Hi! I am one half of a same-sex couple getting married 12/13/14. We are
having a winter wedding and are planning on our bridesmaids wearing
long dresses in different shades of blue... my concern is that one of
the girls whom i am thinking about having in my wedding will not (and i
would never ask her to) wear a dress... anybody have any experience with
butch bridesmaids or been to a wedding with not all feminine bms? My
partner wants to be the only female wearing a vest and while we are two
women- we really want to not accentuate the fact that this is a "gay
wedding" by wearing suits and ties(although no offense to those who did-
consider it our own homophobia)
Any suggestions on what my bm can wear without throwing off the whole look of my girls in wintery elegance... i'm considering not having her for this reason.. and i know that makes me selfish and a horrible person... this is a battle...