My FI is adorable! He loves being involved in planning and heck he is even more excited and up to speed than i am. He wants to be in charge of every single detail and says he will be a sort of groomzilla. I find it adorable and think im lucky that he wants to be so involved. Anyone else with me?
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Re: Anyone else have a very involved groom?
well then he might have a problem at the wedding ..because things go wrong at weddings..in EVERYONE's weddings...there is no such thing as a "perfect" wedding. So he might just be worrying himself into an early grave...
Groomzilla control freaks are not sweet, cute, or adorable to me. If FI said anything about 'being in charge of every little detail' I would kindly remind him that this isn't a country for his rule of tyranny and it is our wedding. Not a fan of '___zilla' for anyone at anytime. I guess to each their own in this case.
Right now hes being all "I'm not telling you what I'm wearing, it will be a surprise"
This is after he was whining about how it wasn't fair that I got to tell him what to wear and he couldn't see my dress. (I told him he wasn't allowed to wear a cape) and then showed him a pic of my dress.
I love the boy, even if he does wear a cape I'd marry him, but dammit he's frustrating about some things.
One of us was concerned about whether the orange of the votives was more of an amber or a pumpkin colour.
That person was not me.
He has a dj that he really wants to use, it will be a $600 upgrade fee to our package through the venue. Since this is important to him, I think we are going to do it.
My FI also jokes about surprising me with his and his GM tux's since he will not be helping pick out my dress.
So far, I am enjoying the planning with him!