There was a post on the "Budget" board about how much you're spending on your wedding, and I think it would be interesting to post the same question here. I liked the definition on another post that "luxury" is not necessarily a certain set number, but perhaps knowing that you're getting everything you want, without having to settle. Or, maybe some just consider it a really expensive wedding. Either way...
We were planning on $20K, but now our budget is up to $24K (not including rings or HM). The rise is mostly due to catering/rentals (now up to ~$11K) - we're getting exactly the menu we want, a full bar, and all the little extras our caterer offers (she's also our day-of coordinator). The other big expense is photography - I don't know if the $3K price tag seems high for anyone else, but we were originally wanting to spend only $1K, so it's high for us.
I've already ordered my dream dress (only $1K, and I adore it) and I'm planning on splurging on shoes and jewelry. Hopefully, I'll be giving my FI a platinum wedding band, as well. The ceremony and reception band we've hired is amazing, but we're getting a major discount on them since we're musicians and they're our friends.
Those are probably the most "luxuriuos" aspects of my wedding. What about everyone else?