Hey , I'm so sorry you r going thru this. Not seeing you on mother's day bc mother in law more important. Nonsense . Sounds like the gf is a chip off old block of mom. Sounds like sons gf is a well....brat. idk best advice other than talk to your soon about how you'd like to be with him more , or make plans to take walks, lunches , etc things that don't break the bank. Invite son and gf or if gf doesn't come just son. Start to do all you can to make effort to be with son away from this so he can make sure it's what he wants . You are his mother , you deserve to be held high
July 12
Re: Where are you at? Planning wise!
A 9/27/14 bride here too!! Crazy how fast time flies!!
-Venue (ceremony & reception at the same place:Busch Stadium-deposit paid)
-Caterer (using Busch Stadium's caterer)
-Photographer (deposit paid)
-Videographer (deposit paid)
-DJ (deposit paid)
-Dress picked out and ordered (completely paid for! Phew)
-Save the Dates (in the process of being mailed!)
-Bridal Party (chosen and accepted)
-Guest List complete
-Hotel blocks booked
-Officiant booked
-colors (red, black and white)
-theme picked
-website complete
-Hair and makeup booked
*Have florist appts booked as well as our cake appt scheduled
-venue
-officiant
-cake
-dress (has even come in already, and it's perfect!)
-save the date cards arrived at my house
-photographer meeting is on Saturday to nail down whether our styles mesh
-in talks with a caterer we love to make sure we're in budget
-website mostly done but not published
We also have our theme picked and are looking for decor but I'm not sure that counts since I haven't bought or rented anything yet.
-venue
-catering
-flowers, need to send in deposit
-dress
-save the dates
-photographer
-DJ
-a friend of mine is an artist, she will be making our invitations
I'm getting married 9/13/14. Here's my list so far:
Everything is coming along!
I still have to order invites, finalize guest list (ugh, the hardest part of planning so far!), block rooms at a hotel, decide on candy to buy for candy/cookie bar, choose veil, shoes and jewelry, get whatever info is needed to give MOH for shower and bachelorette party, and decide on what gifts to give bridesmaids and parents. I can be a procrastinator, so I'm glad I'm checking things off my list.