so recently my best friend of 10 years, who is my maid of honor and i had a falling out. she of course took herself out of the wedding. i asked my cousin to be my new maid of honor, for several reasons. 1: she wants to help with my wedding, as the other didnt. 2: she is planning my bridal party and my bachlorette party, as my old moh didnt have the time to do so.... was it bad of me to ask my cousin, who i should have clearly asked in the first place, to be my new maid of honor? its hard, cuz every since we were kids, my friend and i always said we would be each others maid of honors, but as the time actually came it wasnt the right choice.
and if this friend does come back into my life before the wedding, should i allow her to be in the wedding, even if its just as a bridesmaid?