obsessed with the Walking Dead as I am? I did not enjoy that horse scene though....that hurt my heart. Also, if you come visit me in NJ I'll take you to Atlantic City (I'm trying to bribe you). To fully appreciate Boardwalk Empire (love the show as well) you should come visit. Know when all the guys got shot up in the woods of Hammonton? That's where most of my intense Italian family is from.....

Since we have Kaylee having issues we are going to Atlantic City for the weekend of our wedding. We won't be too far from her if she needs us but we can still have fun.

[Deleted User] · November 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6f1d5c6f-124c-4e95-9258-e2382a10c3edPost:36c8fe1f-ab08-4b6b-9b92-90084a018646">Re: AYG</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG : Cew: I think it was the way you phrased it that irked me. I feel, for the most part, that I sit here tongue in cheek because I don't say the first thing or two that pops into my mind when I feel people are being morons. That wasn't totally directed at you at all just a general feeling from that thread that I got.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

I don't understand what you are saying here.

AYG

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