am i crazy here?

[Deleted User] · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:5fef2cd2-1666-4cb4-846a-7d395b41be00">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: am i crazy here? : Already did, but I'm pretty sure I missed a couple. I didn't read too carefully -- I was getting a headache from just skimming it.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

whoops... I saw your post after I wrote that... Sorry!

At first I didnt understand what you were doing with your first reply and when I got it, it made me laugh... I'm pretty slow today! lol

oceana919 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:38ed0aed-a80b-4cd6-97f2-93fb53f5f8c4">am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]ok, nevermind, all though i do so enjoy being referred to as a troll,

If this was your attempt at sarcasm, it was effectively lost on us. All you did was reinforce the idea that you are, in fact, a

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and people say, yes youre crazy, i would have much rather people just say, "ya, youre goin a bit fast, take a break and wait untill you are engaged to plan it out"

I imagine that was what all the "please read this sticky" posts were for. Then again, if you lurked before you posted and actually read the stickies, the response you recieved would not be of any surprise to you.

but, i guess crazy troll will have to do. no, i didnt need any helpful answers,

If you didn't need helpful responses, why did you post in the first place?

though one did give more helpful advice than the rest, i needed people to be, in my oppinion, a little catty, b****y even.

So, you needed a verbal slap back into reality, and you're now complaining because you recieved it? 

i may have taken it the wrong way, havent had the best week, mayby being called a troll is a good thing,

Depends on how much you like having a jeweled bellybutton and bright blue Don King hair.

maybe i took it the wrong way. however, i shall be sure bo respond to questions those whos responses were less than helpfull, in the same manner you answered mine.

Now that's a surefire way to recieve beneficial, constructive responses in the future. 

Posted by TiffanyNZ[/QUOTE]

Lastly:

Ok, nevermind. Although I do so enjoy being referred to as a troll, and people think I'm crazy, I would have much rather people respond with, "yes, you're moving a bit fast. Take a break and wait until you are engaged to plan it out". I guess "crazy troll" will have to do. No, I didn't recieve any helpful answers. However, one poster did give more helpful advice than the rest. I feel people were, in my opinion, a little catty - bitchy even. I may have taken the tone the wrong way, as I haven't had the best week. Maybe being called a troll is a good thing, or maybe I took it the wrong way. However, I shall be sure to respond to the questions of those posters
who posted less-than-helpful responses in the same manner you answered mine.

Elle1036 · October 2010

I don't think the OP got it either... I was just trying to help, honest! :-)

CASK85 · October 2010

OP said: i may have taken it the wrong way, havent had the best week, mayby being called a troll is a good thing,

Oceana said: Depends on how much you like having a jeweled bellybutton and bright blue Don King hair.

I say, I think this sounds AWESOME -- can I be a troll? Please? Preferably this one (I like the yellow hair better):

oceana919 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:09a93e10-c9da-4a18-b6ba-c22f4408779a">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]OP said: i may have taken it the wrong way, havent had the best week, mayby being called a troll is a good thing, Oceana said: Depends on how much you like having a jeweled bellybutton and bright blue Don King hair. I say, I think this sounds AWESOME -- can I be a troll? Please? Preferably this one (I like the yellow hair better):
Posted by cschiano[/QUOTE]

Personally, I think you should totally make that your siggie pic.

nottheonlydreamer44 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to am i crazy here? : Lastly: Ok , nevermind. Although I do so enjoy being referred to as a troll, and people think I'm crazy, I would have much rather people respond with , " yes , you're moving a bit fast. Take a break and wait until you are engaged to plan it out". I guess " crazy troll " will have to do. No , I didn't recieve any helpful answers. However, one poster did give more helpful advice than the rest. I feel people were , in my opinion , a little catty - bitchy even. I may have taken the tone the wrong way, as I haven't had the best week. Maybe being called a troll is a good thing, or maybe I took it the wrong way. However , I shall be sure to respond to the questions of those posters who posted less-than-helpful responses in the same manner you answered mine.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

Perfect and hilarious.

For the record I would like to be this troll - He's a swashbuckler. I like it.
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oceana919 · October 2010

Yeah, my personal fave was the wizard. Namely, for this reason:

Michelle was the sh*t when I was a kid.

Elle1036 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]Michelle was the sh*t when I was a kid.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

OMG... Does anybody else remember the Mary Kate & Ashley detective videos? I don't remember what they were called exactly, but I remember the line "We'll solve any crime by dinner time!"

I was obsessed with those when I was 8-ish.

PaigeMcC · October 2010

I CALL THE RAINBOW HAIRED TROLL!!

CASK85 · October 2010

I just had a thought: What if people unfamiliar with the term "troll" actually think that it means treasure trolls and go to some other internet forum? hehe.

heyimbren · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:2981b41c-b569-4a0a-b03b-4f314ac11e10">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: am i crazy here? : OMG... Does anybody else remember the Mary Kate & Ashley detective videos? I don't remember what they were called exactly, but I remember the line "We'll solve any crime by dinner time!" I was obsessed with those when I was 8-ish.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

I do! Such good movies. Looooved those. I was completely obsessed with MK & Ashley for a while.

Elle1036 · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:e4c14a06-6171-4ea6-8f38-66e04d99df1c">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: am i crazy here? : I do! Such good movies. Looooved those. I was completely obsessed with MK & Ashley for a while.
Posted by heyimbren[/QUOTE]

I'm tempted now to re-live my childhood. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Adventures-Mary-Kate-Ashley-Case-U-S/dp/6303950779"> Click.</a>

Beads921 · October 2010

"i may have taken it the wrong way, havent had the best week, mayby being called a troll is a good thing,

Depends on how much you like having a jeweled bellybutton and bright blue Don King hair."

Giggle-snort.

On the topic of favourite trolls, mine was a little one with orange hair and an orange star for a belly button. That one rocked!

[Deleted User] · October 2010

This made me LOL!!

[Deleted User] · October 2010

oh for christ sake, sue me.

[Deleted User] · October 2010

oh i read the notes, you dont need to be quite a bitch about it though.

heyimbren · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:e237454a-1ee0-4532-b63a-c8a32d28de1f">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]oh i read the notes, you dont need to be quite a bitch about it though.
Posted by TiffanyNZ[/QUOTE]

Okay so besides complaining about us, now that you've read the notes, do you have a better idea of what you should do? Remember: people can only reply to you based off of how you present yourself in your posts. Good luck.

oceana919 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]oh i read the notes, you dont need to be quite a bitch about it though.
Posted by TiffanyNZ[/QUOTE]

If I had a quarter for every time I got called a bitch...

If you read the stickies, then the response you recieved should be of little surprise.

...aaaaaaaaaaaaand back to the troll doll discussion.

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[Deleted User] · October 2010

youd be rich im sure. and i wouldnt be complaining about any of you or being a bitch myself if people werent bitchy towards me to begin with. i wouldnt respond to anybodys post calling them a troll or a nut job and i dont appreciate it when people do that to me. new to the web site, took a step back and asked myself, am i going a little overboad? answer, ya, what do other people think. so i asked, and all of a sudden im a crazy troll. forgive me please if i've gotten bitchy. i just though maybe, people would have had constructive things to say not, ya youre crazy, or, TROLL, or the guy that keeps correcting my grammer, i know i havent been putting in the ' or any of that, but thanks for the reminder. im just surprised at how bitchy some of you people can be.

oceana919 · October 2010

Dude...if that little guy had a beer in his hand, he'd be my new favorite.

PaigeMcC · October 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_am-crazy-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:70451193-7d54-48fa-9ceb-45672cd4c749Post:9c905341-ba31-48ac-a924-ef090d431090">Re: am i crazy here?</a>:
[QUOTE]youd be rich im sure. and i wouldnt be complaining about any of you or being a bitch myself if people werent bitchy towards me to begin with. i wouldnt respond to anybodys post calling them a troll or a nut job and i dont appreciate it when people do that to me. new to the web site, took a step back and asked myself, am i going a little overboad? answer, ya, what do other people think. so i asked, and all of a sudden im a crazy troll. forgive me please if i've gotten bitchy. i just though maybe, people would have had constructive things to say not, ya youre crazy, or, TROLL, or the guy that keeps correcting my grammer, i know i havent been putting in the ' or any of that, but thanks for the reminder. im just surprised at how bitchy some of you people can be.
Posted by TiffanyNZ[/QUOTE]

<div>You ain't seen nothin' yet, honey. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /></div>

heyimbren · October 2010

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[QUOTE]youd be rich im sure. and i wouldnt be complaining about any of you or being a bitch myself if people werent bitchy towards me to begin with. i wouldnt respond to anybodys post calling them a troll or a nut job and i dont appreciate it when people do that to me. new to the web site, took a step back and asked myself, am i going a little overboad? answer, ya, what do other people think. so i asked, and all of a sudden im a crazy troll. forgive me please if i've gotten bitchy. i just though maybe, people would have had constructive things to say not, ya youre crazy, or, TROLL, or the guy that keeps correcting my grammer, i know i havent been putting in the ' or any of that, but thanks for the reminder. im just surprised at how bitchy some of you people can be.
Posted by TiffanyNZ[/QUOTE]

No, you may not like the responses you got. The best way to deal with it? Either leave and find another board, or post back and say "Yepp, I was crazy! I'll keep that in mind about the spelling and grammar next time."

It's the internet. People are going to respond however they want. And not everyone was "mean" to you.

oceana919 · October 2010

hetshup · October 2010

Look OP, you are either engaged or you aren't engaged. There is no middle ground. If your BF/FI/FBD says you should go look at dresses, then you need to have a sit down with him to see where you stand. This is one of those things that should have a very clear line. If you are not engaged, sit back and enjoy this time, it really is a delicious time of life, the anticipation is amazing. If you are engaged, commence planning. I'm not saying this to be mean, I'm saying it b\c it's true.

And if Kat had a quarter every time she was called a biitch, she'd have at $.25. Whoa, getting crazy now.

Hey, did anyone else have My little ponies? Those things were awesome.

heyimbren · October 2010

My Little Ponies > Treasure Trolls.

I had a whole crate full of them. You used to be able to get bags of them at Value Village for a few bucks.

oceana919 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]Look OP, you are either engaged or you aren't engaged. There is no middle ground. If your BF/FI/FBD says you should go look at dresses, then you need to have a sit down with him to see where you stand. This is one of those things that should have a very clear line. If you are not engaged, sit back and enjoy this time, it really is a delicious time of life, the anticipation is amazing. If you are engaged, commence planning. I'm not saying this to be mean, I'm saying it b\c it's true. And if Kat had a quarter every time she was called a biitch, she'd have at $.25. Who, getting crazy now. Hey, did anyone else have My little ponies? Those things were awesome.
Posted by hetshup[/QUOTE]

I sure as hell hope I'd have more than $0.25. Hell, it costs four "bitch" references to buy a small fry anymore.

hetshup · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: am i crazy here? : I sure as hell hope I'd have more than $0.25. Hell, it costs four "bitch" references to buy a small fry anymore.
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>I just imagine you rolling into a McDonald's with your butt warmers on full blast and 4 scantily clad women. I'll trade these women for a small fry. PLEASE!!</div>

[Deleted User] · October 2010

we have talked about it, many times, we know where we stand, whats going on, whats gonna be happening. all im trying to say, is it was kinda bitchy to start calling me a troll, im sure you wouldnt like it either. teach me ask a question again if im mostly only going to get people saying im a troll.

breezerb · October 2010

mmm... bean dip

heyimbren · October 2010

Tiffany, you got your answer. Regardless of whether you liked it or not, you did get some. If you two are agreed on things, then good for you.

You may not like how this board works, but that's how it does.

As a side note, picking out a dress is one of the last things in wedding planning you need to do. Sure, go ahead and browse online but leave it at that if you don't have a date set.

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