How do you tell a bridesmaid that you no longer want her in the wedding?
I was talking to one of mine about the wedding and how some of the other bridesmaids stood me up at an appointment and it hurt my feelings. She then proceeded to tell me my wedding wasn't a priority for anyone else but me and that I should just understand even if people make plans with me that I should understand their lives change. I then told her that if it wasn't a priority to anyone else that they shouldn't have accepted my invitation to be a bridesmaid, I mean what is the point of them if they aren't there to help and be supportive? And she said well its May and your wedding is December so you can't expect people to remember this stuff.
She truly hurt my feelings and this isn't the first time either.
I am planning to give her the boot bc I don't want to look back in 10 years and regret having her in all my pictures or running the risk she will hurt me again.
Am I wrong?