My fiance's Dad originally said he was going to pay for the 3 day hotel stay for our honeymoon. He said he had money set aside for it. Our honeymoon was just going to be a 3 day road trip to the coast. Well, he kept telling us that he was going to send the money, but never did. I certainly never thought that he had to pay for our hotel, but the fact that we were counting on it and it never came through is kind of annoying. Anyways, with everything going on right now, we can't afford the honeymoon on our own right now. I feel bad because people just threw me a "honeymoon shower" which included everyone giving me things to use on our honeymoon and even tickets to attractions in the honeymoon city. Now, I won't me able to use them, and feel bad if they find out. The "honeymoon shower" was thrown by other members of my fiance's family with the idea in their heads too that the father was giving us the honeymoon.
Now to the question, my fiance said he wants to do a money dance at the wedding and tell people it is to raise money for a honeymoon. I'm not really wanting to do this because I think is it a little tacky asking people for money. Plus, will it make his dad uncomfortable when it is announced at the wedding that it is for a honeymoon (since he is the one who originally said it was his gift).