My FI's family is pretty traditional- so I want to make it known that will NOT be taking his name name. During our introduction, I was going to ask the DJ to specifically introduce us using our individual first and last names.. something like, "I am happy to introduce for the first time as husband and wife, Mr. John Doe and Ms Jane Smith." Without being flat out rude about it, are there any other subtle ways I can add this to the ceremony (we are self-uniting, a very cool Pa specific thing) or the reception?