Hi There Ladies!
So I lovethe knot toronto for the amazing people who are so supportive and willing to share in their special days and planning with everyone else! It makes for such a good community!
So here's my problem, We've had our eye on a reception space and photgrapher for a few months now but unfortunately due to financial reasons we haven't been able to put down deposits, but now due to some AMAZING raises we are FINALLY able to put everything down! yeahhhh !!!!!! Only to find out that our date has already been taken for both the venue and photgrapher.....
I am sooo disapointed!!! So both the photgrapher and venue have the week before open yeahh!! (the date isn't a huge deal to us) onnnlllyyyy my lovely good friend and the lovely wife of FI's best man lets me know that they already have a wedding that day for another friend.......
So now I'm soooo stuck !!! Do I go ahead and get the wedding venue and photgrapher that I want in the month (November 2011 ) that I want and for the (discounted because of the month) price that I want/can afford and say sorry to her that she has to choose between our weddings and make FI's best man not even get to choose? or Do I reschedule the entire wedding and try for a march 2013 wedding in order to have her there?
She's a really good friend of ours, her husband and my FI have been best friends since they were in grade school and since we've been together I've gotten to be good friends with them, her hubby is our sons godfather even. But I don't know if it would be a deal breaker if she wasn't at the wedding.....
What would you do?