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I have a friend who is childfree by choice, and while I respect her views, I am, quite frankly, really over her sanctimonious attitude that 'the only reason people have children is to fulfill a societal expectation. No one could possibly genuinely want children.'
Just because YOU don't doesn't mean the rest of us don't.
I get the "what if your mom had decided not to have kids?" on a regular basis from a few people specifically. Usually, I am graceful about it, but one day I snarked back "what if Hitler/Pol Pot/Stalin's (don't remember which mass murderer I referenced) mother decided not to have kids?" Even that (admitted) rudeness did not stop that question and he has brought it up again since then.
People who just don't understand our choice usually placate themselves with the notion that we can always adopt WHEN we change our minds. (H is adopted, so we are big supporters of adoption FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT KIDS). I shouldn't have to tell you about H having his vas deferens snipped for you to STFU about my life choices.