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Not Engaged Yet
I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.
I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding!
This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills!
It's pitiful. Get a life!
This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills!
It's pitiful. Get a life!
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Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.
Somebody once said, it's the soul that matters. Baby who can really tell, when two hearts belong so well?
Tale as Old as Time (Updated 11/26)
[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
You spelled "wait" wrong.
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[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
Please back up your accusations. I want examples. Who is not engaged and planning their wedding?
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, at least stay in your own yard.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
There is a new bully in the school yard tonight. . . <div>
</div><div>I'm going to bed. Have fun with this one, ladies :) Miss you all! </div>
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Now, who's the pitiful one?
And it's spelled W-A-I-T, you imbecile.
[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
Hey Wate, are you even engaged?
Then again, I agree with most of what you said.
I'm betting that Wate is her new last name.
[QUOTE]In Response to I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : Please back up your accusations. I want examples. Who is not engaged and planning their wedding?
Posted by loopy82[/QUOTE]
How about SeaTea posting in September 2012 about when she is planning to buy her dress?
I am not ignorant to what the sticky says. Just because a sticky says it does not mean that you abide by it.
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, at least stay in your own yard.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I bet if you report posters straying from the "appropriate" board to Knot Annie, she would totally ban them!</div><div>
</div><div>Right. *snort*
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I have lurked on this board for a while now, and it so clearly obvious that all of these lovely ladies are not, and completely discourage, planning a wedding before you are engaged.
You should probably lurk a bit more, and then you'll see how very wrong you are. They much more prefer talking about mashed potatos and engagement monkeys and things of that sort, which is much more hilarious. If you consider all of that wedding planning... well you're just crazy.
[QUOTE]In Response to I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : Hey Wate, are you even engaged? Then again, I agree with most of what you said. I'm betting that Wate is her new last name.
Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]
dingdingding
someone's clever.
of course I'm engaged. I wouldn't be on this site if I wasn't.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : How about SeaTea posting in September 2012 about when she is planning to buy her dress? I am not ignorant to what the sticky says. Just because a sticky says it does not mean that you abide by it.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Yeah see bia, the thing is I post over there on occasion but never about my self. I talk to the other women about their weddings and give advice to them. I have zero planning going on. </div><div>
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Just thought you ought to know.
What about this trainwreck of a thread from last month? I don't think that the only conversations here are about side dishes.
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_dirty-laundry_.0
Guess what? I'm engaged. Guess what also? A few other girls on here? Engaged. And, even further, some are *gasp* married.
Just because we're on the "Not Engaged Yet" board doesn't mean we're not all not engaged. Also, where in the title "Not Engaged Yet" does it constitute as "planning before the ring"?
If the site is only for "engaged people", I guess there shouldn't be boards for moms and maids or students, eh?
You lose again, troll.
[QUOTE]You have to collapse now, Elle.
Posted by GreenPepperBurger[/QUOTE]
I wasn't sure how to include that in my post. I was going to write *faints*, but then I thought "that's stupid, because how would I type it if I were really unconscious."
So I'm just letting the collapse be implied.
[QUOTE]Hi. You sound like a real peach. Guess what? I'm engaged. Guess what also? A few other girls on here? Engaged. And, even further, some are *gasp* married. Just because we're on the "Not Engaged Yet" board doesn't mean we're not all not engaged. Also, where in the title "Not Engaged Yet" does it constitute as "planning before the ring"? If the site is only for "engaged people", I guess there shouldn't be boards for moms and maids or students, eh?
Posted by bsidebella[/QUOTE]
Moms and maids are at least helping to plan a wedding and the students board is for engaged people who are also students, not just students in general, so that's irrelevant to your point.
Obviously my post was not aimed toward fellow engaged people.
No I don't think that married people should be on here, that is what the nest is for! But at least they can get their man to commit.
And GreenPepperBurger, I don't lose. Just because someone admits that they're crazy, doesn't make them any less.
[QUOTE]Styles can change and you might change your mind. There are plenty of girls on some of the other boards who ended up with more than one dress because they shopped too early. Despite what some will tell you, depending on where/what designer you go with your dress can take 9+ months to come in. My sister's did and it wasn't custom or anything. <strong>I would prob</strong> purchase about a year and a half out. I want to make sure it arrives, is altered, more than the week before the wedding.
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]</span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">This doesn't say I am. This says what I would do. Learn to read. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></div>Do you know why I have a venue?? Because my sister's wedding was called off earlier this year and the venue was already paid for. I am taking a bullet for my parents and agreed to get married there so they didn't lose 20k. I actually really hate this hotel. Do you know why I have a budget? It was my sister's budget. <div>
</div><div> We aren't engaged yet because we are young and we don't need to be right now. Do you know what helped me realize this? The wonderful women on this board.
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</div><div>I really don't need to validate my self to you any further.</div></div><div>
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[QUOTE]TROOOOLLLL in the dungeons!!! Just thought you ought to know.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]
What's that from? I recognize it.
ETA: As for the thread troll... Meh. It's too late (early?) for this mess.
I hung out on NEY before I was engaged. And guess what? I'm engaged now, and we were committed to each other even before that.
Please go away and annoy someone else now. Kthxbai.
I haz a planning bio
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, <strong>at least stay in your own yard.</strong>
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
1. Are we animals now?!
2. Go away, troll.
3. I like the pic SeaTea! It made me giggle <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />