HisGirlFriday, that's not true. We did follow her to TH AFTER she started talking shit about NEY. The girls initially all told us we were mean to her, but have since changed their tunes after discovering for themselves what a nightmare she is.
ETA: Once they realized how right we were, they gave her some hard truths, and now she's run back here as we ALL predicted.
I am making my life better. I'm going to a therapist, I'm looking for a more permanent job closer to where I will be living with my BF.
Being attacked at every damn thing I say is completely different than being called out. Being followed around by a bunch of internet strangers intent on making people aware of the "Crazy Bubbles" is completely different than being called out. So yeah, go fuck yourself.
HisGirlFriday, that's not true. We did follow her to TH AFTER she started talking shit about NEY. The girls initially all told us we were mean to her, but have since changed their tunes after discovering for themselves what a nightmare she is.
Then I stand corrected. But not all of us did -- I certainly didn't -- so her accusation that lumped me and you into the "following her around" thread is still wrong.
Because as long as she's not selling her crazy here, I don't much care what she's doing.
I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'
I am making my life better. I'm going to a therapist, I'm looking for a more permanent job closer to where I will be living with my BF.
Being attacked at every damn thing I say is completely different than being called out. Being followed around by a bunch of internet strangers intent on making people aware of the "Crazy Bubbles" is completely different than being called out. So yeah, go fuck yourself.
So much vitriolic abuse.
Pssst...she doesn't know what that word means. And she doesn't like looking up words she doesn't know as is evidenced from her whole "Why I can't work in Real Estate discussion."
I am making my life better. I'm going to a therapist, I'm looking for a more permanent job closer to where I will be living with my BF.
Being attacked at every damn thing I say is completely different than being called out. Being followed around by a bunch of internet strangers intent on making people aware of the "Crazy Bubbles" is completely different than being called out. So yeah, go fuck yourself.
We're not following you around. You keep coming back here. Do you understand the difference?
None of us went to the Treehouse ProBoards and called you out on your crazy. We figured you were gone from here, good riddance, and all was well with the world.
Then your crazy blew up over there (I watched), and now you're back. But that's not us chasing you. That's you chasing drama and validation.
Um, no. Some did follow me over there. Here's the link where they all came over and attacked me:
Oh FOR FUCKS SAKE with the "they attacked me" BULLSHIT.
You are an immature, selfish, lazy, DELUSIONAL drama queen. The ladies on the TH had a great suggestion - take your laptop to your next therapy appointment, and show your therapist. See what she thinks. I guarantee the number will go up to 51.
@bubbles053009 - Shoes has most definitely gone through hard times but she recognized her problems, got help, and came through it a strong, amazing woman. You could do the same but only if you admit some things about yourself and start really working toward a change.
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
You know what that ENTIRE response was? Excuse after excuse after excuse as to why you are where you are in your life.
You don't know me...or my MANY hardships.
Bet you didn't know that I've been raped TWICE. Bet you didn't know that one of those times was my 2nd semester of college, which led to a definite "rough patch." Bet you didn't know I was unemployed for nearly 9 months while I found this job...and I pounded the pavement EVERY DAY looking for this job, which is AMAZING.
I've lived financially independent of my parents since I was 17! My parents didn't even pay for my wedding!
I had a shit childhood and bounced back and forth between my parents MULTIPLE times because of their ugly custody battle. Sometimes I was only permitted to go with the CLOTHES ON MY BACK, and didn't get to say goodbye to family or friends...and was CARRIED out of the courtroom.
And you know what, I don't use ANY of that as an excuse as to why my life isn't better. In fact, I have a pretty good life REGARDLESS of all of that ugliness, and it's made me an even stronger person.
I have no idea what is going on here but when I saw the title of the thread I immediately thought of that Annie Lennox song "tell me... Why-y-y". You should all be really happy you didn't hear me really sing that. I admit I am completely tone deaf.
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
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No, no. Fuck YOU.
You have admitted on more than one occasion that the reason community college "didn't work out for you" is because you were a fucking lazy piece of shit who SLEPT THROUGH CLASS.
I grew up reallllllyy fucking poor and I put myself through four years of private college because I wanted a better life. I didn't make excuses or cry about my background - I fucking bucked up and did it.
You don't have a "real" job because of your OWN choices and decisions. I have a real job because I busted my ass and made MYSELF what I am today.
And yea, I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through, but if you think you are the only one here who has gone through a traumatic experience in your life, you are in for a rude fucking awakening. Do NOT act like a fucking martyr here, bitch. You have NO IDEA what some of us have been through - mostly because we don't use our hardships as an excuse to be a piece of shit.
@bubbles053009 - Shoes has most definitely gone through hard times but she recognized her problems, got help, and came through it a strong, amazing woman. You could do the same but only if you admit some things about yourself and start really working toward a change.
Which I'm doing yet no one fucking believes me.
Because you are acting the same way on the boards now as you were months ago when you were active on NEY. You keep posting excuse after excuse and refusing to take anyone's advice - that doesn't come across as trying to make a change. If you are really working toward making a change that's fantastic but I honestly think a true break from the internet (not just going to a different message board) would be a good idea.
Also, attacking Shoes and acting like your the only person who has gone through hard shit in life is incredibly immature.
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
ALL of us have fucking hardships... do you want to hear mine just to make you feel better?!?!?
FINE! I had an abusive step father who chased my mom around the house with a gun and tried to throw me out of a moving vehicle and who would lock me out on the back porch at 2AM just because. I also had a verbally abusive ex who shattered my confidence and self esteem. AND GUESS WHAT?!? I DIDNT EVEN FUCKING GO TO COLLEGE!!! I now have a "real job" and I pay for half the bills in the apartment with my fiance...and he makes $6 more an hour than me! ...OK GET THE FUCK over yourself PLEASE! We all have fucking hardships.
ETA BOTH of the "REAL" jobs I have had in the last 5 years I got from a temp agency..I just worked my ass of and did everything they asked to get HIRED.
@bubbles053009 - I was only lurking when the copious amount of drama occurred between you and the other posters so I won't comment on that, but the details you have posted about your past in this thread make me extremely uncomfortable and I don't like it. I'm all for openness and honesty, but some things don't need to be shared with the world. You might not have any issue posting those types of issues, but not everyone is necessarily okay with having to read it. And yes, I do realize it's the internet and you can say what you like, but please first consider how it might make others feel.
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the
bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
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No, no. Fuck YOU.
You have admitted on more than one occasion that the reason community college "didn't work out for you" is because you were a fucking lazy piece of shit who SLEPT THROUGH CLASS.
I grew up reallllllyy fucking poor and I put myself through four years of private college because I wanted a better life. I didn't make excuses or cry about my background - I fucking bucked up and did it.
You don't have a "real" job because of your OWN choices and decisions. I have a real job because I busted my ass and made MYSELF what I am today.
And yea, I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through, but if you think you are the only one here who has gone through a traumatic experience in your life, you are in for a rude fucking awakening. Do NOT act like a fucking martyr here, bitch. You have NO IDEA what some of us have been through - mostly because we don't use our hardships as an excuse to be a piece of shit.
I didn't go to community college. I went to a public four year college. My first semester was fine. But all that bullshit I went through with that asshole, was right at the beginning of my second semester and I could not concentrate on class anymore and was finding myself falling asleep.
I paid for two of the four semesters I went to school for myself with student loans. I'm still paying those back. I don't use what happened to me as an excuse to be anything but someone who is still trying to work through the issues caused by what happened.
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the
bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
********
No, no. Fuck YOU.
You have admitted on more than one occasion that the reason community college "didn't work out for you" is because you were a fucking lazy piece of shit who SLEPT THROUGH CLASS.
I grew up reallllllyy fucking poor and I put myself through four years of private college because I wanted a better life. I didn't make excuses or cry about my background - I fucking bucked up and did it.
You don't have a "real" job because of your OWN choices and decisions. I have a real job because I busted my ass and made MYSELF what I am today.
And yea, I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through, but if you think you are the only one here who has gone through a traumatic experience in your life, you are in for a rude fucking awakening. Do NOT act like a fucking martyr here, bitch. You have NO IDEA what some of us have been through - mostly because we don't use our hardships as an excuse to be a piece of shit.
I didn't go to community college. I went to a public four year college. My first semester was fine. But all that bullshit I went through with that asshole, was right at the beginning of my second semester and I could not concentrate on class anymore and was finding myself falling asleep.
I paid for two of the four semesters I went to school for myself with student loans. I'm still paying those back. I don't use what happened to me as an excuse to be anything but someone who is still trying to work through the issues caused by what happened.
Bolded = EXCUSE
Called it. I don't expect anyone to understand how trying it is for an 18 year old to have all her skeletons come out of her closet at a hearing that wasn't private in front of strangers and my parents who had no clue. Especially when it doesn't get resolved in the way it should.
HAVE YOU NOT READ WHAT SHOES AND I BOTH POSTED! EVERYONE HAS TRAUMA! I HAVE IT, SHOES HAS IT, EVERYONE HAS IT. The difference between us is you, is we MOVE PAST it! We make ourselves BETTER because of it instead of letting it control the rest of our LIVES! FUCK BUBBLES, GET OVER IT!
And really? You ladies really have no lives if you have to constantly make fun of someone on TWO boards. Honestly, you all say I'm exhausting. Look in the fucking mirror.
Us TWO ladies? Are you really deluded enough to think we're the only two who are watching this train wreck?
There are at least three dozen women actively watching this hilarity.
And I am not making fun of you. I am calling you out. We all TRIED to HELP you. You didn't want help. You wanted to play the POOR ME game because it was easier because you are too goddamn LAZY to look in the mirror and acknowledge how RIGHT we ALL were.
And indeed, I do have a life. I am sitting in my gorgeous apartment that I pay for without the help of mommy and daddy. And I have to go to work in the morning...at my real job. That pays a real salary. In which I do real work instead of "pretending to shred paper." And I've got my real college degree hanging on the wall at said real job. Pathetic existence, isn't it?
Great for you! So proud of you! College didn't work out for me. I went through a rough patch the beginning of my second semester and it just went down from there.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the
bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
********
No, no. Fuck YOU.
You have admitted on more than one occasion that the reason community college "didn't work out for you" is because you were a fucking lazy piece of shit who SLEPT THROUGH CLASS.
I grew up reallllllyy fucking poor and I put myself through four years of private college because I wanted a better life. I didn't make excuses or cry about my background - I fucking bucked up and did it.
You don't have a "real" job because of your OWN choices and decisions. I have a real job because I busted my ass and made MYSELF what I am today.
And yea, I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through, but if you think you are the only one here who has gone through a traumatic experience in your life, you are in for a rude fucking awakening. Do NOT act like a fucking martyr here, bitch. You have NO IDEA what some of us have been through - mostly because we don't use our hardships as an excuse to be a piece of shit.
I didn't go to community college. I went to a public four year college. My first semester was fine. But all that bullshit I went through with that asshole, was right at the beginning of my second semester and I could not concentrate on class anymore and was finding myself falling asleep.
I paid for two of the four semesters I went to school for myself with student loans. I'm still paying those back. I don't use what happened to me as an excuse to be anything but someone who is still trying to work through the issues caused by what happened.
Bolded = EXCUSE
Called it. I don't expect anyone to understand how trying it is for an 18 year old to have all her skeletons come out of her closet at a hearing that wasn't private in front of strangers and my parents who had no clue. Especially when it doesn't get resolved in the way it should.
FOR FUCK'S SAKE, YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS DEALT WITH TRAUMA. YOU ARE JUST THE ONLY ONE WHO USES TRAUMA AS AN EXCUSE TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU ARE THE WAY YOU ARE.
HAVE YOU READ NOTHING OF THE TRAUMA WE HAVE ALL POSTED?!?
Bubbles, I'm totally neutral toward you; but I think part of why it seems like people are coming out of the woodwork "attacking" you is because it seems like every discussion you comment on, you somehow hijack the thread (I'm not sure if you're noticing this) about some issue you have with your personal life/ some other knottie/ the stars not being aligned/ your left eyelash being crooked/ etc.- and when people are like "WTF?!" you just come out guns a blazing and assume that people don't know you (which we didn't until you over shared a lot of personal information) and don't even try to hear out some of the solid advice you were getting.
It's just not cool with some people.
There are also the people who see that you commented and start popping popcorn for the ensuing shit show.
I'm not trying to jump on the bash bubbles bandwagon, but seriously -
No disrespect towards your hardships, but stop using them as a crutch for poor decisions. I don't know what all the animosity is towards you, but this thread alone gives me a headache. You can own up to your mistakes and improve them without a string of never-ending excuses, or trying to get pity to swerve the attention elsewhere.
"Stuart was scared, but he loved Margalo, Mommy. And there is nothing bigger than love." -The Bean
"His farts smell like Satan's asshole mixed with a skunk's vagina. But it's okay, because I love him." -CSousa
oh my...this turned into something completely different. I am sorry that I caused some drama. I just felt like a lot of the stuff I had been reading seem harsh/mean. Maybe they weren't meant to be, but that is what happens when all you can see are words and cannot hear the voice behind it.
I do understand that when you post on something like this, you open yourself up to a lot and you need to be prepared to handle it.
oh my...this turned into something completely different. I am sorry that I caused some drama. I just felt like a lot of the stuff I had been reading seem harsh/mean. Maybe they weren't meant to be, but that is what happens when all you can see are words and cannot hear the voice behind it.
I do understand that when you post on something like this, you open yourself up to a lot and you need to be prepared to handle it.
Then perhaps don't assume that everything you read that you don't like is meant in a harsh/mean way. I know it's hard to do and I've had to re-evaluate how I've perceived some posts because I was being sensitive. But just because someone says something I disagree with or don't like in a blunt fashion doesn't mean they were being mean.
I'm not trying to jump on the bash bubbles bandwagon, but seriously -
No disrespect towards your hardships, but stop using them as a crutch for poor decisions. I don't know what all the animosity is towards you, but this thread alone gives me a headache. You can own up to your mistakes and improve them without a string of never-ending excuses, or trying to get pity to swerve the attention elsewhere.
Just my 2 (unwelcomed) cents.
THIS Bubble#s... THIS. Add me to the list of people who were raped. I also had the lovely experience of becoming pregnant from it and going through an abortion four weeks before I graduated from college. But you know what, I have never, NOT ONE SINGLE SOLITARY TIME, used that as an excuse for why I wouldn't work hard to try to make something of myself. FFS, you got your battery fixed at 11:30 IN THE MORNING and 'didn't want to go to work'? WTF is that?
I cannot imagine the thought of my dirty laundry being aired in court. It would terrify the shit out of me. But it didn't happen to you. And it was years ago. And you have to stop using it as an excuse for why your temp jobs won't hire you. Or why it took you MONTHS no YEARS to finally call a therapist. Or why you don't have a clue about the basics of financial budgeting.
Finally, this whole 'following you around' concept... you realize that TK Treehouse is made up of ... OH MY GOD... people who used to be on TK. And some people who still are on TK. So don't be surprised if there's crossover. And another newsflash... Chit Chat is part of the same message board as NEY. So again, not 'following' you... you just keep shitting in the same neighborhood. Go try a gaming discussion forum, cause I can promise you, you'll never see me there.
If I had a dollar for every excuse @bubbles0532009 has spewed on here, I'd be a freaking millionaire.
Like PP's said, everyone has shit that they've gone through, but it's not an excuse to just kind of live life making it by with the skin of your teeth. Your BF is not your savior, you have to fix yourself.
There are SO many jobs out there. Even if there's something you're intersted and you're not trained/qualified/lazy/whatever, then volunteer. My friend volunteered at an animal hospital and they paid for her vet tech training school (or vet assistant school) and were willing to pay for her to finish up her BS in Biology and more than likely float her a loan for veterinary school. No one handed it to her.
Sometimes life's a shit sandwich, sometimes we're all lazy. But to just use it as a crutch or whatever is going to keep you down for a long time. I purposely flunked out of college at 19 because I wanted to move back home and was getting into drinking and drugs bad. My parents berated me for the whole winter break that I wasted so much of their money paying for a tuition for a private college just for me to go out and party. Guess what? The next day after getting back from Florida, I marched my ass to cosmetology school and signed up. I went to my old summer job and asked them if they'd take me back for a while. No one handed it to me, because I fucked up. From that point on, I realized that "hey, if I fuck shit up MYSELF, I need to fix it MYSELF".
OMG you have so much to learn, seriously. I hope you get help and realize how much better you can be for yourself.
Re: Why?
Approximately 50 women have all come to the same conclusion about you... And yet you STILL think that YOU are not the problem?!?
What in the actual FUCK is wrong with you?
ETA: Once they realized how right we were, they gave her some hard truths, and now she's run back here as we ALL predicted.
"You're our early 20's BSC scarecrow. They cower at your maturity." - lennonkdc
http://tktreehouse.proboards.com/thread/1460/thursday-complaints-5-december?page=4
It starts there and goes on and on.
Oh FOR FUCKS SAKE with the "they attacked me" BULLSHIT.
You are an immature, selfish, lazy, DELUSIONAL drama queen. The ladies on the TH had a great suggestion - take your laptop to your next therapy appointment, and show your therapist. See what she thinks. I guarantee the number will go up to 51.
"You're our early 20's BSC scarecrow. They cower at your maturity." - lennonkdc
You don't know me...or my MANY hardships.
Bet you didn't know that I've been raped TWICE. Bet you didn't know that one of those times was my 2nd semester of college, which led to a definite "rough patch." Bet you didn't know I was unemployed for nearly 9 months while I found this job...and I pounded the pavement EVERY DAY looking for this job, which is AMAZING.
I've lived financially independent of my parents since I was 17! My parents didn't even pay for my wedding!
I had a shit childhood and bounced back and forth between my parents MULTIPLE times because of their ugly custody battle. Sometimes I was only permitted to go with the CLOTHES ON MY BACK, and didn't get to say goodbye to family or friends...and was CARRIED out of the courtroom.
And you know what, I don't use ANY of that as an excuse as to why my life isn't better. In fact, I have a pretty good life REGARDLESS of all of that ugliness, and it's made me an even stronger person.
And great for you to have a real job. Must be nice. I don't have that luxury. I took the temp jobs because it was better than being unemployed and having no money. Yes, I hate it, which I why I'm working on getting out of it.
I never asked my parents to help me pay for an apartment or a car or anything! God, your life must be so fucking perfect that you never had hardships in your life. Great on you! You didn't have to deal with an asshole claiming up and down that he never molested you and when faced with the possibility of a trial had his lawyer mention something to have a hearing where my dirty laundry of things I did to cope with what he did to me came out. Luckily the
bastard plead guilty but I never go the closure I deserved it that case. So really, fuck you!
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No, no. Fuck YOU.
You have admitted on more than one occasion that the reason community college "didn't work out for you" is because you were a fucking lazy piece of shit who SLEPT THROUGH CLASS.
I grew up reallllllyy fucking poor and I put myself through four years of private college because I wanted a better life. I didn't make excuses or cry about my background - I fucking bucked up and did it.
You don't have a "real" job because of your OWN choices and decisions. I have a real job because I busted my ass and made MYSELF what I am today.
And yea, I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through, but if you think you are the only one here who has gone through a traumatic experience in your life, you are in for a rude fucking awakening. Do NOT act like a fucking martyr here, bitch. You have NO IDEA what some of us have been through - mostly because we don't use our hardships as an excuse to be a piece of shit.
Also, attacking Shoes and acting like your the only person who has gone through hard shit in life is incredibly immature.
I STILL have nightmares about her...all of these years later. The most recent one was on Christmas morning.
AND I have PTSD.
Shall I use these as excuses for why I'm not an astronaut?
I STILL have nightmares about her, 8 years later. The most recent of which was on Xmas Morning. And I have PTSD.
Should I use that as an excuse for why I'm not an astronaut?
HAVE YOU READ NOTHING OF THE TRAUMA WE HAVE ALL POSTED?!?
"His farts smell like Satan's asshole mixed with a skunk's vagina. But it's okay, because I love him." -CSousa
Still here and still fabulous!
If I had a dollar for every excuse @bubbles0532009 has spewed on here, I'd be a freaking millionaire.
Like PP's said, everyone has shit that they've gone through, but it's not an excuse to just kind of live life making it by with the skin of your teeth. Your BF is not your savior, you have to fix yourself.
There are SO many jobs out there. Even if there's something you're intersted and you're not trained/qualified/lazy/whatever, then volunteer. My friend volunteered at an animal hospital and they paid for her vet tech training school (or vet assistant school) and were willing to pay for her to finish up her BS in Biology and more than likely float her a loan for veterinary school. No one handed it to her.
Sometimes life's a shit sandwich, sometimes we're all lazy. But to just use it as a crutch or whatever is going to keep you down for a long time. I purposely flunked out of college at 19 because I wanted to move back home and was getting into drinking and drugs bad. My parents berated me for the whole winter break that I wasted so much of their money paying for a tuition for a private college just for me to go out and party. Guess what? The next day after getting back from Florida, I marched my ass to cosmetology school and signed up. I went to my old summer job and asked them if they'd take me back for a while. No one handed it to me, because I fucked up. From that point on, I realized that "hey, if I fuck shit up MYSELF, I need to fix it MYSELF".
OMG you have so much to learn, seriously. I hope you get help and realize how much better you can be for yourself.