Confessions/Rants/Vents?

mica178 · December 2010

That's awesome. She definitely sounds mature enough to embark on her second marriage.

DodgersBride · December 2010

Who really has a ticker\ count down to when her and BF got together unofficially and officially. It makes me sad that we are close in age and some people might put us in the same category

mica178 · December 2010

I think most 15 year olds have more common sense than this girl.

Snippylynn · December 2010

No no no... that's wrong and you know it Kiki. Find it on your own- whatever. Posting it? Not good.

aleighk1 · December 2010

Jumping in late here but did anyone see the Summer 07 album and the 3way kiss? Not something I would post on the internet. Or do...

mica178 · December 2010

Well, she needs to back up her bisexuality claim as well as the flashing "I

Sex" icon.

ast284 · December 2010

Wow that's a lot of information in the 60 seconds I looked at that. Websites have privacy settings for a reason!

[Deleted User] · December 2010

I can believe she is that stupid to put all that info on her MS given all her threads here on TK.

kikibaby · December 2010

I'll delete it, Amoro, but it's been quoted, too.

Dodgers, can you edit my quote out of your post? (If ya don't mind

)

salt78 · December 2010

Dammit I hate when I miss the good stuff!

Queen Jane · December 2010

Begin Rant.

The head Pastor at my job was supposed to rehearse for his 20 million "Christmas Eve" services today, but didn't show up and changed his mind that he would like to come in from 1pm to 3pm tomorrow, which is the time normal rehearsal is supposed to happen. So now 30+ people have to rearrange their schedules to be here at 9am instead of 1pm, when we are already forced to be here (and away from family) 12 hours a day until Christmas Day anyhow. But hey, they are only making us do 2 services Sunday instead of 3, yipee.

(I put Christmas Eve in quotations because these services actually begin tomorrow, December 22.)

End Rant.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2010

Who still uses myspace?

Anyway, on the topic of Christmas bonuses... my company put little velvet bags on the christmas tree in the lobby. We each had to take one this afternoon. In the bag was either a $20 bill or a $50 bill. Good idea or lamest Christmas bonus ever?

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · December 2010

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[QUOTE]Wow that's a lot of information in the 60 seconds I looked at that. Websites have privacy settings for a reason!
Posted by ast284[/QUOTE]

<div>Guys, she's a furry. That's all you need to know.</div><div>
</div><div>And hey, I want to be a member of the Secret Boobs Society 2.0.</div>

Loopyseven · December 2010

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[QUOTE]Who still uses myspace? Anyway, on the topic of Christmas bonuses... my company put little velvet bags on the christmas tree in the lobby. We each had to take one this afternoon. In the bag was either a $20 bill or a $50 bill. Good idea or lamest Christmas bonus ever?
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

<div>Fairly lame - but then again I got a $20 gift card to a local grocery store and a polo shirt. - and only the shop supervisors got polo shirts.</div>

polichik · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_confessionsrantsvents?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:038260de-fa34-4fc1-9baf-321334487a14Post:1991044d-98e0-4059-96c6-29b910bf5cf2">Re: Confessions/Rants/Vents?</a>:
[QUOTE]I see Rach on SB ocassionally, and the Vegas board (she's the mod there). I always think Anna is Poli.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

This makes me happy, because Anna is purdy :)

avsfan33 · December 2010

I'm being a brat and I know it but I'm slightly irritated..

I confess that I'm upset about FI having better friends. His friends said he could have the wedding on the moon and they'd be there, mine just get pissy. I get money is an issue but seriously? I understand that nobody is going to be as excited as you about your wedding and I'm being a huge whiny brat but my friends suck. It goes beyond the wedding thing but it'd be nice to have people try after everything I've done for them in the past. I'm prepared for a flame about being a whiny selfish brat. I swear I'm not. I'm just tired of people trying to bully me to fit their needs instead of my own, not just WR.

[Deleted User] · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_confessionsrantsvents?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:038260de-fa34-4fc1-9baf-321334487a14Post:88115971-22e4-41ba-bb31-1a3cc79762d3">Re: Confessions/Rants/Vents?</a>:
[QUOTE]Who still uses myspace? Anyway, on the topic of Christmas bonuses... my company put little velvet bags on the christmas tree in the lobby. We each had to take one this afternoon. In the bag was either a $20 bill or a $50 bill. Good idea or lamest Christmas bonus ever?
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Definitely lame. I got a $10 Target gift card handed to me by my director. I thought it was such an insult. Seriously, $10? What the hell can I do with $10? If that is all I could have afforded to give someone, I would have not given them anything at all.

pinkpinot · December 2010

ZOMG. Irish bitch with Italian seasoning is my new life motto.

Thank you Kiki for the 20 minutes of entertainment. Priceless.

pinkpinot · December 2010

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[QUOTE]I'm being a brat and I know it but I'm slightly irritated.. I confess that I'm upset about FI having better friends. His friends said he could have the wedding on the moon and they'd be there, mine just get pissy. I get money is an issue but seriously? I understand that nobody is going to be as excited as you about your wedding and I'm being a huge whiny brat but my friends suck. It goes beyond the wedding thing but it'd be nice to have people try after everything I've done for them in the past. I'm prepared for a flame about being a whiny selfish brat. I swear I'm not. I'm just tired of people trying to bully me to fit their needs instead of my own, not just WR.
Posted by avsfan33[/QUOTE]

Your doggie is soooo cute!

kikibaby · December 2010

Anybody who got any kind of bonus at all should not be complaining. I mean, a bonus is... a bonus, right? So, it's more than you get in a regular month.

salt78 · December 2010

That girl has the best MySpace ever. I hope she comes back to talk to us some more.

pinkpinot · December 2010

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[QUOTE]That girl has the best MySpace ever. I hope she comes back to talk to us some more.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

For realz. I heart all of her badges.

emilysmiths · December 2010

Ok I need advice!!! I have been with FH(well not FH as of this morning) for little over 4 years. We have been engaged for over a year. From day one his financial decisions have always bothered me bc I like to be VERY smart with my money. I like to not waste money on things and I like to be sure and have cushion for emergencies. WHICH has come in handy for HIS SAKE. ugg I feel like this is such a long story but I will try to make it short.

Before I meet fh he made some bad financial decisions, over the four years he has paid a lot of the debt off BUT I have picked up the price of living and any fun we have with my money that I have worked so hard to save and sacrificed having things I would like to haev and do in order to save. So-I had to pay like $1300 off for him about 6 months bc he had a dirt bike and lost it bc he couldn't pay for it (had the bike when we met and he has rode since he was 3), his 12 year old truck crapped out so I put $1000 down payment for him about 4 months ago and since he has bad credit he got like a 10% interest rate so we sat down & budgeted out a plan w/his income vs bills to where he could double up on the payment and get rid of it bc of the high interest. He has only paid double Once!! About 3 yrs ago his cousin paid off a credit card bill for fh as a favor to keep fh from payin interest-was about $8k!! Fh's balance for that has been at $300 since Oct and he has not made a payment. He borrowed the $ from my mom!!! to buy my engagement ring and has only made 3 payments to her, and he hasn't contributed to helping buy ONE christmas gift this year!! And to top it off!! I had just put another $1,030 on my bank card for him yesterday to help him pay for his schooling until his reserve military $ came in.

SOOO on top of all this- we got into a disagreement over the weekend and he got mad and slammed his hand down on his new phone (which he did not take the FREE phone as I would have - he paid $130 about 2 months ago) so now he needed a new phone- I had a 6 month old blackberry that he could have taken down to us cellular and activated at NO COST & I told him we really needed to do the cheapest when I saw him browsing new phones online- he got upset on Sunday when I said this but he said he knew I was right.(im getting to my point! sorry!)

So yesterday I hadn't heard from him all day and at 5:30 in the evening he calls me and had just left US Cellular and instead of activating blackberry we already had he bought a $180 phone!! I instantly got upset and he refused to talk to me about it- he just kept saying we will talk later, talk later, bla! and he had to be at work at 6pm so it didn't get resolved. I told him he had betrayed what we talked about on Sunday and he told me this morning that he only told me that to keep me happy bc he didn't want to argue and that I needed to compromise on things and what a good deal he got. I told him there is no good deal if you are buying things that aren't a need but a want when you can t even pay back your current obligations. All of his is on top of me finding out two years ago that he hadn't DONE his taxes for like two or three years straight!!!!

I point blank asked him this monring before I left for work if he was returning the phone or not today? he said "no." I told him that this was the last straw and that I was finished. I told him I didn't want him there when I got home and he wasn't welcome to stay the night there anymore that he needed to find his own place and that I would find someone with the same financial goals and someone that would have enough respect for me to respect what we talk about and not just give an anwser bc they think it is what I want to hear or to prevent a disagreement.

What do you guys think????????????????? Sorry for the long post

pinkpinot · December 2010

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[QUOTE]Ok I need advice!!! I have been with FH(well not FH as of this morning) for little over 4 years. We have been engaged for over a year. From day one his financial decisions have always bothered me bc I like to be VERY smart with my money. I like to not waste money on things and I like to be sure and have cushion for emergencies. WHICH has come in handy for HIS SAKE. ugg I feel like this is such a long story but I will try to make it short. Before I meet fh he made some bad financial decisions, over the four years he has paid a lot of the debt off BUT I have picked up the price of living and any fun we have with my money that I have worked so hard to save and sacrificed having things I would like to haev and do in order to save. So-I had to pay like $1300 off for him about 6 months bc he had a dirt bike and lost it bc he couldn't pay for it (had the bike when we met and he has rode since he was 3), his 12 year old truck crapped out so I put $1000 down payment for him about 4 months ago and since he has bad credit he got like a 10% interest rate so we sat down & budgeted out a plan w/his income vs bills to where he could double up on the payment and get rid of it bc of the high interest. He has only paid double Once!! About 3 yrs ago his cousin paid off a credit card bill for fh as a favor to keep fh from payin interest-was about $8k!! Fh's balance for that has been at $300 since Oct and he has not made a payment. He borrowed the $ from my mom!!! to buy my engagement ring and has only made 3 payments to her, and he hasn't contributed to helping buy ONE christmas gift this year!! And to top it off!! I had just put another $1,030 on my bank card for him yesterday to help him pay for his schooling until his reserve military $ came in. SOOO on top of all this- we got into a disagreement over the weekend and he got mad and slammed his hand down on his new phone (which he did not take the FREE phone as I would have - he paid $130 about 2 months ago) so now he needed a new phone- I had a 6 month old blackberry that he could have taken down to us cellular and activated at NO COST & I told him we really needed to do the cheapest when I saw him browsing new phones online- he got upset on Sunday when I said this but he said he knew I was right.(im getting to my point! sorry!) So yesterday I hadn't heard from him all day and at 5:30 in the evening he calls me and had just left US Cellular and instead of activating blackberry we already had he bought a $180 phone!! I instantly got upset and he refused to talk to me about it- he just kept saying we will talk later, talk later, bla! and he had to be at work at 6pm so it didn't get resolved. I told him he had betrayed what we talked about on Sunday and he told me this morning that he only told me that to keep me happy bc he didn't want to argue and that I needed to compromise on things and what a good deal he got. I told him there is no good deal if you are buying things that aren't a need but a want when you can t even pay back your current obligations. All of his is on top of me finding out two years ago that he hadn't DONE his taxes for like two or three years straight!!!! I point blank asked him this monring before I left for work if he was returning the phone or not today? he said "no." I told him that this was the last straw and that I was finished. I told him I didn't want him there when I got home and he wasn't welcome to stay the night there anymore that he needed to find his own place and that I would find someone with the same financial goals and someone that would have enough respect for me to respect what we talk about and not just give an anwser bc they think it is what I want to hear or to prevent a disagreement. What do you guys think?????????????????
Posted by emilysmiths[/QUOTE]

Holy wall of text, Batman.

salt78 · December 2010

Paragraphs are your friend.

ETA: Okay I just read the part about how he borrowed money from your mom to buy your engagement ring. What a loser.

aleighk1 · December 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/Rants/Vents? : Holy wall of text, Batman.
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]

<div>I refuse to read all of that. I thought we were taught how to use paragraphs in elementary school?</div>

kikibaby · December 2010

emily, girlfriend, we can't read that. Go back, put in some paragraphs, normal punctuation and take out some extraneous info and try again.

salt78 · December 2010

Okay Emily...from skimming your post, I'd say it sounds like kicking him out and breaking up with him was a good thing if he is taking all your money and not doing his taxes and borrowing money from your mom to buy your engagement ring.

The second I knew that my husband had done something like that, he would have been out the door. I can't believe you stayed engaged to him for a year.

I wish this post had it's own post.

kikibaby · December 2010

Ok, so I went ahead and kinda read that.

I think you're better off moving on- he sounds very irresponsible, and you sound like you're responsible with your money. This would be a HUGE issue if you got married, and trust me- people don't change. Money is the biggest issue couples fight over, so you can't start out on opposite ends of the spectrum like that.

NuggetBrain · December 2010

Ha! I wish Noodle had've asked Moms Nugget to pay for her daughter's e-ring. She would have chewed his damn ear off.

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