Hello Nebraska ladies
I'm from a small town about an hour south of Lincoln. I am thinking about making one of my friends my personal attendant. I know she would be so good at helping me do things (if I asked her...not that I plan to do so...a LOT of things can be done by myself). Every wedding that I have been to has had a personal attendant but I posted a comment about it in the Bridal Party board and I got a whole bunch of back lash! A lot of those ladies thought having a friend be your personal attendant is the most awful thing that you could do and that you shouldn't have one unless you pay for it. They said it's so rude to have your friend go around gophering all day for you and be your "personal slave". I personally don't see it like that. I want her help but not with being my slave. She has already expressed an interest in helping with flowers and I know she would make a great personal attendant.
Are you guys having one? Do you think it's wrong to have one? I always thought it was really common. At least in Nebraska...